I wonder why they like me

[Stephen89]

I've noticed some females in the community like me.

Even im surprised and they've added me on Instagram, check my stories and images. I haven't done much tbh.

I am very independent and just do my own thing, have my life together now and heading places.

I think they may like the fact I'm independent, doing my own thing, seemingly careless what others think.

Would you say it's down to my independence, doing my own thing? They may think I'm mentally stimulating

 

[TheManMasenko]

You could just “be different”.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

I've noticed some females in the community like me.

Even im surprised and they've added me on Instagram, check my stories and images. I haven't done much tbh.

I am very independent and just do my own thing, have my life together now and heading places.

I think they may like the fact I'm independent, doing my own thing, seemingly careless what others think.

Would you say it's down to my independence, doing my own thing? They may think I'm mentally stimulating

The question is why does this seem out of the ordinary to you? Are women supposed to ignore you? If you believed you're a catch you wouldn't be making this thread. Normalize success.

 

[zekko]

The masculine attracts the feminine and vice versa. Unless there are negative aspects about you that mess that up for you, it shouldn't be a mystery. Women do have a lot of options, but having your life together and being on the rise is attractive. That's probably what sets you apart, plus I'm guessing you're physically attractive since they're liking your social media.

Anyway, men and women getting together is natural. I wouldn't try to second guess it or become overly egotistical about it, just go with the flow.

 

[Dean Gladwyn]

Women are instinctively attracted to a guy that shows self-assertiveness, it shows you aren't needy. The fact that you're going about doing your own thing, not chasing a woman will show through.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Now you need to use this to your advantage OP. Have you struck up convos with any of these women?

 

[Solomon]

The Community?

 

[Bokanovsky]

What do you mean by "females in the community"? Are you talking about neighbours, chicks at the local library, women walking dogs past your house? That kind of thing?