I'm sure I used to be one... but white knights appall me!

OnTheWayUp

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Hi all,

Just a quick vent about something that happened to me at a house party last night.

Me and a load of friends (mostly girls :)) were sitting on a couch at about 2am. I had my arms around two drunk girls with bfs, both of whom are hot (6-7) but with AWish tendencies, one of whom I've already made out with/ groped on the dancefloor a couple of times.

Cue the arrival of the white knight. I had never witnessed such a stunning example of this sort of behaviour until last night, at least, never witnessed it and simultaneously been conscious of it. He spent the first 10 mins hugging and consoling the biggest AW in my social circle, who was crying because her bf broke up with her last week.

Then he turned his attention to me, and, with a palpable trace of spite, said: "You do know X has a boyfriend." I cringed inside at the guy's white knight attempt to shame me, and replied: "Yes. But as a friend of mine always says, just because there is a goalkeeper, it doesn't mean that you shouldn't go for goal." Everyone laughed. Oddly enough, the girl in question followed me out of the party a few minutes later, and we ended up making out/ groping for about 20 mins outside. Lol. I came up with a range of excuses to get her to come to my place, she declined each time. Fine by me. We're going to loads of parties together in the next couple of weeks, it's a matter of time and logistics.

Are most guys really like this? His attempt to make me feel shame at hitting on a taken girl was honestly pretty pathetic, and I feel I subjected it to the ridicule it deserved. The really absurd thing about white knights is their hypocrisy: if a naked taken girl walked into his room and offered to suck him off, can you really see him refusing? On the grounds of "it being morally wrong?" Equally, if our mutual AW friend who has been dumped by her bf tried to hit on him, can you really see him refusing her on the grounds of "giving her time and space to get over the relationship?"

The way white knights deny their masculinity appalls me.


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Credos

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Here we call it afcs...

Seems he's kinda gay (hugging etc, craving for attention? Guess he's also an attention *****, especially for putting you on the spot) or just a social retard :) , welcome to my world, I know quite a bunch of em too. Doesn't mean it's a bad thing for me though :rolleyes:, you handled the situation right.

I do have a no chicks with boyfriends I know policy to avoid trouble. However she doesn't have a boyfriend so it's no problem especially after HE dumped her.

PS: she wants to use you to make her "ex" jealous, so that he'd come back, so make sure you tap her before she goes back
 

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The shaming tactic was a little b1tch made. My guess is that he was just hating on you because you were getting play from a hot girl and he was stick playing doctor fill

Though I do agree with him on one thing. I find going after taken girls extremely disrespectful and a little weak myself. But to each his own
 

OnTheWayUp

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BlackMack177 said:
Though I do agree with him on one thing. I find going after taken girls extremely disrespectful and a little weak myself. But to each his own
This is what I used to think. This website and others, plus experience in the field, have proved that it is absolutely in order to go after a taken girl if they're giving you IOIs. The one exception I make to this rule is if you know the girl's bf: there, I would put "bros before hos" and respect my mate's relationship. If a random girl doesn't respect her relationship, why should you?

Check out a thread I started on the subject of getting taken girls to cheat with you a little while back. When I started the thread, I was on the fence. http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=181094
 
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