Im so confused, i dont know what to do...

[oakraiderz2]

Some people may think this is a bad question but whatever.

Ok, i went out with a girl for a month and it just ended last week (it was just a "break"). And i was told by some people that while we were goin out that she had sex with some other kid. ANd suprisinly the next day was when she wanted to go on a break. But the thing is that i still REALLY like her. And i was talking to her tonight and i know that she still likes me. I had told her that i had been thinkin about her eventhough i was around a lot of good looking girls.

Anyway we were just talkin and i was slowly realizing that what i was telling her was what i thought i would only be able to tell to a few girls. I never pictured myself saying any of the things i did about my views on life and what not. The fact that i told her just got me thinking a lot about her. BUT the problem is that everyone has heard that she had sex with someguy while we were goin out. She asked if i want things to be like they were before and i said im not sure. I do but as shallow as it may seem i do care what people think about that.

So i dont know what i should do...It all feels so "right" with her. But i dont want peoples two cents or opinions. But i also think its just the fact i want what we had before and if i got back with her i would just be taking it cause its there. So...give me yalls advice/opinions/comments. I NEED help!

 

[DJoneday]

I don't know about you, but if a chick screws around behind my back, then there's no excuse. Next her. What would stop her from doing it again? And if this was while she liked you, think about later when her whole infatuation stage ("Hello snuggle buns!") is over? I'd say break it off before you get hurt man...just my opinion.

 

[trajhenkhet]

There are two views of reality. The first is that which is. The second is ones perception of it. One of these is not entirely accurate...

 

[oakraiderz2]

bump

 

[Oscar Wilde]

Start sleeping with her again if she's on for it. But don't give her your power. Find other women and sleep with them too.

Osc.

 

[DIESEL]

if she liked you that much she wouldn't:

a. ask for a "break"

b. fukk someone else behind your back.

The fact that you are still talking to this girl and spilling your guts like an AFC ***** b/c you REALLY LIKE HER is disgraceful, especially to one who's been on the board so long.

Be a man. Have some self-respect and dignity. Next the ho.

D

 

[oakraiderz2]

Originally posted by DIESEL
if she liked you that much she wouldn't:

a. ask for a "break"

b. fukk someone else behind your back.

The fact that you are still talking to this girl and spilling your guts like an AFC ***** b/c you REALLY LIKE HER is disgraceful, especially to one who's been on the board so long.

Be a man. Have some self-respect and dignity. Next the ho.

D

Yeh, i think it was just me being depressed cause i gotta flat and shyt. And no, i didnt spill my guts at all. I wasnt like "oh i like you sooo much" it wasnt anything like that. Ive pretty much figured it all out and i didnt really like her or nothing. But yea, that bytch already been nexted.

 

[htemorp]

Blah blah blah, all I see is some AFC guy crying...blah blah blah...

dude, isn't it obvious what you should do?