If she's interested will she contact YOU?

[Locogooner]

so me and the girl were flirting before the summer holidays.

she said that i have a big ****, should be her bf and she fancies me

etc. but on the other hand we didn't really talk much more than that and she was flirting with this other guy who told me that she also wants sex from him.

summer holidays starts on monday.

should i chase her or if she's truly interested she'll contact me over the summer?

 

[8ball]

Chase her. But to a point. Show her your unmistakably interested and then watch what she does. If it's nothing, move on.

 

[gaspipe]

so me and the girl were flirting before the summer holidays.

she said that i have a big ****, should be her bf and she fancies me

etc. but on the other hand we didn't really talk much more than that and she was flirting with this other guy who told me that she also wants sex from him.

summer holidays starts on monday.

should i chase her or if she's truly interested she'll contact me over the summer?

It depends. Some girls just dont chase guys even if they like you alot.

If she said that about another guy the shes a slvt and probably not worh your time anyways.

 

[TempestNight]

From my personal experience, younger chicks (8-22) LOVE to play games, they desire that special attention from men more than anything else. Some of them will not show the initiative no matter how much they like you.

Matured women (22+) most likely already had their share of fun in their younger days back in high school and college. They understand that their youth and beauty is now running on a clock and they are willing to be more aggresive and active to pursue men, play less games, be more ernest, etc.

It sounds like your girl is in the first category.

 

[gaspipe]

From my personal experience, younger chicks (8-22) LOVE to play games, they desire that special attention from men more than anything else. Some of them will not show the initiative no matter how much they like you.

Matured women (22+) most likely already had their share of fun in their younger days back in high school and college. They understand that their youth and beauty is now running on a clock and they are willing to be more aggresive and active to pursue men, play less games, be more ernest, etc.

It sounds like your girl is in the first category.

I tend to disagree a little. I think game playing for women probably extends into their mid twenties and they start thinking seriously at 26+ based on my experience.

 

[PapiChulo]

It all depends on how interested she is and what the nature of the interest is. If it is above 50% she will contact you. If there is low interest- you are the one to create more attraction. The thing is that they all love attention and like when you chase them, but ideally they would love to have it the other way around. F it is clear that you are interested, the ball is in her court, because you can push only this far without appearing too eager.

 

[Locogooner]

1 more thing

she just got out of a year long relationship 2 months ago

 

[The_411]

From my personal experience, younger chicks (8-22) LOVE to play games, they desire that special attention from men more than anything else. Some of them will not show the initiative no matter how much they like you.

Matured women (22+) most likely already had their share of fun in their younger days back in high school and college. They understand that their youth and beauty is now running on a clock and they are willing to be more aggresive and active to pursue men, play less games, be more ernest, etc.

It sounds like your girl is in the first category.

Damn tempest 8 year olds? I'm joking of course

 

[TempestNight]

Damn tempest 8 year olds? I'm joking of course

Don't be, because I wasn't :crackup:

 

[thevilittletroll]

most women will not chase you even if they are attracted to you. if they are attracted to you they will def give you signals, but not necesarily chase you. its up to the man to initiate the interaction. this is how most westernized cultures women are brought up. they get the reputation of being a slut if they chase right off the bat. once you have initiated and attracted her she will become more succeptable to begin chasing you which in her mind is ok becasue at this point you both like each other. you should always initiate, and follow up, but use some form of descretion. you never want to over chase either. i like to use the 3 strikes rule, anything else similar is fine. keep in mind there are no rules in seduction only guidelines. if a woman is extremely attracted to you she will break all the rules.

 

[Locogooner]

ehh, guys

i'm not too sure now. I was just on facebook and i saw her talking with her ex she recently just added, again. She was talking about "last night" and stuff like that.

Not sure if she's worth pursuing anymore..