If you notice certain chicks dating lowlives etc

[djjizzyjeff]

If you notice certain chicks dating lowlives etc. or dudes generally on the lower scale of society (wanna be thug types)...and you avoid dating those chicks yourself (keeping it cordial yet not bothering more with them)...Does that makes you an "AFC"?

IMO it means you have standards and don't date any chick or see yourself as having to "prove" something by dating a chick who prefers lower value males than yourself especially if you can get other chicks who make wiser choices in the types they prefer to date/ call boyfriend.

 

[TheCWord]

I typically live in a big city but I'm currently in a small town for a few months for work - and out here, everywhere you look, you see hot girls dating the ugly wanna-be thugs. I could tell myself that it's a small town and these girls just don't have options, and they'd be lucky if I approached them and saved them from their scummy boyfriends... But I just can't... These girls found those types of guys attractive enough to date... I personally wouldn't want to date a girl who would be even seen in public with one of those douches, let alone hold their hands/kiss them.

I also figure that if a girl is dating a baggy shirt/pants, Neanderthal-talking loser then odds are I'm not her type.

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

I've done wrote off so many black girls for this **** it ain't even funny. I seriously don't even get the logic behind the decisions they make. I've always preferred Latinas instead. Then, the black girls want to get mad when most of the worthwhile black guys out here date outside their race.

Out in my area most of the white/asian chicks don't do this, while the latinas are about 50%. I know every state is different so it could be a whole different ball game somewhere else. People tell me the alot of the Latinas date scummy dudes in the southwestern border states where all that cholo/vato Mexican culture is prevalent.

 

[zekko]

If I see a girl who dates lowlifes I will write her off, no questions asked. It's a shame in a way, because some of the girls are kind of cute, but it can't be helped. Birds of a feather flock together.

 

[iamnobody]

I disagree, some of those lowlives might actually have a certain "fvck the world" alphaesque aura whether they are thugs, junkies or other flavors. They must be doing something right. You writing those chicks off is weakness on your part - unless you're looking for someone who's gf material.

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

I disagree, some of those lowlives might actually have a certain "fvck the world" alphaesque aura whether they are thugs, junkies or other flavors. They must be doing something right. You writing those chicks off is weakness on your part - unless you're looking for someone who's gf material.

I know a dude from Highschool who "got locked up" that is HIV positive. Was a wakeup call some wild **** goes on in prison. After highschool all that bullsh!t gets played out anyway. Nothing cool about being broke in the real world and grtting bad grades in college isn't seen as "cute". It's literally impossible to respect those girls who STILL go for that type of mess. Words from a wise man:

"Being broke is childish and I'm quite grown"

 

[Mike32ct]

I don't care how hot she is. If she dumpster dives, I'm not interested.

 

[zekko]

You writing those chicks off is weakness on your part - unless you're looking for someone who's gf material.

I don't care how hot she is. If she dumpster dives, I'm not interested.

I agree with Mike on this. And I see this as a strength, not a weakness.

 

[iamnobody]

I know a guy, he's a decent yet tormented painter and has a bad drinking habbit. Most people would see him as lowlife. However he gets poon the right way, without making any efforts. THis is what I'm talking about when I say these people must be doing something right: he doesn't care if he gets any or doesn't. I don't see these chicks as being dumpster dives.

 

[djjizzyjeff]

I disagree, some of those lowlives might actually have a certain "fvck the world" alphaesque aura whether they are thugs, junkies or other flavors. They must be doing something right. You writing those chicks off is weakness on your part - unless you're looking for someone who's gf material.

You must be the "2Pac" KJ Fvck the world type?

You have no plans in life to better yourself as it's seen as "weak"? LMFAO.

I know a guy, he's a decent yet tormented painter and has a bad drinking habbit. Most people would see him as lowlife. However he gets poon the right way, without making any efforts. THis is what I'm talking about when I say these people must be doing something right: he doesn't care if he gets any or doesn't. I don't see these chicks as being dumpster dives.

I'd say you either have pvzzy so high on a pedestal you could care less if the chick dates a string of losers so long as you think you're being "alpha" by going after her or you're completely full of sh1t and KJing.

Like it or not there's dudes out there who just because they avoid certain types of chicks even if hot doesn't mean in the least they can't, don't or won't get other chicks who are just as hot but have some more common sense.

No one who goes with the types of chicks who go with lowlives should ever complain as it's them the dude who chose to go for them.

Water always finds it's own level. True story.

 

[iamnobody]

I say you don't have the balls to go for it and find excuses for yourself.
Don't judge by the cover, read a chapter or two. You might be surprised.
Thanks for the 2pac thing, shot beer through the nose. But I'm thinking more in terms like Jim Morrison or Pablo Picasso fvck the world.

 

[djjizzyjeff]

I say you don't have the balls to go for it and find excuses for yourself.
Don't judge by the cover, read a chapter or two. You might be surprised.
Thanks for the 2pac thing, shot beer through the nose. But I'm thinking more in terms like Jim Morrison or Pablo Picasso fvck the world.

Your right Mynameisnobody. We should all also strive to move to the sh1ttiest part of town too unless we "have no balls to go for it". LMAO

 

[Groovy]

So, let me get the point we are discussing. "It is is weak to refuse to date someone with no morals?"

Ok, ok... I get it. We all want girls. It's "alpha" to have girls. But what about refusing bad girls? Is that good or bad? If everyone did that, what do you think would happen to bad girls? That's right! Maybe there would be none! So we would all be dating good girls because we didn't have a choice. By doing nothing, we would change the world of dating slowly, step by step. Pretty cool. But of course, this is a simple idea. But simplcity, too, has it's merit sometimes. Funny, even when the situation is complicated as it is... "Muddy water. Let stand. Becomes still". (Lao tse). But of course, I haven't discussed the details here. Another time, maybe.

Anyway, don't date dumb people. Is it a mental idea people are trying to fullfill here? We need girls to be cool. But, Krishnamurti says: "It's no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society". Say NO. For how long have you not heard that simple word? Einstein says: "Do not seek to be a man of sucess, but a man of value".

Yes, maybe it will make your life boring.

But that remains a mistery for now...

 

[iamnobody]

Here's a little something from last saturday.
Some foreign aw HB 9 I just met clicked with me. She had a 2meters x 2 meters footlocker type pretender. I'm not big.
However, I took her somewhere else regardless. Because she was fun.
Turns out she can sing. And fvck.
The footlocker couldn't understand sh1t and went about dragging his tail when we bounced locations. He could've smashed me to pieces.
You see, appearances are deceiving.
By doing nothing we ended up smack on in whorshiping princesses like mother told us.

 

[dronkitto]

The explanation is easy: drugs
lol
no lolz, it's the truth

I usually find myself with crush on such girls... not thrashy themselves, but studying, working, well educated girls. But right after some scum with ganja or coke. What a waste. An I can't get them to dig me cause I don't fit in the pattern. Really depresses me.

 

[handle]

This is a matter of personal preference... These days I don't have a lot of patience for dealing with the girls you refer to as "lowlifes." But there were definitely phases where I was into those chicks.

Do what YOU want.