this is not a flame, or anything of the sort. i found this site quite a while ago, and have been lurking for about a year solid under a couple of different names. i always make it a point to read the board when i wake up, before i goto sleep, etc. im starting to maybe think that all of the attention and importance placed on getting girls here makes it a much bigger deal than it really is, and thus much harder to perform when the time comes, with so many different things coming to your mind at once.. sort of like the line between studying 24 hours a day a week before a big test, as opposed to a casual hour or two a night. i don't know if any of this makes any sense, because im confusing the f*ck out of myself right now, but I think I'm going to try taking a break for a while, and letting things go naturally. any of you guys ever think about this?
Hello Friend,
If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.
It will be the most efficient use of your time.
And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.
Thank you for visiting and have a great day!
im going to stop coming here..
- Thread starter Kingz28
- Start date
basically the same thing i was conveying in my post. sometimes the study part needs to give away to the action part. most of the successful guys don't over analyze ****, at very least until after the actions already taken place.
Yeah, just like alot of the other **** you learn in life, either at school, tafe, uni (depending on the subject).
There's a balance between theory (reading) and practical (doing). You just have to find the balance that is right for YOU.
There's a balance between theory (reading) and practical (doing). You just have to find the balance that is right for YOU.
Ser_i
Don Juan
in general I just do my thing with women and after the "game" I analyse myself and if there are things left that I don't understand I looked it up here.. other then that dunno It's not a good thing to feel pressured by this board to get a lot of women.
WestCoaster
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- May 8, 2003
- Messages
- 2,028
- Reaction score
- 31
Don't be gone too long!
The problem most people have -- me included -- is getting obsessed with the message board and not reading the articles on the front page. The articles are highly contradictory to a lot of the anti-women posts here. Most of them are about maintaining cool and confidence, being able to walk away from frustration with your head held high, and carrying yourself with class at all times. It's all the essence of DJism.
There's a lot of women hating and borderline rap-- type stuff here on this board, it's almost scary.
I do know that if I stay away from this site for too long, I lose a little bit of my DJism.
So stay online, but read the articles. It's a better remedy than this board!
The problem most people have -- me included -- is getting obsessed with the message board and not reading the articles on the front page. The articles are highly contradictory to a lot of the anti-women posts here. Most of them are about maintaining cool and confidence, being able to walk away from frustration with your head held high, and carrying yourself with class at all times. It's all the essence of DJism.
There's a lot of women hating and borderline rap-- type stuff here on this board, it's almost scary.
I do know that if I stay away from this site for too long, I lose a little bit of my DJism.
So stay online, but read the articles. It's a better remedy than this board!
( . )( . )
Banned
Re: Don't be gone too long!
you've said this a few times now as if these "anti-women" threads happen all the time, can you give me an example, or show me a post you are talking about.?
I think its a natural progression...You sit and read and read and realize you have so much information, yet there are no results...You begin to blame all the reading for why the results are not coming through...You then realize you came to the site because you were scared of action and realize that action is the solution to your prooblems. You get fed up, say fuk it, and go out and nail some ladies....Its all good man..good luck
NewMan
Master Don Juan
People are taking this stuff to literally.
Read it, take it in, understand - but like any other Text book stuff - the application can be a lot different.
You need to keep these things in mind - but ultimately every situation with a woman is different.
Take a break if you need to - hell you may never need to come back - but you probably will not forget a lot of the bible material - and I'm sure it will have an impact on you.
Read it, take it in, understand - but like any other Text book stuff - the application can be a lot different.
You need to keep these things in mind - but ultimately every situation with a woman is different.
Take a break if you need to - hell you may never need to come back - but you probably will not forget a lot of the bible material - and I'm sure it will have an impact on you.