I'm being led on...how do I handle this?

[Jonblood]

I asked this girl out a year ago, got rejected. we have mutual friends so we've had casual interactions. Last week we made out at a party and I walked her home, then again yesterday at a party. However, she ignores my texts, and her friends tell me not to pursue her. I'm definitely more interested than she is which bring me to a point of weakness. But I am not being AFC, i don't text her often at all.

Next? I'd like it to work out...

 

[JLW]

Ignore her. Stop texting her. Do not call her. When you see her, be polite and say hello, but don't pay too much attention to her. Don't be too nice to her. Talk a little bit harshly to her, sort of in a condescending tone. This is your only chance.

Act like you are not interested. This is the only thing that will work.

She's knows you are at her mercy. If you make her realize that you don't really care that much about her, you will win out. This is HARD to do, and easier said than done. But this is the attitude you have to have. And you can't just be acting this way, you have to actually BELIEVE that it is true. Believe that you are valuable to her and she has to work for you.

If she doesn't come to you, then it was never meant to be. But that's the only way it will work out in your favor.

Also, do NOT talk to her friends about your relations. This is a terrible idea. They will relay all the information you give them to her.

 

[Korrupt]

I asked this girl out a year ago, got rejected. we have mutual friends so we've had casual interactions. Last week we made out at a party and I walked her home, then again yesterday at a party. However, she ignores my texts, and her friends tell me not to pursue her. I'm definitely more interested than she is which bring me to a point of weakness. But I am not being AFC, i don't text her often at all.

Next? I'd like it to work out...

She making out with you while drunk at the party? Because she doesn't seem to give a f*ck about you sober. No contact, move on.

 

[JLW]

She making out with you while drunk at the party? Because she doesn't seem to give a f*ck about you sober. No contact, move on.

This is another good point...especially if she was hammered.

 

[Radharc]

What hb level we talking about here? Does she receive lots of male attention? Is she outgoing or an introvert?

Why do her friends tell you not to pursue her?

 

[Jonblood]

****..I said something to her AFC this morning...not a big deal. Told her she was washed up but its okay cus i like her.

What hb level we talking about here? Does she receive lots of male attention? Is she outgoing or an introvert?

Why do her friends tell you not to pursue her?

She's like a 9.2...Ton's of male attention, and her friends tell me that she loves to have guys love sick over here. She's outgoing, but somewhat reserved...I think she's a virgin as well.

Her friends tell me not too because she just wants to have fun and cause she doesn't take my situation with her seriously. But...actions speak louder than words.

 

[Scars]

Take it for what is man.

She's just an attention wh0re who seeks validation from men. She may get drunk and hook up with you, but her interest is low. You are merely the guy who was there, at the right time, when her sobriety was left at home and the conditions were right. Don't be texting her, don't be calling her. It is what it is. You may be able to hook up with her randomly one night, but that will probably be the extent of it. There's a possibility if you stop chasing her, her IL may rise. But once you fall back into her trap she will just repeat the cycle. You said this girl is good looking, so she has male attention coming at her constantly. I hate to say it, but this is one of those situations where you don't meet her criteria list. She's hott, you may get lucky and bone her drunk one night, but you won't ever be dating her. At least not anytime soon. Take advantage of what you can get, or move on my friend.

-Scars

 

[Radharc]

Scars said all there is to be said.

 

[Jonblood]

Only problem is, I don't want to not be around her at a party this weekend when I know I can be making out with her...

Should I let her see me game other chicks and act uninterested?

 

[Scars]

If you want to make out with her then make out with her.

All I'm saying is don't fall into the trap of allowing yourself to be "led on". Take it for what it is.

But if you feel you're getting too emotionally attached, then ignoring her wouldn't be such a bad idea either.

-Scars

 

[SandHawk]

This is any guy out there: The moment you have an IDEA you are being led on, you just take a 360 degree spin, and smoothly moonwalk out and never go back. B*tches you lead you on are not worth your time and effort.

You deleted their number, their mail addresses, hell, if you have to, block them all, and never look back. Cut her out of your life, numb your feelings toward her, hold a little mini funeral inside your head and close it.

 

[joe henny]

dude get off her nutsack and find more women. duh! She'll get you if she wants you. "I don't chase them I replace them"

 

[JdelaSilviera]

Attentions wh0res.... the world is becoming full of them.
Here is what I do to attention wh0res wich works like magic, the thing you have to remember is that you are never being too cruel to an AW.... this kind of girls love cruel men while despising the nice guys.

1) make her realize that there are a bunch of girls hotter than her, when you two are talking eye other girls and make her notice
2) tell her you will call her but don´t, she will be completly pissed of (this one is gold)
3) when she tries to set up a date, tell her you can´t go cause you have a date with someone else (lie if you need it...this is a game right?)
4) if she asks you why your IL has dropped tell her in a condescending way that she is kind of cute but that you prefer women that look younger and more feminine. (one of my favourite negs).

And take advantadge from her when she is drunk in a party... never set dates, never call her, but you have to make her understand that you don´t care about her...

She will probably change when she is older, and lost their beauty, until then don´t respect her. Her value is zero...."beauty is common"...

 

[doubledown11]

She's a flake and an attention *****.

You need to lead HER on. The next time you're about to kiss, pull back, and extract to a different location, say, outside. Be different, be remarkable, be a challenge.

Use principles of scarcity. Don't be needy. If you like her but she's flaky, then you have to be flaky as well.

 

[Jonblood]

So we hooked up again at a tailgate last weekend....

The relationship is SO WEIRD. I see her during the week at class or around its usual hey how was the quiz blah blah I don't txt her much at all...but during weekends we hookup.

I want her idk if she wants me...should I be open and talk to her about it??
What should I say??

 

[Tiguere]

no. take it for what it is. you are her weekend hookup. someone else is her weekday hookup. stop trying to get the cake all for yourself.

what more do you want you get her on the weekend and she leaves you alone on the week so you can game other girls. dude you should be running happy with that kind of offer.

 

[kingofstl]

Not worth any more effort on your part. Dump her mentally, ignore her, NEXT. Again, she isn't worth it.

 

[maqnetik]

what youre doing is the equivalent of driving a fast car while wearing a blindfold-- and if you continue to allow this reckless girl to feed you instructions youll BOTH end up in a f***ing DITCH.

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