I'm a 20 year old virgin

[SeymourCake]

I read all the DJ Bibles and I put them to use...Still no progress of getting laid.

 

[Sir Psycho Sexy]

Do you ever have any dates?

Do you have any female friends?

Do you ever talk to women?

Let us know where exactly you are right now.

Infact I dont think your even asking anything? It looks like a statement.

 

[Hakuna]

Hit on every girl you see for the rest of your life, get a good career, go the gym, dress well, and keep reading the bibles over and over again till you know them by heart. Just knowing all the principles won't help, you need to apply them. If all else fails, get a hooker. At least this way you'll have less performance anxiety.

 

[SeymourCake]

Do you ever have any dates?

Do you have any female friends?

Do you ever talk to women?

Let us know where exactly you are right now.

Infact I dont think your even asking anything? It looks like a statement.

1. Never
2. No...
2. Whenever I get the chance, yeah.

Hit on every girl you see for the rest of your life, get a good career, go the gym, dress well, and keep reading the bibles over and over again till you know them by heart. Just knowing all the principles won't help, you need to apply them. If all else fails, get a hooker. At least this way you'll have less performance anxiety.

Alright, I'll work on that, but I'm never gonna have sex with a hooker. Sex shouldn't cost a thing.

 

[nismo-4]

1. Never
2. No...
2. Whenever I get the chance, yeah.




Alright, I'll work on that, but I'm never gonna have sex with a hooker. Sex shouldn't cost a thing.

3 comes after 2 bro. My bad, this really just adds insult to injury.

You need to apply yourself. You always have chances of talking to women. Take 'em. Get off your ass! There's gonna be rejection, no matter what. Make sure you're not causing the rejections to happen.

Sex with a hooker is not something I support. You're running the risk of the hooker being an undercover cop. And then you get "laid" in jail. Ooh, getting laid in jail... Ugh! Scary thought!

You're 20, try going after women twice your age. I do.

 

[SeymourCake]

40 year old women? lol c'mon now. And the two 2s was a typo.

 

[Diaforetikos]

Shoot, I agree with Nismo somewhat on the twice you age thing. I'm targetting a 30 year old married chick.

I love it. She's mature and knows what she wants. Easy booty. Hahaha.

 

[Captain]

You have a sh!t attitude. You got to force yourself to stop thinking so negative all the time.

 

[Strelok]

First there's nothing wrong in being virgin at your age,you're not a lower man or an inferior one.
Second not every man succeed in the same way,if you're not the guy able to operate in bars and night clubs try other places that work better for you.

Many guys here suggest you to go to clubs but i disagree with them,if i was you i would hit the gym and improve my body and self-confidence mostly.
Than just find an environment where you feel good,it's impossibile to get a girl in a club if you feel nervous only by going there,and it doesnt matter how good your game is if the girl find you ugly and dont even give you a chance.

So take in account who you are,strenght and weakness.
Btw just know this,the older you get the easier it become.

 

[kingsam]

I read all the DJ Bibles and I put them to use...Still no progress of getting laid.

try and give some info on your interactions/attempts so we can deconstruct what you are doing wrong and right

 

[masterpiece]

follow the advice in this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=173974

2 alternatives are proposed in posts 2 and 3 .

If your sole goal is to get layed follow post 2.

 

[SeymourCake]

try and give some info on your interactions/attempts so we can deconstruct what you are doing wrong and right

I walk around with my chest up, shoulders relax, eyes brows low, low eyes, with a smirk on my smile. I walk with style, but I don't over exaggerate it.

I tend to give eye contact with women who walk by, but they look away like they have no interest. There was this one encounter where I was eye-ing this girl down, and she had this look on her face like "wow, why is he lookin' at me? creep"

When I'm sitting down, I'm in a relaxed position.

I SUCK at initiating conversations and putting longevity in them because I tend to listen more than I speak.

I don't think I have a confidence issue. I look in the mirror everyday just acting conceited and telling myself I look hot, but it does go down a bit when I'm in the public and I see my reflection.

 

[Nygard]

I don't have any kind of advice to give you because I'm in a deeper hole than yours and anything I tell you has no basis in reality. All I can wish you is the best of luck in your goals and hope they become true soon.

 

[SeymourCake]

Thanks a lot man. I appreciate that.

 

[SeymourCake]

Still no progress.

 

[Scion]

Chill dude, it's only been a few days since you made this thread. Stop worrying about "progress". I'm 5 years older than you, a virgin too, and I've stopped caring about "progressing". Sure, I've had dates, make-outs, and *******s, so maybe I have more experience than you but stop worrying so much.

 

[Huffman]

I walk around with my chest up, shoulders relax, eyes brows low, low eyes, with a smirk on my smile. I walk with style, but I don't over exaggerate it. (...)

MAN listen to yourself! All your effort is going into walking, standing and looking! I tell you what, the position of your eye brows is NEVER something you should worry about! It screams of insecurity and you'll probably look like a goof.

You're doing everything you can that is PASSIVE. Which means YES YOU DO have a confidence issue! You say yourself that you stand around and wait for girls to come to you "if I get the chance"!
The only way to attain confidence is to GO AFTER WHAT YOU WANT! Look at some of the motivational threads in the High School forum, these are gold.

Also, how do you figure you can get laid by ogling girls on the street? It will only happen if you're dead lucky. How about you forget about your shoulders and eyebrows for a moment and just be a cool dude that makes friends with people?

You should first try to "meet" girls before you want to instantly "seduce" them, especially on the street. Because you can't. Go step by step. Also, this will help you.

 

[SeymourCake]

I thought chest up, shoulders relaxed were a sign of a confident alpha male. A lot of the DJ Bibles are contradicting. Thanks for that link though. To sum it up, all I need is a life.

 

[BigJimbo]

I thought chest up, shoulders relaxed were a sign of a confident alpha male. A lot of the DJ Bibles are contradicting. Thanks for that link though. To sum it up, all I need is a life.

Dude, are you thrusting your pelvis back and forth when you walk? Don't do it. That is just way too sexual. Just a smooth, cool, confident strut.

 

[Huffman]

I thought chest up, shoulders relaxed were a sign of a confident alpha male. A lot of the DJ Bibles are contradicting. Thanks for that link though. To sum it up, all I need is a life.

They are, but your priorities are wrong. Improving your looks is only a tiny part of the puzzle, and you're not doing any of the rest. You'll be stuck with one piece forever.

You're good-looking enough, now stop. And redirect your efforts to take action. And get used to taking action. I know it is a hard call and the first couple of steps will take a load of courage.