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Hey, im new to this forum, ive been reading loads of threads and ive read ALL of the bible.Im still a really shy person so wot can i do to become less shy? apart from becoming drunk or smoking weed.


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put yourself in a situation that requires you not to be shy.

go to a party and talk to girls.

the best way to face a problem like that is to take it head on.

talk to random girls in class, or even better- random girls outside of class (do a cold approach)
 

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if you had read the Bible, you wouldnt be asking a question like this.
I'm usually respectful of new users, but come on.
WE CANT MAKE YOU STOP BEING SHY.
You can only find it within yourself.


and your post style sounds a lot like that other "shy" pvssy.
 

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Yes, its easier if you start on people who you dont think are super fit. The aim is to get comfortable speaking to strangers, just talk about random crap. Who they are, what they are doing, where they are going or even the weather.
 

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ok, thanks JHS, but can you give me some advice on cold approaching im not very good in that thanks alot m8.
 

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I swear i just did that. Do you not know what a cold approach is, i doubt uv read much of the Bible as it helps get over shyness.

Basically a cold approach is where you go up to some random person you have never seen before (or rarely) and never spoken to. Then you start speaking to them, you can get shut down, but if you say something nice (not a compliment) just friendly, then they will most likely speak to you. Its aim is to get u used to just going up to people and speaking.
 

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ok thanks mate, i didnt say wot a cold approach was tho i just said can u help me coz ive never done it before.
 

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I wouldn't attemp a cold approach straight away. You have to realise that having a GIRL wont make your life complete. Passions will, go to the gym, get a hobby. After this, the women will come.
 

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Originally posted by I want a GiRl
yeh ok ty
Your not new Mr. Shy

Yes i see you ;)

Don't lie to us dude, i'll catch you.
 

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Your first name was bad, your 2nd is worst.

Read the bible or use the search function.
 

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Is Vincent a moderator or is he not

and

@jonny football hero: thats something that i agree with, but shyness leads through all parts of life, you have to conquer it in one part to be able to enjoy others.
 

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Originally posted by JSH
Is Vincent a moderator or is he not
Look at the top of the page, and the writing under my name :D

I looked at both IP's of the accounts you used Mr. Shy, they're identical :rolleyes:

Quit being such an attention *****.
 

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Originally posted by I want a GiRl
Hey, im new to this forum, ive been reading loads of threads and ive read ALL of the bible.Im still a really shy person so wot can i do to become less shy? apart from becoming drunk or smoking weed.


ty
Try the bootcamp. It will rip you away from your comfort zone.
 

Black Casanova

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hmm

Originally posted by Vincent
Look at the top of the page, and the writing under my name :D

I looked at both IP's of the accounts you used Mr. Shy, they're identical :rolleyes:

Quit being such an attention *****.

*koff*

Owned:D
 

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ok im just starting week 1 of boot camp very intresting stuff im gonna go out and try it :)
 
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