if girl says text me if you want, see ya.. don't ?

[chance]

was on the phone to this girl that likes me...

she goes: "im going to bed. text me if you want if not have a good sleep."

i'm thinking not to text. it's some test isn't it? to see how desperate i am.

 

[Bible_Belt]

don't...then call her in a day or two

 

[chance]

she will call me tomorrow or text me .. she did the same today and said: "thanks for not messaging me back today." and i told her i was busy and by the time i read it .. was already too late to reply. what do i say to her when she tells me off this time?

 

[Obsidian]

tell her, "Bah, I don't really do the whole texting thing." Don't let this little girl push you around, man. You do what you want.

Those damn things cost a quarter each, anyway. And don't talk on the phone with girls either. Call them up only to schedule in-person meetings, and get off the phone within about three minutes of calling.

 

[Sandow]

you shoulve texted her. you guys are taking this alpha crap too far. just say goodnight and thats it. now she's gonna think about you all night. girls know when u play games, its a turn off for them. if u are gonna play that alpha/I'm the man crap, then be more subtle about it.


trust me, if u show no interest she'll leave, there are a million other guys out there she can talk to instead.

 

[The Deacon]

you shoulve texted her. you guys are taking this alpha crap too far. just say goodnight and thats it. now she's gonna think about you all night. girls know when u play games, its a turn off for them. if u are gonna play that alpha/I'm the man crap, then be more subtle about it.

I'm with Sandow. Games are pretty ghey. Just go ahead and be flirtacious.

Some of the advice on this forum has seriously warped our minds.

 

[Obsidian]

it's not a game. Why the hell should you be compelled to send a text to someone whom you just got done talking to? That's completely nonsensical. And you shouldn't feel compelled to do it just because some chick wants you to.

 

[j0n024]

agree obsidian, my cousins brother has a girlfriend that he picks up at school then stays at her house all day till 12AM then calls her when he gets to his house till he falls asleep EVERY DAY!

Plus what would be the point of texting her once she did get off the phone AND she said she was going to sleep ....there is no point to it and I think he did the right thing. I dont see this as a "Game" of being alpha just common sense your telling someone your going to sleep and if you wanna text you can....she is going to sleep so she wont even get the text till morning no point.

 

[Sandow]

Well, it's hard to give the right advice given the information we have. All I'm saying, is that if you go overboard with this ****, she's gonna thing ur shady and leave. She knows you like her (im guessing), you can be more down to earth(less games, mystery, negs, etc) from now on.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I swear it seems as if guys are tethered to cells/texting like a dog on a leash (one guess who is holding the leash).