Im being mean and sarcastic?

[killerasp]

I met up with my "friend" that i use to "date" last summer. I was increibly AFC back then. Over the last 12 months, things have changed. I lost tons of weight. I got better looking and i workedd on my C&F.

Since i starting talking to her again, ive been pulling the C&F out like no ones business. Im guessing she finds it funny b/c she laughs.

Well as i said in my last post, ive tried using C&F to get her to the gym. Today IM's me saying ive been mean and sarcastic to her.

In my mind im like, WTF is she talking baout. She said i "changed" since i last talked to her which was about 6 months ago. Im a different person. She rants on about what am i doing, is this the real me. I never gave her a direct answer. I always used some C&F in response to her questions and statements.

Just wondering what is your take on this.

 

[uniassign]

This is a sh!t test to see if you have REALLY changed into a man or just pretending to

 

[killerasp]

how do think i should approach this?

 

[Starman]

Yup its a test..she likes it..but is testing you to see if you will break under her whining..Just say..

"I have noo idea what you are talking about? C'mon I'll buy you a 6 pack of sense of humour"

 

[killerasp]

when she told me i changed i told her in response:

Of course i changed. I lost weight and got sexier. what more do you want?

 

[Umbra]

C'mon I'll buy you a 6 pack of sense of humour

HAHAHAHAHAH... I'm gonna remember that one.

 

[tamales]

Curious did you change to actually change and better yourself or did you have oneitus with this chick and simply want her back and prove to her you have changed over the last six months. I hope not that later otherwise forget it.. Time will tell. If you have actually, taken steps to change I am not sure it would be so obvious unless a sort of put on. I mean if you really change women wouldn't be able to identify the change per say but rather sense it. JMO tho..

But being rude and sarcastic simply means that if she simply wagged her tail, you would come running. It seems you still have the hots for her and care. That is not good and being AFC even if you have changed...

I agree it is a test on her part but women who are really tested wouldn't be so blatent about your game. They would instead simply approach you and act nice as to win some attention.

Again, just my opinion. Age and experience has a lot to do with it but just how did you change your game and is being sarcastic and C&F the only thing to change. If you still like her, want her and have oneitus.. then it is she who holds the cards right now and she is laughing knowing that you are just being an AFC who is pissy and trying to get his game on..

I didn't mean to be harsh. Maybe I had a long day at work and I am way off base. If so, don't bother reading this but I still say more info. req. for honest feedback. Not merely a test. Women are tricky and well, we just don't say that sort of **** unless we have our own amo in store..

Good luck tho..

 

[killerasp]

TO be honeest, i changed so much since last summer. I would worship the ground women would walk on and in turn they would walk all over me. i got sick and tired of being a wuss and decided to change myself for the better.

I dont care about getting this girl. She started to call me again and started to initiate the contact with me. i could care less if i talk to her. But when ever i do, i bust her balls like i do any girl i know.

Is this wrong that i do that even if i had dated this girl in my AFC days where she would be the one holding the whip?

 

[tamales]

Nope then.. But just try and be a gentleman. A real DJ doesn't hold revenge on another.. JMO. Simply their loss, while you grin, having fun and moves forward..

Good going but I would just ignore more than you give her crap.. I mean she may have some really cute friends and the nicer you are to her and really don't want or care to want her back.. the more she'll regret her *****en ways..And the more her cute friends may wonder and desire you.. Or any cute girl for that matter. Never be jerk. Remember that. It will bit you in the butt like poor customer service. LOL!

Ever hear of "the art of War for lovers" Great book. Maybe too much from a female perspective. But taught me a lot.

Anyhoo, glad to hear you are feeling and doing great I wish I could get to the gym more often than I do.. Sigh

 

[drixsa]

yes!

jus keep up the new attitude

do not cave

people talk to much on AIM

and say **** they dont mean

in my opinion

6 pack of sense of humor...that made my night

 

[crotchrocket]

I've had women (after I give them a good dose of c & f) say things like "oh you're a pain in the a$$", "why I am still talking to you?", hit me... and yet they weren't exactly running away-if it works why change it.
Keep up the c & f, believe me she's looking hard to see if the AFC she used to know is hiding in there somewhere.
You can be a gentleman and still be c & f.