Ideas For Messaging Online Chicks?

[NoCommitments]

Just started up again with the match, POF etc...

Can you guys gimme ideas of what you write or would write & how to use the PUA model when dealing with online chicks?

here's one of a few I sent out & how I approach it:

First I'll, in a cute way, make fun of their headline or notice something interesting in their profile & tease em with it.

Like one girl wrote "I am a sweet and cute teacher"
So I wrote: Thats a very humble description of yourself. Do you have any other compliments for you? lol

 

[Mantis Toboggan]

I don't think ****y and funny works in an online setting. I'd just say to make normal, good conversation. Meet up. And take it from there.

 

[AAAgent]

I've been doing a lot of online stuff lately and have only been able to land one date.

I've had 1 girl message me since december- she's cute.

I've gotten a lot of responses but after one wrong message that is slightly sub par i either get blocked or just ignored. online is tough and a lot harder than IRL. The only advantage is, its a lot less time consuming as in you don't need to approach.

I wouldn't listen to that naughty ninja guy because it sounds like he's full of crap.

But you need to be witty, mysterious, charming, etc. A little bit of ****y won't really hurt you either.

HB stats
Replied-approximately 5 replied to me
Messaged me-1
Messaged them-15-20

 

[Naughty Ninja]

I've been doing a lot of online stuff lately and have only been able to land one date.

I've had 1 girl message me since december- she's cute.

I've gotten a lot of responses but after one wrong message that is slightly sub par i either get blocked or just ignored. online is tough and a lot harder than IRL. The only advantage is, its a lot less time consuming as in you don't need to approach.

I wouldn't listen to that naughty ninja guy because it sounds like he's full of crap.

Since I sound like I'm full of crap, please explain how I sound like I'm full of it?

 

[NoCommitments]

I went on 3 dates. Spent no more than $40 on ea. Made out with 2 of the chicks. The 1st one looked like a snaggle-tooth. Didnt make out with her..She was soo ugly!! spent like $3 on her for some coffee cause I felt bad she came really far to see me.
The 2nd there was no chemistry but I still made out with her haha
The 3rd I cld of banged after a while but we went out on 3 dates & I invited her over. She said "no not yet". I said "I get it, you're afraid that you'll attack me" She said "Yea you're right" .. I stopped calling her.lol ..I have no time to waste!!!

This was just after my LTR breakup & I was desperate just to bang someone.lol & it showed with these chicks!!

you're right AAAagent its tough to get these girls out but I've done it..& I've actually rejected a few as well. I'm not the best looking guy but I have a nice body & I have good delivery

FOR ANYONE WHO'S READING THIS:
I DONT EVER WANT TO SEE ANY RESPONSES OF "IT CANT BE DONE!!" ANYWHERE ON THIS FORUM. BECAUSE THAT'S A F*CKIN COP OUT! I WAS BANGING A YOUNG HB9 FOR GODS SAKE!!! SHE WAS 11YRS YOUNGER THAN ME!!! ANYTHING CAN BE DONE... GOT IT???

I THINK THIS IS A FORUM TO ENCOURAGE SUCCESS NOT FAILURE!!!!!

 

[Jack-Torrance]

I'm really good with "text game" I guess you call it?

Online, you can get away with a LOT MORE sexual stuff. As long as it seems playful, you can get away with A LOTTTT. Use the "" and start off from an innocent topic, and slowly work your way into something really sexual. Keep a playful atmosphere. It's hard to explain, but basically, she could be talking about some new clothes she bought and you can playfully say something like "oh I bet you just bought a tonne of underwear like all girls do " or some ****, and just go down that route... It's not so tricky!

 

[NoCommitments]

Thanks JT.. I've been number closing after a few playful emails but never got into any sexual topics until we became comfortable on the phone. But I'll try that

The problem is getting emails back...I could send like 10 emails & get like maybe 2 responses. I also keep changing my profile. Tried the direct "I'm here to have fun" profile. Now I'm attempting the "I am a romantic that loves snowfall" approach... we'll see how it goes....

I guess if I looked like Brad Pitt it wouldnt matter what I wrote. i could just write blah blah blah as my profile & they'll gush. But I don't look that good & I'm damned to let that hold me back

Cant call yourself a true DJ if you need super looks as a crunch

 

[Iceberg]

The problem is getting emails back...I could send like 10 emails & get like maybe 2 responses.

That's how it's supposed to go.

And really, I wouldn't get too deep into sexual topics online. It doesn't set you apart from the crowd. Chicks are bombarded with sex emails on those sites. It's better off just being a cool, interesting guy. I'd never say this about face-to-face interactions. But on the internet a girl's not gonna be like, "Oh he's so bold and sexual. I just can't wait to meet him." Once you meet the girl, you can be as ****y/funny/sexual as you want. But I think online the first step is being cool.

 

[NoCommitments]

That's how it's supposed to go.

And really, I wouldn't get too deep into sexual topics online. It doesn't set you apart from the crowd. Chicks are bombarded with sex emails on those sites. It's better off just being a cool, interesting guy. I'd never say this about face-to-face interactions. But on the internet a girl's not gonna be like, "Oh he's so bold and sexual. I just can't wait to meet him." Once you meet the girl, you can be as ****y/funny/sexual as you want. But I think online the first step is being cool.

Yea I agree. I am ****y & funny but definitely not sexual in any way.. I mean I get JT's point because I have def thrown in a line here & there if the timing is right like (real example):

A girl wrote me that she does an intense workout at the gym:
she writes : "I get sweaty, hot & bothered & really wet"
...now come on.... that's a gimme!...so i write
"wow. are you talking about Pilates or your latest sexual escapade, because that's a little too forward for so early in our relationship.lol"
I eventually took her out & we had fun

But yea generally girls know all that guys think about is sex so theres no need to solidify that feeling with blatant inuendos

 

[Jariel]

That's how it's supposed to go.

And really, I wouldn't get too deep into sexual topics online. It doesn't set you apart from the crowd. Chicks are bombarded with sex emails on those sites. It's better off just being a cool, interesting guy. I'd never say this about face-to-face interactions. But on the internet a girl's not gonna be like, "Oh he's so bold and sexual. I just can't wait to meet him." Once you meet the girl, you can be as ****y/funny/sexual as you want. But I think online the first step is being cool.

I agree completely.

I do a lot of online gaming and I find c+f, sexual introductions or generally trying to be too smart, doesn't work particularly well in those first mails. That's what every guy is trying to do.

By being genuine and casual, you set yourself apart. A basic introduction of "Hi, just been looking at your profile and thought I'd drop you a mail. If you fancy a chat, it would be good to hear from you" or if she notes a mutual interest on her profile, mention it.

I think girls are just more guarded online as they know there are risks of meeting psychos, idiots and stalkers, so to get past that defence you need to show you're a genuine person. It's surprising how many girls I meet online who tell me how refreshing it is to meet someone "normal" and about all the weirdos who email them or try to impress them by showing off.

The c+f and sexual escalation can come into play once you've built some rapport and trust.

 

[blackwolf]

online dating is hard work and a waste of time. ive spent a lot of time on dating websites and msn, etc. sure ive met girls from it but its not easy to find one you wanna meet or one that wants to meet you. big waste of time i can tell you. i made profiles on those sites, messaged over 50 girls in the period. barely got a few replies back and when i did, they were boring shallow b1tches. most of the girls just there to mess around with us. i have got lucky though in the past. ive met two girls that i dated for a while through the internet. one was because my friend got her msn from a bar and added her on MY msn. so we met and it was good. the second i met, from a chat program, we are still seeing each other. i wouldn't recommend looking for girls online unless you got time to waste though

 

[Jack-Torrance]

A girl wrote me that she does an intense workout at the gym:
she writes : "I get sweaty, hot & bothered & really wet"
...now come on.... that's a gimme!...so i write
"wow. are you talking about Pilates or your latest sexual escapade, because that's a little too forward for so early in our relationship.lol"

You do realize she did that on purpose right?