Ignoring women and how to take advantage of their reactions ?

[Aaron B]

Noticed something yesterday that I have noticed a few times in the past, and I want to find out how to make it work to my advantage.

Yesterday I was late for work and had to go to Wal-Mart. So I was moving as quickly as possible. I was a man on a mission. Get in, get out, get to work, that's all I cared about. I had a single focus and determination.

I stalked through the front doors and hung a right and marched straight down the main long area of the store. I noticed a HB9 coming my way but I was so focused I never moved my eyes from a "1000 yard stare" so to speak and never moved my head towards her. I noticed out of my peripheral vision that she had started to look at me. I still did not move my head or eyes an inch and as I got within a few feet of her she actually turned her head to look directly at me.

This did not break my focus and I was still on my mission. Got my stuff, checked out, then walked that same length back across the store towards the entrance I had come in before.

This time there were about 6 women all facing me, and at least 3 of them were HB7 and up from what I could tell from my peripheral vision (I've got excellent peripheral vision). Did the 1000 yard stare again and I could feel all of their eyes on me like they were all staring. There was a girl working there near the shopping carts who attempted to make eye contact but I wouldn't let her, I just rolled on out of there and went to work.

Is this something that can work to buiuld attraction? I admit I get a lot of eye contact from women, but rarely HB9's like the first woman. And I know from experience if I had attempted to get eye contact she would have most likely snubbed me.

Any thoughts on this? I felt 10 feet tall walking out of there after all that attention.

 

[joekerr31]

a good tactic is not to look her in the eye but look 20 feet beyond her. that totally messes with their head. they KNOW they are DIRECTLY in your line of sight, but they can't figure out what is grabbing your attention over them.

It's hilarious to watch.

J

 

[bullmoose]

Women will see your head begin to turn their way, and they will INSTANTLY look away. When it comes to the "look away," they have reflexes of a mongoose.

They're looking at you -- count on it; even if you look like Napoleon Dynamite they will look at you -- it's human nature. But they won't let you see them looking unless they want you to *know* they're looking.

If a woman lets you "catch" her looking at you, then she wants you to know that she's looking -- which is why eye contact is usually an in.

 

[Aaron B]

Something else that I have been paying attention to:

Its seems most attractive women have absolute control over where they focus their eyes. They tend not to turn their heads at all in public and only look at what is directly in front of them.

I tend to look at everything. I look at every one I encounter, I look at everything in the general area. My eyes are constantly looking at everything.

I've been slowly trying to train myself to ignore everything that isn't my immediate field of vision, but it is very difficult. I natually want to "check everything out."

One of my friends who is a natural is like this. If it isnt directly in front of him, he doesn't look at it. Curious if this would be at all useful in attracting women.

 

[Tazman]

Women will see your head begin to turn their way, and they will INSTANTLY look away. When it comes to the "look away," they have reflexes of a mongoose.

LOL!!! You don't know how true this is. I tried my hardest to "catch" this one chick because I knew she was looking at me, but sure enough I just wasn't fast enough, it was trully funny......and bizarre at the same time.

 

[Jamo]

This may be helpful

I asked one woman friend of mine "why did you go out with him?" and she
replied: "because when I looked at
him he kept eye contact with me."

When I recall the very successful people I have had the pleasure of
working for in the corporate world, I remember that they all
maintained eye contact while speaking to me. When you watch somebody
successful being interviewed on TV, like Scott McNealy of Sun, you notice
that they never look away from their interviewer’s eyes and they rarely
blink.

You are approaching a chick in the hall as you walk towards each other.
When should you look at her? (Her eyes, silly. If you look at anything
else, it’s over.) I have tried all combinations. If I wait until the last
instant, I either find she is not looking, or, if she is looking, she
quickly looks away. If I look at her and she looks at me and I look away,
then she never looks again. Then I tried something bold and decide I will
look at her eyes the entire time. To my amazement, she gazes like a deer
into headlights. Never breaks eye contact. So I decide to try this little
experiment.

Recently I spent a week attending meetings in one of our buildings filled
with educated successful professional women in their 20’s and 30’s. Most
are definitely doable. Some are gorgeous. Some are married, some are not.
I spent my time between meetings trying this: I would pick a different
floor and I would walk down each hall, walking just slightly to the right
of center. When I saw a woman walking towards me, I maintained looking at
her eyes. Only the heavy ones did not keep looking. But for all the
others, including the gorgeous ones, they maintained eye contact the
entire time. I never blinked. They never blinked. They broke eye contact
only when we were just about next to each other. I broke eye contact only
after she did. What really amazed me was that by the time we passed,
almost every chick had broken a smile. Some even said "Hi." I did not
smile or say Hi until they first did.

These halls were not long. Each woman was no farther than 30 feet away
when I first saw her. But what if it had been a very long hall? How far
down the hall should I start looking at her eyes? I certainly don’t want
to scare her. I look straight ahead, and then when she is about 30 feet
away, I start looking into her eyes. (Since my original post, I have
dropped that and I now start looking at her from the moment I see her, no
matter how far away. It does not scare the secure ones.)

I then went to the mall a few times to try the experiment there. Most did
not look at all. Of those who did look, most only looked for a second.
Only about a third locked on. Of those, about half broke a smile or said
Hi. A couple of them where so moved that they almost tripped.

Do you have to be walking? I tried the experiment while sitting. Almost
none maintained eye contact. Do they have to be walking? While I was
walking I would look at any chicks who were sitting. The results were the
same as if we were both walking.

If I was approaching two chicks, and looked from one to the other, I lost
them both. So, if I am in such a situation, I lock onto one and I don’t
change my mind. She will lock on.

If I smiled or said Hi, while she was still looking at me, but before she
smiled or said Hi, it would usually result in my loosing her. On rare
instances did it make her smile and say Hi with enthusiasm. So, I never
smile or say Hi until she first does so, and I smile if she smiles and
say Hi if she says Hi.

If she did not lock eye contact with me, I would go ahead and say Hi when
she got close to me. In many instances she would then enthusiastically
turn to me and smile and say Hi.

I would also look at chicks who were with a man if he was not looking in
my general direction. I was surprised at the number of times that she
would lock on and actually smile.

David Shade


Taken from Fastseduction 101. I have experimented a little with it, and it seems to work.

 

[Aaron B]

yeah, thats good stuff. I already do that naturally.

Many times a beautiful woman will absolutely refuse to make eye contact with me in a similar situation to the one just given as an example. Its not that we make eye contact and she immediately looks away, its that she is purposefully avoiding eye contact with me. But when I purposefully avoid it with her, oftentimes they will start checking me out.

I do get tons of eye contact from average to cute women though. Back to my original point, it seems like the more I ignore the hotties, the more they pay attention to me.

Next time it happens I'm gonna stop them and start a convo to see what happens.

 

[poriland4]

Re: This may be helpful

This is my first port here and I'm loking forward to posts like this one. It's good research work that is conmesurate with Don Juan phylosophy. Thanks

 

[omerta1111]

I want to know where the heck this WalMart is with all the hot babes!