pikachu_69
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I set up a date with a girl on Sat for this Friday who I saw before, so this is kinda our get back together thing. She has exams this week so I need to respect her space.
The prob is that we are on a small campus that I kept bumping into her on consecutive days since Saturday when I'm trying to be less available. I hang out in this same cafe and shes always there too, so after Sunday I'm avoiding going there till Friday, and went to my other place I usually go.. and guess what?? She's f'ing there too on Monday!! I was like wtf??
I made the mistake on Saturday and Sunday of talking to her too much just cos she was there realising I was too available I promised myself I'd avoid her till Friday. Anyway on Monday she was with a guy having coffee in the other place, I pretended I didn't see her (I didn't realise it was her at first) as I passed behind her then, I went into the other room but she must have noticed I was there. I didn't bother saying hi to her as I didn't want to seem jealous.
Yesterday I avoided both places to make sure I didn't see her and guess what?? When I left the place last night and walking back home through the main road on campus she was f'ing going there too!! I couldn't believe my bad luck.
My eyesight isn't great and i wasn't wearing my glasses, I had my hood up and it was dark but the street lights were bright enough to see clearly, we didn't meet in the middle as we were coming from oppposite directions but she was about 20feet ahead of me so must have seen me before she turned into the main road to walk down, when I realised she was in front of me I put my glasses on and stood back waiting for her to turn right as I didn't want it to seem as if I was following her cos I wasn't. When she turned I carried on walking home but I couldn't help but check her out from the distance as she walked off down right (i was going straight) the bad bit is that even though she was like 35feet away from me she turned back to look, as if someone was following her. I had my head turned slightly to the right but I didnt break stride but if she saw me looking that's bad news. I turned to look forward when I noticed her look back. I think we did make eye contact even from that distance.
What do I do now? I don't want her to flake on Friday but if she thinks i'm creey i'm royally screwed!!
The prob is that we are on a small campus that I kept bumping into her on consecutive days since Saturday when I'm trying to be less available. I hang out in this same cafe and shes always there too, so after Sunday I'm avoiding going there till Friday, and went to my other place I usually go.. and guess what?? She's f'ing there too on Monday!! I was like wtf??
I made the mistake on Saturday and Sunday of talking to her too much just cos she was there realising I was too available I promised myself I'd avoid her till Friday. Anyway on Monday she was with a guy having coffee in the other place, I pretended I didn't see her (I didn't realise it was her at first) as I passed behind her then, I went into the other room but she must have noticed I was there. I didn't bother saying hi to her as I didn't want to seem jealous.
Yesterday I avoided both places to make sure I didn't see her and guess what?? When I left the place last night and walking back home through the main road on campus she was f'ing going there too!! I couldn't believe my bad luck.
My eyesight isn't great and i wasn't wearing my glasses, I had my hood up and it was dark but the street lights were bright enough to see clearly, we didn't meet in the middle as we were coming from oppposite directions but she was about 20feet ahead of me so must have seen me before she turned into the main road to walk down, when I realised she was in front of me I put my glasses on and stood back waiting for her to turn right as I didn't want it to seem as if I was following her cos I wasn't. When she turned I carried on walking home but I couldn't help but check her out from the distance as she walked off down right (i was going straight) the bad bit is that even though she was like 35feet away from me she turned back to look, as if someone was following her. I had my head turned slightly to the right but I didnt break stride but if she saw me looking that's bad news. I turned to look forward when I noticed her look back. I think we did make eye contact even from that distance.
What do I do now? I don't want her to flake on Friday but if she thinks i'm creey i'm royally screwed!!
