Ideas for grocery store opening please

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I was all into approaching in the mall before. But now I'm trying to switch it up and try more places. A member here mentioned he approaches in grocery stores and I realized there's like 20 of them in my city so it seems like a good idea.

I'm doing rules of the game book by style. So today's the opener day. So it would be cool if you guys left ideas here that I can check out when I get back from approaching
 

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"Hi. I just saw you and thought you look like a cool person I would like to bang, I mean, hang out with sometime. My name is ________. Nice to meet you."

You may or may not skip the "bang, I mean," depending on how u are feelin.
 

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"Hi. I just saw you and thought you look like a cool person I would like to bang, I mean, hang out with sometime. My name is ________. Nice to meet you."

You may or may not skip the "bang, I mean," depending on how u are feelin.
Lol. Just tried 2 grocery stores. I was trying "hey do you have any ideas for a fun meal to make for a third date?"

I've never really tried the direct openers. How are they compared to indirect?
 

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I’ve found people are more friendly and chatty when in the checkout line. Easy to comment on the line or what’s in someone’s cart. You can try getting something unusual, have it prominent in your cart & get in line behind an attractive girl. See what happens. I don’t really have ‘openers’. I’m not that organized.
 

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I was all into approaching in the mall before. But now I'm trying to switch it up and try more places. A member here mentioned he approaches in grocery stores and I realized there's like 20 of them in my city so it seems like a good idea.

I'm doing rules of the game book by style. So today's the opener day. So it would be cool if you guys left ideas here that I can check out when I get back from approaching
When she is looking at a certain product say "hmm I wouldn't get that if I were you..." then when she asks why, you give her the most random reason. I typically say "Very few people know this, but Hitler actually had a son, his son and his family are the founders of that product...".

She will obviously know you're joking, then take it from there.


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When she is looking at a certain product say "hmm I wouldn't get that if I were you..." then when she asks why, you give her the most random reason. I typically say "Very few people know this, but Hitler actually had a son, his son and his family are the founders of that product...".

She will obviously know you're joking, then take it from there.


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Thats hilarious. It would work really well in the produce section I think
 

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Grab a fat long cucumber and walk the isle. Spot hot girl stroll up and while looking at her set it in her cart and smile.
"I saw you shopping and I suddenly thought of salad" My name is so and so.

J/K but I almost did this once. Lol
But really in the markets. Just talk to them like a normal person and use your eye contact to let them know you are into her. Turn it flirty In a way that let's her know that you and her are the only ones who are in on it.
Open and stack and then get a buy in. (Her offering some personal info)

Talk about food while traveling to other countries. Its chic crack.
Cold reads are also good.
Thanks. I don't know really anything about cold reads actually. I just know this one personality system that's it
 

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Op stop over thinking. Just try different things, go with your gut, have fun with it.
 

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I think worrying about a line opens one up for analysis paralysis, and then that throws the vibe off. You're too worried about delivering it right, or timing ect...
 

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I was all into approaching in the mall before. But now I'm trying to switch it up and try more places. A member here mentioned he approaches in grocery stores and I realized there's like 20 of them in my city so it seems like a good idea.

I'm doing rules of the game book by style. So today's the opener day. So it would be cool if you guys left ideas here that I can check out when I get back from approaching
Wuddup kuz!

The trick to pickup is stfu &&& go approach. It's my biggest critique of the YouTubes and the abundance of pods but zero receipts. More accurate, most of are playing house. Don't approach. Can't pull. Have no ****ing clue about the game today nor the level of entitlement in 2022.

The old school pickup notions hold true. 3sec rule is gold. Field test EVERYTHING. If you have malls down, the only difference is food and produce lulz. Assume attraction. It grants you permission to approach. How would you approach a girl who you already slept with??? Act accordingly.

Best opener? Skip. Just start talking. Cannon ball in. Assume you only have a few minutes if that so discreetly get ig or digits. I had a girl waiting for me coming through. Another creeping online. Another with her phone out ready to not not miss her chance.

Another approach is reapproach. Do it leas than a handful of times but PICKUP OR you fall into orbiter status. Notion was first mentioned by rsd Alex once upon a time. It's never the super bowl or champions League final. Every set is practice. Obviously exercise common sense. Furthermore, with enough experience it becomes old hat. I love coffee shops and grocery stores or the gym. Hell I love pickup at the park or dog parks.

Disassociate from the location. It's just you and her. Single minded focus. life's to ****ing boring not to try.
 

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I think worrying about a line opens one up for analysis paralysis, and then that throws the vibe off. You're too worried about delivering it right, or timing ect...
+1

And here's a bigger kick in the nuts. The absurd requirements of volume through cold approach to:

1. Acquire competence.
2. Skill
3. Success

When you succeed and later find out she's a bad lay, feminist, modern woman, crazy, married, has a bf or any number of red flags. With that said, no matter what, the solution is and always is #nextset!
 

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I was all into approaching in the mall before. But now I'm trying to switch it up and try more places. A member here mentioned he approaches in grocery stores and I realized there's like 20 of them in my city so it seems like a good idea.

I'm doing rules of the game book by style. So today's the opener day. So it would be cool if you guys left ideas here that I can check out when I get back from approaching
Well you could try a late 90's/early '00's PUA-style opener:

[at the produce isle]

You: Excuse me, I need a female perspective on something.
Her: Oh?
You: What looks more gay, me or this cucumber??
 

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"you: Want some sex and pizza?
her: hell no!
you: Why? Don't like pizza?"
 

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When you see her eye f@cking you walk up and introduce yourself.

I probably have spent more time in a grocery store than a bar or nightclub in my life.

Just get comfortable starting smalltalk convos with men and women alike in the aisles and checkout line...and recognize when women are interested in you....

Seriously this morning at the local grocery this woman was totally checking me out and held my gaze from the next line over. I was seriously in too much of a hurry to follow up on it, and i was grabbing a breakfast sandwich for the woman who had given me a hummer about an hour and a half earlier...
 

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More lines:

"Is your father a pirate by any chance? Because you are a treasure."

"Do you have GPS? Because I wanted to know the way to your mouth."

"I want you in 69 different ways."
 

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Seriously this morning at the local grocery this woman was totally checking me out and held my gaze from the next line over. I was seriously in too much of a hurry to follow up on it, and i was grabbing a breakfast sandwich for the woman who had given me a hummer about an hour and a half earlier...
So you just had to get that breakfast sandwich back to her, and couldn't spare 5 minutes getting an easy number?
 

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So you just had to get that breakfast sandwich back to her, and couldn't spare 5 minutes getting an easy number?
Well she was in the car....and I consider it rather rude to get numbers from other women when I am in the company of another...
 

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Smalltalk convos should not even be done with the intention of landing a date or her number. Women will pick up on that 'PUA' strategy and put up all sorts of defensive shields.
Cats.. Also for guys that have zero social hang ups, women will confuse normal affability with flirting.

If you're getting hit on every day I guess I should understand it. But it is annoying.
 
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