If you are in a LTR, how physically attractive must the girl be?

If you are in a LT relationship, how physically attractive must she be?

  • She must be very hot. I have high standards.

    Votes: 7 10.6%
  • She must be good looking, like HB8

    Votes: 33 50.0%
  • She just needs to be above average

    Votes: 18 27.3%
  • As long as she looks atleast average, that's fine with me

    Votes: 5 7.6%
  • She could be below average in looks, personality is mostly what I care about

    Votes: 3 4.5%

  • Total voters
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I_Only_Live_Once

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The question itself is pretty self-explanatory. I want to take a gauge of the people here in terms of how important looks plays in a long term relationship. This way we will have a better understanding of about the people who come here.
 

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Personally, for a LTR personality is the most important but that being said she'd still have to be decent. As much fun as some hot ***** might be for awhile i couldn't see a LTR developing with a HB unless shes got something more then her looks going on for her,=.
 
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She needs to look above average. By that I mean, in good heathy shape. Since the 'average' has fallen so much.
 

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I'm cool with an average looking girl just as long as she's not dumb like some girls are
 

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I said she needs to be hot. Anything else and i seem to get cold feet at the moment.
 

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I_Only_Live_Once

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I see. There's actually a lot of different choices people are going for.
 

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not just hot, but takes good care of herself, knows what it means to be sexy all the time, graceful, etc..

in LTR all those details become important, otherwise its a pain to be with a girl who isn't stimulating you sexually.


personality is important too though.
 

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I voted "above average".

I don't think my "minimum requirement" is too excessive:
1) She should be thin, in other words NO fatties please. Never ever.
2) She should have a face that's at least "cute", I should at least find something attractive about her face.

That's it. Of course there are so many other features that would be nice to have, but they are not potential deal breakers.
 

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I date only ho chicks. After date i chck if the are - smart, funny and rich. If so, we are in LTR. Doesnt happend too often. Mostly hot chicks are dumb as hell or so.
I also look on clothes i like em fancy.
 

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There's too many cute 8+ chicks out there to not be able to find one with a good personality. Don't all you guys feel better when you're walking down the street with an attractive girl on your arm, compared to an average or below average girl?

As Mystery says, have some standards, people.
 

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Originally posted by Serialized3
Don't all you guys feel better when you're walking down the street with an attractive girl on your arm, compared to an average or below average girl?

it does get annoying to be walking with a hot hot girl though. I used to almost get into fights with random guys before because sometimes guys get jealous, talk ****, etc.. Craaaaaazy.
 

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Serialized3 said:
There's too many cute 8+ chicks out there to not be able to find one with a good personality. Don't all you guys feel better when you're walking down the street with an attractive girl on your arm, compared to an average or below average girl?
Yeah that's true, but it makes me feel shallow.
 

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i think two big factors play a part to a guy's response to this question:


1) where does he fall on the ten scale of looks?


2) what's his status in terms of wealth?
 

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I now have a LTR GF. She is v good looking. Great in bed. Funny. Cute and sweet.


I have been with 3 other girls this year and non of them matched up at all.
 

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I have tried having a gf that was not up to standards with the looks that did not meet my standards, broke up after 2 months...
 

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If you are not physically attracted to a girl, the relationship is ultimatley a friendship with sex. That is not a healthy situation to be in, at least while you are still sexually active, once you hit 80 and the viagra doesn't help anymore, things change a little. Women deep down understand that, and thats why they fret so much over their appearance. Yet I'd much rather date an 8 with an awesome personality than a 9 with none.

I don't think I could date a 5 or below though.
 

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She's gotta be a HB8. Someone pleasing to look at. I'm in a LTR right now (welll... Not yet.. It's only 4 months). HB8, and we really click.

It's not hard to find a dime w/ a good personality. Just gotta know where to look (and have a bit of luck of course).
 

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Syren said:
If you are not physically attracted to a girl, the relationship is ultimatley a friendship with sex.
Why would you have sex with a women your not attracted to? More importantly, how could you enter a LTR with a women your not attracted to? These are not DJ skills.
 
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