If she left you?

[phil2015]

Hi Guys


If your girlfriend/wife left you and took her things to her mums whilst you were at work…..


How would any of you react?

 

[lizardking82]

No reaction. There is no point in asking for explanations from a person that leaves in that way. She is either doing it to get a reaction from me (in which case I won't give her one to stroke her stupid ego) or she's doing it because she has communication problems in which case it is not my duty to fix them for her and I wouldn't even if I tried. No reaction at all will drive her nuts, but you don't do it to drive her nuts, you do it simply because you don't give a ****. This fly does not even cross your eyesight.

 

[playa99]

I wouldn't. She is gone & I would move on with my life & only contact her to sever any financial ties that you have. If you go searching for answers, she will perceive this as you acting needy & will try to use this to validate her poor behavior.

Do not keep people in your life who don't want to be there.

 

[kronreiff]

I think I would have seen some signs that this was in the works before it happened. However, if it came down to this, I would scour the house for anything she may have left behind. Whatever I found would go in a box and out to the sidewalk before I change the locks and take the final steps to completely eliminate her from my life and move on.

 

[wifehunter]

Party time!!!

 

[Alvafe]

Hi Guys


If your girlfriend/wife left you and took her things to her mums whilst you were at work…..


How would any of you react?

I would change the locks of my home.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

If it's random I'd prolly text her asking her where she is and if she moved all her stuff. If she was mad at me and wanted to leave, I'd do and say nothing, unless she took some of my stuff. If she did, I'd prolly tell her to give it back and go over there. But she ain't getting any other attention from me.

 

[Urbanyst]

I would have to dial one of my booty calls then.

And those other women that flirt with me all the time.. I would start talking to them more.

 

[marmel75]

Hi Guys


If your girlfriend/wife left you and took her things to her mums whilst you were at work…..


How would any of you react?

Apparently from your other post its like the 5th or 6th time...shouldn't you have a pretty good grasp on what to do/not to do by this point?

 

[resilient]

Apparently from your other post its like the 5th or 6th time...shouldn't you have a pretty good grasp on what to do/not to do by this point?

Exactly, figure out the common denominator of the problem, Phil; you.

If you recognize a pattern in repeated breakups, resolve the issue. I.e. Too insecure/jealous, neediness, validation seeking from her, indecisive, poor boundaries, not leading as a man, ignoring red flags, getting too attached too quickly, not respecting yourself. Those are just a few major turn offs for women. If you find one or more fix them, nip it in the bud. That's the best you can hope for.

If nothing else...get better at taking care of yourself independently w/o a woman in your life. That's the best gift a DJ could give to himself.

 

[bigneil]

If our girl finds someone better she will leave us (by definition of the word better).

The only thing we can do is make sure there is no one better.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Celebrate your freedom.

 

[C00lAF]

Fk someone on the bed you used to sleep with her on lmao.