Im Sick Of Being Called A "sweeeetie"

[Lost Cause]

Goddddam this pisses me off. Everyone called me 'sweetie' or 'darling' or something of the sort. I am sick of it. What am I supposed to do to stop being called this?

This is a serious question too.... it really bothers me.

Am I too nice to people, do I smile too much, am I too personable? I have been told all the above.. I'm nice, I have a good smile and I'm very personable. But you know what... that doesn't do sh1t for me with ladies...

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

Get used to it buddy. That's just how things work, your the nice guy.

 

[Eileen]

I agree with PLM. Don't sweat on it, sweetheart.

(And never let a woman know this bothers you. She'll take advantage every time.)

 

[Paid Laid & Made]

LOL, what else are men good for? Use them and abuse them.

 

[jbbrain]

its been said countless times..the "Nice" part of your personality is not what is hindering you from getting laid.

I consider myself a nice guy-Thoughtful, sincere, honest. But, the difference between me and an AFC Nice guy is that I'm aggressive sexually, I'm not a doormat, I don't tolerate disrespect and I'm a hellofa challenge to girls I meet. I have a lot shyt going on for me so I won't settle for anythign but the very best. My thinking is based on the fact that I'm ther man, the DJ, the Prize, whatver the fvck you want to call it.

Being "nice" isn't what's not getting you laid. In fact, I think "nice guy" should forever be replaced with AFC because we get posters like you who think "Nice" is inherently bad and counter productive. In truth, it isn't. There's nothing wrong with being a nice guy.

But there's A LOT WRONG with a supplicating needy AFC who's too afraid to go after what he really wants.

Learn the difference.

 

[Porky]

Try throwing around a few crude sexual comments or "babies."

 

[Seeph]

I agree with JB, girls are always calling me sweetie and darlin etc.. because I am a nice guy, but i dont act needy, if a girl disrespects me I get a slight attitude about it and she knows she's messed up and has to fix it. I am ****y at time also, but not conceited.. there is nothing wrong with being a "nice guy" just dont be a wet puppy.

 

[epitome of evolution]

If someone threw a cigarette at you, would you knock thm down for it? If someone drank your beer, would you take more than your share of beer back or kick his ass? If not, maybe you aren't self respecting enough to have anyone call you anything but sweetie.

epitome.

 

[SDBmania]

What's wrong with being called that?

I'm in the same boat, but I have a feeling you just need to be more aggressive. Women are most likely NOT going to ask you out, you got to do it. Being nice and a "sweet guy" won't hurt your chances.

 

[legolas]

Try mocking them (mocking voice) "Thank you sweetheart"

 

[Crotch Sniffer]

You are being a total chump about this dude. This should not be affecting you this much. Stop being a little biatch about the situation and be the man for a change...

Instead of getting your panties in a twist, simply bounce the nicknames back onto them. If she calls you "sweetie" call her "babycakes" or "sweet tits"

In short, be PLAYFUL instead of INSULTED, it will get you farther.

 

[Mr.Hash wid da Stash]

Yeah dude I have the same problem, except it's only the old timers that call me that. Like women over the age of 40. Do the young hoes call you this too, I mean the chicks around your age....?

 

[Pepe Le Pew]

I had this problem w/ the word "buddy".........and it drove me crazy....!!.......So, I tried everything, (this is at my job), but nothing worked.........I had the last battle out not to long ago.........turns out when I am nice to the girls in my job...the start calling me buddy......so....I tried calling them sweety, etc... yet it didn't stop.....they challenged me even more.......then I totally NEXTED them..........my mind frame is 'get away from me psycho.......I'm nice to you but you try to abuse me? PSYCHO'........and I don't say a word to them like if I have some major problem..........and then watch them come back to you............watch them try to make friends with you..........watch them respect your space.......so the good ole silent treatment will work wonders............and it is because you really shouldn't let yourself get abused by anyone........it's cool to be cool.......but when girls see your kindness as weakness........give em a dose of your strength........some girls hate it when I call them M'am or psycho.....pal.......or the married ones that tease........mrs. and then their husbands last name..........after all they have no sexual hold of you.

 

[Pepe Le Pew]

OHHHHH!! and if some girls call you 'sweetheart' bring up immediatley your relationship status say "my GIRLfriend" "my wife" anyways it depends on who is the person the situation etc........guys are so desperate to miss out on a chance with a girl that they wont risk anything.......making them look lame and without backbone..........but I've learned this is not attractive to women ..........what is attractive is someone who is a challenge.......and immediately retaliates........some times when girls have called me "buddy" I say yeah "my GIRLfriend and I are going to the movies...." and they shut up.........and get all flustered and doofy.........GIRLS......if they call you on it like they know you are playing with them...........go off........"my beautiful, precious, lovely, perfect girlfriend"......etc........make stuff up and share it with us........coz I need more weapons for this. But overall the SILENT TREATMENT works the best.........remember mind frame 'GET AWAY FROM ME, YOU TALK DOWN TO ME AND YOU EXPECT ME TO SMILE BACK AT YOU, PSYCHO!' that's only to the girls you are having problems with.........not all girls should be dealt like this.