Trying to figure this issue out. Thinking out loud here. My thinking has gone finally down to this:
We know looks are important to women, just not as important as they are to men.
What's important is having a look that signifies confidence in yourself. You are into yourself because you value yourself. Anything that communicates that you don't value yourself is a killer. You need a PLAN, MAN.
Fine. What does this mean in operational terms?
Improve on the things you can (weight, teeth, skin, etc)
Ignore things you can't change and don't let them bother you.
You want women attracted to YOU. You will approach with no problem if you see signs that they are interested. You should never think that you need to improve just for them. You can get away with some crooked teeth or a broken nose. The thing is, do you want to have these working against you in your life? Your career might suffer, for example. You do want sex and you do need to make this easier.
Goods in more appealing packages sell better than those that are not. Wrapping is just paper. Think about all the products women buy at huge prices just because they put a FRENCH NAME ON IT. It's the same crap as any other crap made in China! Perception rules. Physically men are all the same (structurally, with normal anatomy) and women are all the same (same exclusions apply). Think about how careless women are when they shop for ****. Are they concerned about how things will function at all in a practical sense? Not at ALL.
Package yourself appropriately. You can raise your price. Raising your price means you have more choices. If you have more choices then YOU CAN REJECT THEM if you want to. Package for the market you are trying to meet. Younger women want a different package than older ones.
I often think I want a Ferrari. They look cool. Are they really better cars? They do break down a lot. The point I'm making here is that a Ferrari is an engine (yes, with a powerful one) and brakes, and suspension underneath but what makes it $200,000 is the shape of the sheet metal. It is just transportation. It's the perception factor again. It's being seen in a Ferrari that matters.
So my point is to also work on perceptions as they are crucial. Try to find out how you are perceived. This is difficult as no one will really give an honest opinon. What matters is common sense really. What kind of women are approaching you. The loosers? Quality women will approach you if you are quality. You DO have to externalize quality if you want quality women to be interested. There's no free lunch (i do like snacks, though).
Lastly, if you spend all your money on women trying to impress them you are a fool. Spend it on YOU. That $500 set of earrings (guilty!) should have went on something for you.
The bottom line is this. Women aren't into looks as much as you are. Improve on what you can and let the rest go. Don't think that unchangable "flaws" are going to sink you.
We know looks are important to women, just not as important as they are to men.
What's important is having a look that signifies confidence in yourself. You are into yourself because you value yourself. Anything that communicates that you don't value yourself is a killer. You need a PLAN, MAN.
Fine. What does this mean in operational terms?
Improve on the things you can (weight, teeth, skin, etc)
Ignore things you can't change and don't let them bother you.
You want women attracted to YOU. You will approach with no problem if you see signs that they are interested. You should never think that you need to improve just for them. You can get away with some crooked teeth or a broken nose. The thing is, do you want to have these working against you in your life? Your career might suffer, for example. You do want sex and you do need to make this easier.
Goods in more appealing packages sell better than those that are not. Wrapping is just paper. Think about all the products women buy at huge prices just because they put a FRENCH NAME ON IT. It's the same crap as any other crap made in China! Perception rules. Physically men are all the same (structurally, with normal anatomy) and women are all the same (same exclusions apply). Think about how careless women are when they shop for ****. Are they concerned about how things will function at all in a practical sense? Not at ALL.
Package yourself appropriately. You can raise your price. Raising your price means you have more choices. If you have more choices then YOU CAN REJECT THEM if you want to. Package for the market you are trying to meet. Younger women want a different package than older ones.
I often think I want a Ferrari. They look cool. Are they really better cars? They do break down a lot. The point I'm making here is that a Ferrari is an engine (yes, with a powerful one) and brakes, and suspension underneath but what makes it $200,000 is the shape of the sheet metal. It is just transportation. It's the perception factor again. It's being seen in a Ferrari that matters.
So my point is to also work on perceptions as they are crucial. Try to find out how you are perceived. This is difficult as no one will really give an honest opinon. What matters is common sense really. What kind of women are approaching you. The loosers? Quality women will approach you if you are quality. You DO have to externalize quality if you want quality women to be interested. There's no free lunch (i do like snacks, though).
Lastly, if you spend all your money on women trying to impress them you are a fool. Spend it on YOU. That $500 set of earrings (guilty!) should have went on something for you.
The bottom line is this. Women aren't into looks as much as you are. Improve on what you can and let the rest go. Don't think that unchangable "flaws" are going to sink you.
