Huffman
Master Don Juan
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I was going to go out just now (alone) but then thought better of it.
I was going to sit at the bar, chat up some dudes (wings for the night) and girls and, if lucky, leave with a girl by the end of the night. But BOY I'm bored of the small talk! We'd talk about travel, get into a discussion about music that I've had 1000 times, whatever. Seriously, if the other party doesn't bring a really fascinating subject I'm bored to hell and back.
Actually most of the time another guy will hold the convo, and I will just chime in, flirt and steal the girl. That's pretty douch-ey, but I'm having a hard time holding a converstation (for hours!!) that I'm actually interested in. Acting cold (and looking good) does get me laid though... I've really perfected being aloof, but in truth I just stopped caring. That has completely taken the fun out of it. Some times I don't close, and then I'm honestly wondering if I chickened out or just didn't care enough.
Earlier this week I was on a date with a girl, she looked nice, had some cool hobbies and whatnot. I thought of calling her for another date, but it felt like a chore. Yeah, being social feels like such a chore and I'm tired.
But then again if I just let it go then, hell, I'm going to die lonely.
Sorry for ranting. I know some of you are going to comment.
I was going to sit at the bar, chat up some dudes (wings for the night) and girls and, if lucky, leave with a girl by the end of the night. But BOY I'm bored of the small talk! We'd talk about travel, get into a discussion about music that I've had 1000 times, whatever. Seriously, if the other party doesn't bring a really fascinating subject I'm bored to hell and back.
Actually most of the time another guy will hold the convo, and I will just chime in, flirt and steal the girl. That's pretty douch-ey, but I'm having a hard time holding a converstation (for hours!!) that I'm actually interested in. Acting cold (and looking good) does get me laid though... I've really perfected being aloof, but in truth I just stopped caring. That has completely taken the fun out of it. Some times I don't close, and then I'm honestly wondering if I chickened out or just didn't care enough.
Earlier this week I was on a date with a girl, she looked nice, had some cool hobbies and whatnot. I thought of calling her for another date, but it felt like a chore. Yeah, being social feels like such a chore and I'm tired.
But then again if I just let it go then, hell, I'm going to die lonely.
Sorry for ranting. I know some of you are going to comment.