I'm mean???

[Kalen]

I'm taking a summer school drivers ed program to get the insurance discount as soon as i turn 16. Today during our lunch break I was talking to the group of girls in there and after making a couple of jokes at their expense they all say "Kalen your so mean." I have gotten this before and i really cant decide if they are giving me a taste of my own medicine or if they mean it.
Should i cut back a little or keep on with what im doing.

(Edited to add punctuation)

 

[Pheonix:ScndrlReborn]

Listen, C&F, and Neghits have nothing to do with making jokes at someone's expense. Even if its just a joke, after a few, it does become rude. Believe me, I learned the hard way.

 

[Kalen]

Ok ill study some C&F posts before bed then. I forgot to mention thought that they usually say that with a smile or they are laughing.

 

[es_mer8]

Never do neghits...those are just stupid and most of the time, they're not that effective. C+F is good in small doses. Check out my guide I typed up which should be on the 2nd page on this forum. Or wait because tomorrow I'm going to do v 1.1 on the Tips forum. Basically, c+f is effective in two instances:

1) opener
2) if and only if the opportunity calls for it

Apply it in small doses. Too much and you will seem like either a clown or an ass and you don't want to be either.

 

[Eternal]

Originally posted by es_mer8
Never do neghits...those are just stupid and most of the time, they're not that effective.

Woah! You use neghits to knock those princess off of thier royal pedestals. They are use to guys using cheesy lines on them and agreeing with them all the time. Neghits are essential and DO work. You just have to work on them...oh, and when using neghits, you also use some C&F in there.

 

[darkmenace]

dude for real. Neg-hits and C+F are always essential.
Whenever a girl tells you "your mean" it just means that everythings working. Just keep it up, but keep it steady. DO NOT panic if they start telling you "Your mean", or "your rude".

example:
if im seriously busting on a girl with some heavy c+f and neg-hits, and she hits me with a "your mean" line and gives me some pouty lips. I usually just look at them with a surprised look and go "Me, mean? No way, thats such an understatement"
LOL. They love it and end up smiling and cracking up.

 

[Kalen]

I guess im confused on whats C&F and whats not. Ill just write down a conversation or two and you can tell me.

HB was trying to give me and this other guy her sandwich so I asked her why did you spit in it.

The same girl was grilling this guy with me if this player in our school had said anything about her in the baseball locker room. She does this after just giving this speech about how she doesnt want to go ut with a player and how hes just trying to get in her pants bla bla bla. So I say If you dont like him why are you interested. Im not sure why but every girl at that table just erupted with laughter. It was after this that they gave me the your mean line.

There where a few more but i need to get ready now.

 

[Microphone Fiend]

I don't think they are calling you "mean" they are just teasing you, try talking to these girls more about other things, because they might like you. "Your mean" is just one of those stupid sayings girls have along with saying to their best friend "Everyone thinks ur quiet but your not: or wutever other sh*t they can think of. It doesn't really mean anything just trying to give/get attention.

I guess what you said was kinda C&F but just in case it isn't the key to C&F is knowing when to stop the joke and when to ride it out.

 

[UnexpectedTeen]

you should be able to tell.
if you gone too far, she will show you that she is pissed.
if she's not angry, you suceeded with your C&F.

chill!