I'm Being ****blocked By Her Friend. How Do I Deal With It?

[SouthSection]

So there's a girl that I'm interested in and she has a friend that is interested in me, but the friend is ugly so I'm not interested in going there.

I just asked the girl out on a date and she replied: "You know I can't do that, because (her name) really likes you and she's one of my best friends."

I know this girl is into me because she is all over me when her friend isn't around. Nothing has and will ever happen between me and her friend because I am just not interested. Now this other dude is coming along and I don't want to lose out because this unattractive friend of hers won't leave me alone.

Will I have to take an L on this one or do you think if I keep going or something she'll give in?

 

[BrainDamage92]

well ure fuked

 

[VladPatton]

You avoid her like the plague when her friend is with her. Text or call her directly and talk only to her. Keep it straightforward and simple, it's none of that uggo's binnis what her friend doe with her puṣṣy.

 

[WanderingMan]

well ure fuked

lol

This is simple:

Tell her, yeah thats what I like about you. You put others infront of your own wants/needs. its a quaility i have aswell, and i find that really attractive. But i learned something from life, that we make our own happyness, and chanses we don't take are the 1's we regret. see how she responds, bassicly communicate that, you will make her happy, and she be sucking your dong.

This is interesting. It could be worth a try. In my opinion, as long as she's actually already attracted to you, and all she needs is a reason to go behind her friend, then ^this would probably be the answer.

My only question is if she's just using her friend as an excuse because her IL is low. For most situations, unless her IL is already high, I wouldn't focus on trying to reason with a chick - either she's attracted to you or she's not. And if she is attracted to you, then - generally speaking - her friend making you off limits is only going to increase her IL because you're now the forbidden fruit.