If you can't smile, don't.

[ScottMustaine]

Yeah, that's it, if you just like me tend not to open your mouth , but simply have a happy grin on your face. Then don't overtend to be the one with happy face.

Not only it's fake, it also makes you look like a retard.


Simply put it , if you aren't happy or amused to have a happy grin on your face, then don't force it.
Try to make yourself happy in that place and it will naturally come.
And if you can't make yourself happy then you got nothing to do, go somewhere else.
If you can't go somewhere else, get drunk.

Be yourself.

 

[Fly By Night]

I'm definitely not the smiley type so I just stick with my smirk. Smiling with one side of my mouth slightly more exaggerated than the other. In my case, it's very hard to tell if I am faking a smirk or not just because I've used that expression so many times before. I think you just need your "attraction mode" face. Any facial expression that makes your face appealing.

But, smiling is a strong way to catch a girl's attention.

 

[ScottMustaine]

Most of my girlfriends got attracted to me when I was slighlty angered. Though I notice now some things. Low self esteem girls are attracted to everything that creeps out danger. Simply put it, the attraction would start when some guy would anger me, and I would put my face into " I'll destroy you " mode.


One of my ex girlfriends confessed she liked my " I don't give a ****, get out of my way" attitude towards other males who tried to mock me and would soon get wiped away by harsh words or 'looks'.


But I was 'nice' to her, and that made her feel special.



Also that smile with only half of your face which says " Come and get me" or " This seems to be interesting " is on my face and gets most of attraction, though I never have it to attract girls.


Shows I'm lightly amused.

 

[perseverance]

I hardly ever smile, apparently I walk around with an aggressive/possessed look on my face that is quite 'intimidating'.

 

[Purefilth]

I hardly ever smile, apparently I walk around with an aggressive/possessed look on my face that is quite 'intimidating'.

I'm normally a happy person - one of theose cvnts that just keeps smiling, however, one night in a bar i was sat with a couple of girls and saw a guy that had really p1ssed me off before, and the angry face came on -(the 'im gonna get over there and hit this ****' face).

It was only for a moment but the natural smile flitting into almost pure aggression got at least two of their panties wet.

Convo went smth like....
Whats was that?

Whats what?

That look you just did?

Ah nothing - just some ****head - dont worry about it...

That was.. wow, just... wow, I got tingles!

^^ Just something to consider....

 

[ScottMustaine]

Yup, I always thought girls are more into 'dangerous' guys with 'dangerous' looks than with 'im happy' smiles...


I don't know, I guess most women smile, but it's not with males. Smiling degrades your 'power' so you are accepted by group, but you are not feared and marked as a clown.

 

[BeDJ]

Yup, I always thought girls are more into 'dangerous' guys with 'dangerous' looks than with 'im happy' smiles...


I don't know, I guess most women smile, but it's not with males. Smiling degrades your 'power' so you are accepted by group, but you are not feared and marked as a clown.

Get that bs out of your system.

Smiling is one of the sexiest attributes we have. Learn to smile and take care of your teeth.

 

[NobodyCares1]

I used to smile very rarely at girls without a real reason, but when I began to develop my game I began smiling at girls and it got me good results. At first I faked it a bit because I felt a bit nervous just smiling at girls I didn't know well. One girl told me that I have that kind of shy but sincire smile, and that I have a really nice smile. I don't smile with teeth, just a simple smile.

It's a powerful tool, just don't use it when it would really be weird.

 

[perseverance]

Get that bs out of your system.

Smiling is one of the sexiest attributes we have. Learn to smile and take care of your teeth.

I have to agree, I notice I get a lot more female attention when I'm smiling and not walking around like a grizzly bear who just lost his salmon to John West. Smiling is sexy, walking around with the look of someone who is p*ssed off, probably isn't.

 

[Stagger Lee]

Most people, especially guys who are the most success with women, smile pretty regularly when socially interacting showing teeth and have aesthetic smile.

If you watch actors both male and female on TV and movies, they smile a lot. It's their business to be attractive and appealing and they spend big money on to have aesthetic teeth and smiles.

Most guys who are not very successful with women do not smile or have a good smile. The thing is if you are not naturally smiley and don't have a good smile it can hurt you more than it helps you to force and awkward unaesthetc smile.

 

[flashpoint]

i on the other hand walk around with the thought in my head to kill the bunny. with reference to the part from "Swingers" where the guys tell the rather helpless guy, that he is a bear and all the chicks are cute little bunnies and are afraid of him, and he is that beast that cant help it. always makes me smile. in a good way i assume judging from the reactions. it is a "i know something you dont know (yet)" kinda smile. and it works for me.

bottom line, if you have a hard time smiling and looking happy, just think of something you enjoy and fits your personality. the smile we are talking here is one that comes from inside and is an expression of an inner approach towards the world. it makes people curious what is going on with you. and it is different from that one that looks awkward and only results from a (primal based) escape routine in social situations where you want just to release the tension that naturally occurs when people get close to each other.

but of course either way you never want to smile every single second. but it is not like you would hold the same thought every single second either.

 

[ScottMustaine]

My eyes smile with happiness, you know the person whose eyes smile?


But my real smile when in group of people is like this guys ( couldn't think of any guy for now so it's from a game)

http://fc07.deviantart.net/fs43/f/2009/145/1/0/Vergil__s_Secret_by_Lady_Midori.jpg


or this


http://i1123.photobucket.com/albums/l550/chaozi94/600full-vergil-sparda.jpg

 

[Dominance]

Yeah sometimes if you are just congruent it doesn't matter, don't go around fake smiling all the time. I've actually had girls approach me when i've looked angry, the last one said "you look like an *******" and she was obviously attracted. She must of liked *******s.

Also there has been times i've been really angry at people having a go at me when I was doing security and just owned that and let it be in my body without having to express it and go off and i've noticed some of these times i've had the interest of several girls around me looking at me.

But my problem is I think I seem intimidating at times, so maybe I should smile more.

 

[Scars]

I've had best results when I caught a girls eye contact in the middle of a genuine laugh. Whether it was a party, school, or whatever. Almost seems like fate sometimes. (Lol women BS). But yeah. Too genuine to ignore. Just be laughing all the time, and be funny. Been working for me for years.

-Scars