In their moment of weakness I just hug them and say that this feeling is only momentary - they usually say, "Thanks for being here." - then I start kissing them on the neck and rub my hands up and down their back and buttocks, simultaneously!! Then they start freaking and scream, "WHAT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING?' I say, "I'm comforting you.". They run away while yelling, "You're a freaking perv!!! I guess I'm not a good comforter.cNfny said:What's the proper way to be towards a girl who's feeling down about something.