thevilittletroll
Senior Don Juan
If your reading this and you have a oneitis, If there is a girl you met more than 3 weeks ago and you haven’t either went on a date with her because she’s flaked on you, or haven’t even kissed her yet, then this article is for you. I’ve got one word for you, STOP!
Stop chasing her!
Stop talking to her and texting her!
Stop thinking that every little thing she says to you means she’s interested!
Stop being the guy she contacts when she has nothing else better to do!
Kill your oneitis forever!
You are not going to get her!
You are not going to have sex with her!
She’s not attracted to you!
She thinks you are a total AFC and she’s right!
With that out of the way, let me explain a few things to you. The reason you have a oneitis is because you think she’s into you, but she’s just playing hard to get. You are wrong! The fact is, the biggest reason that you have not gotten with your oneitis is because she’s not attracted to you. Or, she was attracted to you from the beginning, but you failed to make a move quickly enough and she lost interest. She then made the decision that you were not man enough for her. Since you are a nice guy, and fun to be around, she sees you as no threat to her safety, therefore putting you into the friend zone. She will hang out with you from time to time, but only when she’s feeling self conscious about herself. You will compliment her, tell her how beautiful she is, and kiss her ass. That will make her feel better about herself but, she still does not see you as a potential sex partner. She does this only for self validation. You failed to show her enough of your alpha male characteristics.
You need to start over, start from the beginning, and learn how attract women. This will not be easy but until you learn this skill set, you will never be happy with your love life, because you will always settle for what you can get. Wouldn’t you rather be able to pick & choose what you get? Search this forum, and over the internet about attraction techniques, routines, DHV’s, direct game, and study it. Most importantly get out there in the field and practice what you learned. Learn a new technique and practice it until it becomes a natural part of you. Learn another technique, and do the same thing over and over again. This game is all about practice, practice, and more practice.
Your game is useless until you attract her first. Your first impression is the key. That’s why it’s so important that she’s attracted to you from the start. Your second impression is her verifying that you are not faking it. And that her attraction towards you is real. If you fail to attract her, her negative opinion of you will be etched in stone into her mind. It’s almost impossible to change this image, that’s why it’s so important. It could take months or even years to change her opinion of you, a big waste of time. If you screw up, best to cut your losses, and move on to the next girl. Once you’ve learned to attract her, then learn how to close the deal. Nothing is worse to her than a guy she’s attracted to that’s too big of a p.ussy to make a move and close the deal. She likes you, she wants you to make a move, if you don’t you’ve lost her forever. Take chances and risks and learn to be more upfront and direct with your intentions. This shows her you are a confident man, knows what he wants, and how to get it. She should know that you think she is sexy, and you are trying to get into her pants.
Always have multiple plates spinning. If you’re worried about one girl in particular, you’ll become too available and needy, and she’ll lose interest. Once she knows you are totally into her, and her only, and she can have you whenever she wants, the chase for her is over, you are no longer a challenge.
Once you get to the point where you can see a woman, approach her, attract her, get her #, get the date, kiss her, and f.uck her. And you are able to do this on a consistent basis. Only then are you the type of man that your oneitis would have sex with. If you still want your oneitis after that, I’d say at this point you are ready to go after her, and go for it. I doubt you’ll still want to, because now you can get whoever you want.
Stop chasing her!
Stop talking to her and texting her!
Stop thinking that every little thing she says to you means she’s interested!
Stop being the guy she contacts when she has nothing else better to do!
Kill your oneitis forever!
You are not going to get her!
You are not going to have sex with her!
She’s not attracted to you!
She thinks you are a total AFC and she’s right!
With that out of the way, let me explain a few things to you. The reason you have a oneitis is because you think she’s into you, but she’s just playing hard to get. You are wrong! The fact is, the biggest reason that you have not gotten with your oneitis is because she’s not attracted to you. Or, she was attracted to you from the beginning, but you failed to make a move quickly enough and she lost interest. She then made the decision that you were not man enough for her. Since you are a nice guy, and fun to be around, she sees you as no threat to her safety, therefore putting you into the friend zone. She will hang out with you from time to time, but only when she’s feeling self conscious about herself. You will compliment her, tell her how beautiful she is, and kiss her ass. That will make her feel better about herself but, she still does not see you as a potential sex partner. She does this only for self validation. You failed to show her enough of your alpha male characteristics.
You need to start over, start from the beginning, and learn how attract women. This will not be easy but until you learn this skill set, you will never be happy with your love life, because you will always settle for what you can get. Wouldn’t you rather be able to pick & choose what you get? Search this forum, and over the internet about attraction techniques, routines, DHV’s, direct game, and study it. Most importantly get out there in the field and practice what you learned. Learn a new technique and practice it until it becomes a natural part of you. Learn another technique, and do the same thing over and over again. This game is all about practice, practice, and more practice.
Your game is useless until you attract her first. Your first impression is the key. That’s why it’s so important that she’s attracted to you from the start. Your second impression is her verifying that you are not faking it. And that her attraction towards you is real. If you fail to attract her, her negative opinion of you will be etched in stone into her mind. It’s almost impossible to change this image, that’s why it’s so important. It could take months or even years to change her opinion of you, a big waste of time. If you screw up, best to cut your losses, and move on to the next girl. Once you’ve learned to attract her, then learn how to close the deal. Nothing is worse to her than a guy she’s attracted to that’s too big of a p.ussy to make a move and close the deal. She likes you, she wants you to make a move, if you don’t you’ve lost her forever. Take chances and risks and learn to be more upfront and direct with your intentions. This shows her you are a confident man, knows what he wants, and how to get it. She should know that you think she is sexy, and you are trying to get into her pants.
Always have multiple plates spinning. If you’re worried about one girl in particular, you’ll become too available and needy, and she’ll lose interest. Once she knows you are totally into her, and her only, and she can have you whenever she wants, the chase for her is over, you are no longer a challenge.
Once you get to the point where you can see a woman, approach her, attract her, get her #, get the date, kiss her, and f.uck her. And you are able to do this on a consistent basis. Only then are you the type of man that your oneitis would have sex with. If you still want your oneitis after that, I’d say at this point you are ready to go after her, and go for it. I doubt you’ll still want to, because now you can get whoever you want.