i'm a loser...help?

[windscar26]

i am incredibly shy when it comes to talking to girls, i can't think of one or two sentences to say then i give up on the conversation.

there is this girl i see every other day in school. i have had a crush since i saw her, but it not until now that i actually want to ask her out.


anyways sometimes i get the feeling that she is looking at em but i am not sure, since i have been wrong about this kind of stuff before. and sometimes she starts the conversation, i think that means she likes me...but again i could be wrong and she is just trying to be nice.

help?

 

[jeffthechef]

please read the dj bible..but i'll give you some quick tips

stop thinking about any interaction she has had with you and analyzing it...you're only doing this to build confidence..
enjoy ilfe...do good at other things you love..sports or clubs or school...and if you do all these things you should build confidence gradually...analyzing won't do ****...because well you should know why..YOU CAN'T READ HER MIND AND EVERY SINGLE FACTOR....she might say hi to you just to fuk with your mind..she might smile your way because she sees a funny poster behind you...

best thing to do
become an alpha...not something you can do in a day...slowly realize your behaviors and which are afc...and eliminate them...it's a slow process for most...but i'm sure you can do it
as for now...if you want her..just get her...chat it up..and ask her out somewhere..not as a gf unless she wants it ot be a date

 

[apec]

It doesn't matter if you think she likes you or not, if you want her go for her and see what happens. Otherwise chances are you'll never have her.

And what the previous poster said is spot on.

 

[chris2619]

man im a noob to this site bro and i know exactly how ya feel. im not NEARLY as pathetic as i used to be but Ive still got a ways to go. and now theres this girl im really into and wether shes into me or not im gonna go for it anyway because you never know until you try. you just gotta believe in yourself first and foremost. go in there like its already a done deal. im not really in any position to be giving advice but i figured since i kinda have the same situation ya know? you only live once. make the most of it.