I'm GOING OUT tonight! CLUBBING! Err... HELP!

[Nicholas Hill]

Remember "Clubbing Failure?"?, a post I made a while back now. You can read it here if you like, it's actually quite an amazing thread, where DeLaSoul helped greatly:

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=18475

I'm going to do a social thing tonight (pre-club) then I'm going alone, again, to a club (the same one!). Its quite a scary thing...

I'll have more confidence this time because I've managed to get more confidence-related knowledge into my actual actions and subconscous.

General rule of thumb: Get eye contact, move in...

Err... yea, I need a thread plot.

OK, theres a few hours to go yet before it all begins. Social proof is once again impossible at the moment (else I'll have to wait a few weeks until I can go with a group of friends).

Any pre-club tips, exercises... ?

Guys?

Nick

 

[thecraftylefty]

Hey Nicholas,

You say you don't have social proof at the club just because you go by yourself? C'mon man, you can CREATE social proof at the club. Go Mystery style and work the entire club. Befriend guys, girls, and everyone else there too. Be the center of attention. BS with everybody and soon enough a lot of people will know who you are, and that you are a pretty cool guy. If you try that it's really not that hard. That's basically just a good warmup practice for the real thing though. Once that's all done you can approach other groups or even ones you already have again. They've already seen you talking with everyone else and having a good time so it's game on from here.

Now, of course, social proof isn't necessary. You can just go in and work the club like you normally would. Or you could try this way and see how it goes. I've always had a good time with it when I do. Meeting new people is fun. It can make for an interesting night.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

thecraftylefty

 

[stallion]

clubbing is good but because the girls have their bytch shield up high, I don't see why you don't try approaching them elsewhere.

gym, grocery, malls, bus stops, are awesome.

I'm having huge success now!

 

[PANK]

Hey nick women in whales are great to flirt with they are easier than in England pulling in clubs is easier than on the streets i think.