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[oc16]

I take a high intensity gym class in my hometown. Noticed a cute blonde, probably anywhere from 27 to early 30's (hard to tell) that was new to class since last month.


Long story short, she is a teacher from up north who is down the shore because of her boyfriend.

She is real friendly with me, stands close to me, always asks if I am coming to the class next time and follows me around a little bit. Today she asked if I was on facebook and pretty much hinted at she wanted me to friend request her. I will eventually do it, but not now.

I am NOT falling for it. She wants me to be her ego boost and acts like she likes me, when she will probably never leave her boyfriend. I even walked out of class and did not even say good-bye.

 

[Chamber36]

Lol how old are you?

Why don't you just ask her to go for a glass of wine or coffee or something if she wants your attention so bad.

 

[oc16]

I'm 39, she is probably early 30's.

I think she lives with her bf and we know how that goes....just wants the attention

 

[Reptar]

Lol how old are you?

Why don't you just ask her to go for a glass of wine or coffee or something if she wants your attention so bad.

How would you do a wine date? (Really asking for details)

 

[dustmuffin]

How would you do a wine date? (Really asking for details)

I would just ask her out...hey I'm going for drinks on x. You should come along.

But...if she has a bf I wouldn't mess with her. Plenty of single women to be had. That's just me. Do what you are comfortable with.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Do the above.

No balls.

 

[dude99]

I'm 39, she is probably early 30's.

I think she lives with her bf and we know how that goes....just wants the attention

When she asked if you were on fb yiu should have just smiled and said nothing. She already knew you were. If she hints again about a friend request just ignore it. Not giving her the validation she is looking for will drive her crazy. Do not lose frame.