MidwestFreek
Senior Don Juan
- Joined
- Mar 12, 2004
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- 36
I would delete all of these posts that overanalyze, that become obsessed with the behavior of one solitary chick. Guys, not to be a **** or anything but the DJ Bible is probably the first thing you should look when you get to the forums. Before you open somebody else's post, before you create one of your own or before you even update your friggin' profile, READ THE BIBLE. There are too many guys on here that are acting like little chumps and wasting screen space by writing things like: "omg like dude..this one girl...she smiled at me...and then the next time i saw her...she didnt...does this mean she liked me and lost interest?". Calm down guys. The thing that really bugs me is when you guys get "oneitis". I've been there, done that. I know how it goes and I know how easy it is to get over it. In no way am I saying don't ask for advice. Please, for everybodys sanity, make sure that your asking for advice instead of asking for somebody to solve your problems. Let's say you like this girl, but you don't know if she likes you. Read the bible, look for something that pertains to your situation. You can't find it? Alright, now post. Don't post "Does she like me?" How are we supposed to know. Try to phrase it like this, "I've noticed her doing this and this, and I'm confused about this. The bible says that it probably means this, but I've got a feeling that it means this. Does that make sense or am I not seeing things clearly at the moment. I might have missed something so point it out if you catch it." That seems kind of off, but you get the general idea. The one thing that bugs me about sosuave.com is the guys who just don't get it. Theres hope for you guys though, you just have to want it bad enough.