Iam getting enbittered

[nighter]

I feel the more i read and more i apply the stuff i learn
more enbittered at girls i get. I know this is not what DJ is about, iam at the wrong path. Don't know how the identify the problem and get to the right track again.

 

[KontrollerX]

Are you saying you are dissapointed that the knowledge you learned on this site works so well with girls?

 

[baffledking]

I think I understand what you mean.

As your interactions with girls become more and more direct so do their reactions.

One problem I find with these techniques is that they are presented as a one size fits all idea when really, you should always try to maintain and express your own charisma. Perhaps these DJ techniques have made you feel like an ******* or like you are acting like someone who you are not. You shouldn't have to put on a mask to get girls...the object is take off all masks and inhibitions and be as natural and spontaneous as possible. Or maybe you are just talking it too seriously, like I tend to do. We need to keep reminding ourselves that this is just a game and we are having fun, and that every approach is a learning experience.

 

[Poonani Maker]

The problem is that we guys are so one-track minded that if we be ourselves then when the ****-tests crop up we won't know we're being testing and whamo the girl has (in her mind) lost attraction for you because you're too "stupid" (in her mind, again) to "get it" or "be aware" of what she's thinkin (like a fvckin alien). Women place impossible demands on us and are totally Fake half the time that we have to be "not real" or mean or a jerk (not ourselves) to counteract all those BS tangents that we have to put up with when with them. When you've got a pest constantly looking for a chink in your armor when she's donning a suit of swiss cheese herself, then there will always be conflict and BS to put up with, (and thus, our laying down the line or get the fvck out of my house!).

 

[Max Power]

The problem is that we guys are so one-track minded that if we be ourselves then when the ****-tests crop up we won't know we're being testing and whamo the girl has (in her mind) lost attraction for you because you're too "stupid" (in her mind, again) to "get it" or "be aware" of what she's thinkin (like a fvckin alien).

Exactly.

I'm new to this and I never realized just how **** tests women will toss at ya at a subconscioius level. It's a amazing and really hard to be yourself when you're not really serious about the girl and you primarily just wanna bang them.

 

[reset]

Women are like this though. Nature has created this dynamic between men and women. The girls aren't DOING anything unnatural. They are just like this.

We grow up in a society that tells us it's not this way, because even women don't want to believe they are like this... so they say they want a sensitive man who is in touch with his feelings, treats them like a princess, is caring... and they actually do want that, kind of. I think the key is to be somewhere in the middle.

I've still got a lot to learn, but I became pissed off at this too when I started understanding this more.

May help if you realize this is how nature has set things up, it's not personal, it's biological. Women can't help being women and men can't help being men (and we get in trouble when we try to not be men, to get rid of or be ashamed of our own impusles, which says to just have as much sex as possible, to spread our genes).

 

[Alphamale1821]

your problem is your not letting the techniques become a part of your own unique persona/frame your just mimcking skills with no sense of style. Reading all of the material can be overwheliming at times so may you should take some in stride, practice and then read some more.

 

[mrRuckus]

No techniques. Lifestyle changes. Personality changes. You were feminized and lied to growing up. Now you should be waking up and changing yourself back to your natural form.

You pass the tests by being a man. You don't have to know you are being tested. It should become natural.

 

[reset]

No techniques. Lifestyle changes. Personality changes. You were feminized and lied to growing up. Now you should be waking up and changing yourself back to your natural form.

You pass the tests by being a man. You don't have to know you are being tested. It should become natural.

Yeah. The more I get caught up with this stuff, the more I realize how simple it is. Not easy, but simple.

It's not about the women. It's about you. It's not about passing the tests. It's about living your life on your own terms, no matter what the consequences.

I think the more we get caught up in overanalyzing women, and all the techniques, the further we get from our true essence.

Everything I've learned:

Pursue what you're passionate about, and give it your all.

Live life on your own terms, do what you want to do, because it's what you want to do. Other people's opinions don't even come into the equation.

It's not about technique. It's about being who you are, naturally.

This stuff can help show you the way, but it's not an end unto itself. It's just a stepping stone that helps you remove all the false BS you learned growing up.

Maybe I need a break from this place.