Kenny Powers
Senior Don Juan
Sorry in advance for the long post, so for you lazy readers I'll just ask right up front: where do I meet girls?!
Through a combination of this and other similar websites, lifestyle changes, a strict workout and eating regime, and just in general working to be a more confident, alpha, happy, and appreciative person i'm on my way to becoming a dj. Yay for me!
However, I can't seem to meet girls! I work in a small office near a college campus (i recently graduated so age isn't an issue), go out just about every weekend and though im actively pursuing a few girls, I have no plates and am not anywhere near to getting a girlfriend!
I've never been great with girls until this past year or so, but meeting them has always been an issue. My social circle is small and even in college i struggled to meet girls and i my game wasn't terrible then.
I have decent night game but its weird. Im not a bad looking dude and have an athletic physique, but while girls will check me out on the street when im heading to work or jogging, at bars ill be lucky if a girl holds eye contact with me. Also girls who i meet at bars will just use me for an ego boost or forget about me by the next day or week, even if they seemed into me.
I'm still going to pursue girls at bars and clubs because I legitimately enjoy that (a sign I am becoming a dj) but outside of night game where the H E double hockey sticks do i meet dem ladies?
A year ago i asked this forum where they met the last 5 girls the had sex with and a disturbing number said through friends, the internet and work. Also the guys who write about cold approaches during the day seem to have little success. Has anyone who is not super good looking found this method successful? Examples would be great.
Also advice on expanding social circles would be appreciated as well since im in a bad rut with mine. I have the same old friends, who while i will always support, also have few friends and are much worse with girls than me.
In fact id say in general im kinda in a rut. I want to make my life more exciting and meet more girls. I just gotta meet them and I know i can win them over. I welcome the drama of juggling plates hahhaha.
I know this is afc whining, but the difference is im ready to be proactive and take action. I have confidence and am going to face this problem head on. For example one thing i've been working on is trying to be more sexual at bars/clubs and getting a makeout or lay instead of settling for a # close and bailing.
For those of you who have read this far, please give advice based on your interpretations of me and my problems. I know this question gets asked a lot, but i feel i've made all these improvements in my life and self but have yet to reap the benefits of doing so. Its frustrating, but i remain positive. Im an outgoing and confident person, but still struggle to make new friends and meet new girls. I'm proud of who i've become and overall very happy with/appreciative of my life and all i have. Yet, i need a woman. Or atleast a f-buddy or two haha. What do you guys think?
Through a combination of this and other similar websites, lifestyle changes, a strict workout and eating regime, and just in general working to be a more confident, alpha, happy, and appreciative person i'm on my way to becoming a dj. Yay for me!
However, I can't seem to meet girls! I work in a small office near a college campus (i recently graduated so age isn't an issue), go out just about every weekend and though im actively pursuing a few girls, I have no plates and am not anywhere near to getting a girlfriend!
I've never been great with girls until this past year or so, but meeting them has always been an issue. My social circle is small and even in college i struggled to meet girls and i my game wasn't terrible then.
I have decent night game but its weird. Im not a bad looking dude and have an athletic physique, but while girls will check me out on the street when im heading to work or jogging, at bars ill be lucky if a girl holds eye contact with me. Also girls who i meet at bars will just use me for an ego boost or forget about me by the next day or week, even if they seemed into me.
I'm still going to pursue girls at bars and clubs because I legitimately enjoy that (a sign I am becoming a dj) but outside of night game where the H E double hockey sticks do i meet dem ladies?
A year ago i asked this forum where they met the last 5 girls the had sex with and a disturbing number said through friends, the internet and work. Also the guys who write about cold approaches during the day seem to have little success. Has anyone who is not super good looking found this method successful? Examples would be great.
Also advice on expanding social circles would be appreciated as well since im in a bad rut with mine. I have the same old friends, who while i will always support, also have few friends and are much worse with girls than me.
In fact id say in general im kinda in a rut. I want to make my life more exciting and meet more girls. I just gotta meet them and I know i can win them over. I welcome the drama of juggling plates hahhaha.
I know this is afc whining, but the difference is im ready to be proactive and take action. I have confidence and am going to face this problem head on. For example one thing i've been working on is trying to be more sexual at bars/clubs and getting a makeout or lay instead of settling for a # close and bailing.
For those of you who have read this far, please give advice based on your interpretations of me and my problems. I know this question gets asked a lot, but i feel i've made all these improvements in my life and self but have yet to reap the benefits of doing so. Its frustrating, but i remain positive. Im an outgoing and confident person, but still struggle to make new friends and meet new girls. I'm proud of who i've become and overall very happy with/appreciative of my life and all i have. Yet, i need a woman. Or atleast a f-buddy or two haha. What do you guys think?
