If You're Girlfriend Wanted A Stupid Piercing?

[soulforge]

My mate just had a bust up with his chick over this & I have experienced this myself with my ex.

What if you're LTR wanted to go ahead & get like a ring through her lips, or one of those stupid cow rings through her nose.

If you as her man didn't find this attractive at all, would you let her know that you don't find this attractive?

Or would you just Shvt the fuk up, and let her do anything and everything she wants, even if it turns you off her.

 

[Robert28]

How would I let her know? Easy. “Eww that looks stupid.” And never speak to her again. She’s turning into a feminist if she’s getting those types of piercings. And I mean the raging, green haired kind that doesn’t bathe.

 

[soulforge]

That's the most disgusting $hit I've ever seen


Yes, I would be like "that's gonna look so fvcking disgusting, you'll look like a fvcking cow and it will look bad on you"

If she does it, it means my influence is not as strong on her as the outside influence like media or feminist friends, she problably don't give a fvck about me and its done. People who don't wanna lose other people tend to look attractive for the other one.

Yeh that's exactly how I see it.

If she is willing to go ahead with something that you will not find attractive at all, then she is cares more about social media & current trends, than she does for her partner's attraction level to her.

 

[Young OG]

My gf just recently wanted to get one and I told her that if she does, then she will be single. She’s not planning on getting one anymore. Real men put there foot down to this kind of stuff.

 

[AmsterdamAssassin]

If you're able to walk away from this LTR, you really think she'd get a piercing regardless of how you feel about it?

 

[soulforge]

My gf just recently wanted to get one and I told her that if she does, then she will be single. She’s not planning on getting one anymore. Real men put there foot down to this kind of stuff.

Yeh I had a similar experience with my ex.

I put my foot down and said no to her, told her I don't find this attractive.

She responded with anger at me!

"It's my body, I will do whatever I want with it, why do you men think you can control us & tell me what I can do with my body"

As you can imagine, she is my ex now.. I eventually dumped her.

My mate has a Similar issue now, I told him tonight to let her know firmly that he will not tolerate that kinda crap.

If she goes ahead and does it anyway, be ready to dump/walk away.

 

[Hal9000]

I can guarantee if you started wearing your hair in a mullet or to walk around in a tank top all of the time she wouldn't hesitate to tell you she thought you looked terrible. Why should telling her be any different? Sure be respectful but nothing wrong with having an opinion about your gfs appearance.

 

[soulforge]

I can guarantee if you started wearing your hair in a mullet or to walk around in a tank top all of the time she wouldn't hesitate to tell you she thought you looked terrible. Why should telling her be any different? Sure be respectful but nothing wrong with having an opinion about your gfs appearance.

Yeh she wouldn't be seen in public with you.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

She has already decided that she values that more than her relationship...say whatever you want but it's not going to make any difference.

 

[soulforge]

She has already decided that she values that more than her relationship...say whatever you want but it's not going to make any difference.

Facts. My advice to him is... Next Her!

 

[soulforge]

 

[SW15]

My gf just recently wanted to get one and I told her that if she does, then she will be single. She’s not planning on getting one anymore. Real men put there foot down to this kind of stuff.

Agree. This is perfect. Same rule should apply to most Girls Trips.

 

[RangerMIke]

I was dating a woman awhile back that got into tattoos. I really don't care about this, but she went overboard. It got to the point where it bothered me, so I dumped her.

The morale, you can't control women... all you can do is walk away if she does sh1t you don't like.

 

[RazorRambo24]

Idk man i personally dont think about random scenarios like this .. But idk man --when you're the man and you lock a girl down, alot of them if not all are just pretty agreeable / value what makes you happy/your opinion and respect it greatly.

I mean its just common sense-- if a girl likes you alot and knows u dont like something, they quickly dont do tht sht. u learn this as early as highschool.. Like you can even be joking and tell a girl that red looks bad on her, and wathc as she never wears red again.

 

[The Duke]

Your girl should know better. If she pushes for it, throws a fit, does it anyways then she isn't long term material or doesn't respect you. Solid women that are into you want to keep you happy.

 

[soulforge]

Your girl should know better. If she pushes for it, throws a fit, does it anyways then she isn't long term material or doesn't respect you. Solid women that are into you want to keep you happy.

This is Facts. I think even if she puts up Resistance, when you tell her NO, that initself is a big problem.

She should know no better, and if she fights back, she will likely fight back on everything.

 

[The Duke]

This is Facts. I think even if she puts up Resistance, when you tell her NO, that initself is a big problem.

She should know no better, and if she fights back, she will likely fight back on everything.

I've had 3 of my past LTR's that wanted to cut their hair short. I absolutely hate short hair on women. All I had to do was jokingly tell them that we would have to divorce and they probably shouldn't come home after their hair appointment if that's what they wanted . They all understood and dropped the issue. Every now and then they would take off 2" of their hair to get rid of the split ends and they would always tell me, " I only took off what I had to so my hair would look/grow healthy. " That's how a good submissive girl handles it if she respects her man.

 

[soulforge]

I've had 3 of my past LTR's that wanted to cut their hair short. I absolutely hate short hair on women. All I had to do was jokingly tell them that we would have to divorce and they probably shouldn't come home after their hair appointment if that's what they wanted . They all understood and dropped the issue. Every now and then they would take off 2" of their hair to get rid of the split ends and they would always tell me, " I only took off what I had to so my hair would look/grow healthy. " That's how a good submissive girl handles it if she respects her man.

Lol my ex..

Soul I'm going to get my lip pierced soon.

Me - Sure go ahead, but I don't find that attractive at all, so no more kisses for you from here on.

Ex - It's my body, I can do what I want. Why do you men have to tell us woman what we can and can't do!

My reaction.. Silence & Distance for days, till she began groveling.

That's how girls who are raised without a father react. They absolutely have no idea what respect is & how to interact with men.

 

[soulforge]

I've had 3 of my past LTR's that wanted to cut their hair short. I absolutely hate short hair on women. All I had to do was jokingly tell them that we would have to divorce and they probably shouldn't come home after their hair appointment if that's what they wanted . They all understood and dropped the issue. Every now and then they would take off 2" of their hair to get rid of the split ends and they would always tell me, " I only took off what I had to so my hair would look/grow healthy. " That's how a good submissive girl handles it if she respects her man.

Last I heard from her was two weeks ago.

Making posts on Facebook about how heartbroken she is and how no man will ever love her.. lol these fukin woman are literally destroying their own lives.

 

[Young OG]

Yeh I had a similar experience with my ex.

I put my foot down and said no to her, told her I don't find this attractive.

She responded with anger at me!

"It's my body, I will do whatever I want with it, why do you men think you can control us & tell me what I can do with my body"

As you can imagine, she is my ex now.. I eventually dumped her.

My mate has a Similar issue now, I told him tonight to let her know firmly that he will not tolerate that kinda crap.

If she goes ahead and does it anyway, be ready to dump/walk away.

Technically I never said no. I just let her know that she will be single if she gets it. So when women say we are telling them what they can do with their bodies, then you can tell her that you’re not. Go ahead get one, but you will be single. Actions have consequences. Women can do what they want but men do not have to stick around if they don’t like what the woman is doing.