Important and overlooked fact about women

[Gro0ver]

Been reading the book The Definitive Book of Body Language by Allan & Barbara Pease and it turns out that women are much better at reading body language than men. The authors are also of the opinion that most of the time, how you say something is much more important than what is being said.

An example of this in practice is how, in a relationship, it is much harder for a man to deceive a woman than vice versa. Men are generally bad at reading body language.

This has a lot of implications for DJ's, particularly aspiring PUA's. Most women can tell the difference between real self-confidence and false confidence, so in my opinion, building up a confident state of mind and bouncing back quickly from setbacks is absolutely paramount. Also, it may be helpful to be more aware of what non-verbal signals you are giving off.

It is difficult to hide a negative mental state so try to get yourself in a good frame of before you hit the field

 

[Demonpenz]

I tried to have body language like don draper and I had sex 5 minutes later.

 

[synergy1]

this is where I drew my knowledge from a few posts back. generally, body language tells the truth where our words might lie. This is how women can see through a fake 'confident' man like seeing through a plastic bag. The more you try and 'hide' it, the more it will manifest itself in cluters all of which women will read ..as stated. The trick is to be slightly aware, and be able to read some of the signals and maybe give a few off if your good at it. It helps to be confident mindset so your body does most of the work on autopilot.

 

[BeDJ]

Confidence is not what you own, but what you have.
Confidence is doing what you want and learning from mistakes.
Confidence is never verbal, only non-verbal.
Confidence is accepting your flaws, not compensating for them.
Confidence is not an attitude, but a way of life.
Confidence is attractive and attracted.