I can tell you from experience because I lost my virginity very late in life. By then, I had spent several months dating several women because I felt very confident, having gone through a year of improving my self-confidence through reading, working out, and doing fun stuff on my own. I actually went to bed with two attractive women, and I was sincere with both of them and told them that I wanted to wait for a few more dates to finally go all the way. Well, maybe they were unusually *****y but their interest level seemed to decrease after my revelation even though I was giving them all kinds of good foreplay. Needless to say, I learned my lesson and didn't tell the next one. She turned out to be better looking than the previous two, and seemed to want me the most. I felt a bit uneasy at first, but I did okay. I spent a week with this chick because she was just traveling through my city, but she said she had an amazing time with me. I met another chick a couple of months later and she couldn't tell I was so inexperienced. I just didn't tel her and let her assume by my confident demeanor that I was an experienced man. I was lucky in that I dated these four women in a matter of six months. I met them because I just went out salsa dancing a lot and so I had the chance to shop and compare. Good luck and just keep a positive attitude.