Get used to listening to dbot, the man knows his stuff. It's hard for girls, especially younger ones, to get off with sex, so if you give a rats azz about pleasing her, get used to muff diving. Fisrt off, you need to make things comfortable for her before thinking about sex, so make sure you kiss for a while, but make sure it's somewhre that you have access to a bed, or other f-spot so that she doesn't change her mind while you are driving, walking, flying, whatever back to your house. While you are kissing, just slowly rub her all over, smooth and slow, not like you are trying to scrape bird sh!t off your car. Start with the back, neck, work your way down towards her crotch. I always like to rub the thighs and legs until she usually puts my hand on her sn@tch, that way you know she's down. Rub her there for a while, kiss her stomach, neck, ears, legs if you want... this is where I usually go in for the oral. If you ain't down, you're going to have go right to the penetrating. Which at that point should be friggin self explanatory. But wrap it up. Now, for the oral tips if you decide to partake...... Start by kissing her inner thighs, for a while. you can be rubbing her stomach or legs while you're at it, kiss her thighs and stomach for a while. By kissing, i mean licking, in case you weren't sure. When you decide to go for the vag, lick towards the top, which will be the cl!t. If you can't find it, open her up with your fingers and it should be there. Lick that for a while, but make sure you change up the tempo. I go fast, slow, fast slow, up down, etc. Don't just do the same thing over and over. You can suck her lips in your mouth, gently though, and start to lick in and around her vag(opening). When she's nice and wet which inevitable, put a finger in her and curl it upwards like you were telling someone to "come her", that'll be the illusive g-spot. As you're fingering her, switch the tempo here too, fast slow, etc, lick her cl!t some more. A new trick I learned is, as you are fingering with your middle, and licking the cl!t, rub the bottom of her cl!t with your thumb, right under your tongue. They go crazy. Keep up whatever pace you feel she gets the most excited about, you can usually tell. Don't be afraid to ask her, and good luck.