I wish AFCs didn't exist

[bigneil]

Cant read what is written here, can somebody tell me more or the less what happened?

Long Facebook rant by a girl about how breaking her boyfriend of 2 year's heart somehow pleased her.

People demonize her but that's how they all feel about some sappy guy who flunks out because he's crying over her.

 

[ganda1f91]

There is a big difference between being happy to move on and actively lingering to inflict deliberate pain on someone. The latter is being a sadist and is by definition, psychopathic.

 

[bigneil]

It wouldn't surprise me if that OP was made by the guy as a spoof of how he felt she was treating him.

 

[ganda1f91]

It definitely is a possibility that can't be ruled out.

 

[SharinganUser]

This chick is a *****. Nothing to do with him being an AFC.

 

[evan12]

She enjoy the power she has over him , what is why she is doing all these things
and for sure she is a *****

 

[Zerro]

Zerro, I beg of you, tell me whare I can find one!

I swear, I cannot find one woman with traditional values and wants to take care of her man.

They're everywhere, it's just that they tend to fade into the background as they don't wh0re for attention plus they tend to be snatched up pretty early. Mine had a boyfriend when I met her though he was nothing special and I could tell she realized I was much higher caliber. Still though it was a few months until I even started chatting her up (after they broke up) and she was on the backburner for a few more months until she took some initiative rather than lose the catch.

She's cute, cleans up well, is very generous and caring, knows how to cook, enjoys spending time with me no matter what we're doing, very sensual, and acts like she's lucky to have me rather than the other way around. Definitely a keeper.

Plus the cute and innocent-looking ones tend to be the naughtiest in bed. She's no exception.

 

[floydb25]

They're everywhere, it's just that they tend to fade into the background as they don't wh0re for attention plus they tend to be snatched up pretty early. Mine had a boyfriend when I met her though he was nothing special and I could tell she realized I was much higher caliber. Still though it was a few months until I even started chatting her up (after they broke up) and she was on the backburner for a few more months until she took some initiative rather than lose the catch.

She's cute, cleans up well, is very generous and caring, knows how to cook, enjoys spending time with me no matter what we're doing, very sensual, and acts like she's lucky to have me rather than the other way around. Definitely a keeper.

Plus the cute and innocent-looking ones tend to be the naughtiest in bed. She's no exception.

Yeah... They exist in droves, but they don't stand out. We only notice the jerks, players, and crazies, because they're always out there; making noise, dressing flashy, chatting up everyone, playing games, criticizing others, voicing their opinions, approaching with confidence, and being hot. But, these aren't quality people. Unfortunately, many people are setting themselves to attract this same kind of woman. That's why you don't want to go too far with this whole game / looks / player ordeal, or you'll be attracting these shallow hoes and crazy *****es left and right.

The decent ones don't stand out, because they don't have to. They're content and calm. Crazy people and jerks are insecure and have low self-esteem - among other issues. They'll attention *****, dress like skanks, cause drama, play games, mess with your head, and make all of this noise because they're desperate to be wanted, and need to feel important. They're terrified of rejection, sensitive to criticism, and so forth. Everything they do is the result of an underlying flaw. They'll sleep around because it makes them feel wanted. They'll become snobby, prissy, stuck up *****es to fit in with the cool crowd, and not get bullied by them.

You're never going to run into a loud, aggressive, fake, shallow, in-your-face person who doesn't have low self-esteem, and isn't insecure. That's why they act like this; its all connected. And, it usually runs pretty deep (into childhood).

Anyway, the decent ones tend to be quiet, calm, kind, peaceful; maybe shy and reserved. They don't dress like pornstars, jump from guy to guy, cause problems everywhere, tease and attention *****, aren't obsessed with drama, don't judge, criticize, and bully others, aren't trying to be something they're not and so forth. They also don't play games, they act like normal human beings, are dependable and respectful. You encounter them every day. Decent, nice, down to earth, normal, possibly cute women. But most people want hot, fake, exciting, wild, and challenging. It stands out, and isn't boring or lame. You reap what you sow, is all I have to say.

I think you have to reach a breaking point before you give quality people a chance. Everyone wants to have fun when they're young, and seek after the bad / crazy types. But you come to realize that they're just fun, and not dependable or decent. Men and women do this - not just women.

 

[Masculinity]

Long Facebook rant by a girl about how breaking her boyfriend of 2 year's heart somehow pleased her.

People demonize her but that's how they all feel about some sappy guy who flunks out because he's crying over her.

People aren't demonizing her for no reason; it is well deserved. I would demonize a male doing the same thing if that were the case. This is about self-please at the expense of others suffering.

This chick is a *****. Nothing to do with him being an AFC.

Completely disagree. Although this is not all about the guy being an AFC, he significantly influenced this girl. She knows the power she has over him and so she exploits it to feel better about herself. Had the guy moved on and did the NC challenge all this damaged would have been minimized. Just because a girl looks good doesn't mean she's an angel or good for you. Stop believing in Disney fairytales; life is nothing like it is in the movies.

Yeah... They exist in droves, but they don't stand out. We only notice the jerks, players, and crazies, because they're always out there; making noise, dressing flashy, chatting up everyone, playing games, criticizing others, voicing their opinions, approaching with confidence, and being hot. But, these aren't quality people. Unfortunately, many people are setting themselves to attract this same kind of woman. That's why you don't want to go too far with this whole game / looks / player ordeal, or you'll be attracting these shallow hoes and crazy *****es left and right.

The decent ones don't stand out, because they don't have to. They're content and calm. Crazy people and jerks are insecure and have low self-esteem - among other issues. They'll attention *****, dress like skanks, cause drama, play games, mess with your head, and make all of this noise because they're desperate to be wanted, and need to feel important. They're terrified of rejection, sensitive to criticism, and so forth. Everything they do is the result of an underlying flaw. They'll sleep around because it makes them feel wanted. They'll become snobby, prissy, stuck up *****es to fit in with the cool crowd, and not get bullied by them.

You're never going to run into a loud, aggressive, fake, shallow, in-your-face person who doesn't have low self-esteem, and isn't insecure. That's why they act like this; its all connected. And, it usually runs pretty deep (into childhood).

Anyway, the decent ones tend to be quiet, calm, kind, peaceful; maybe shy and reserved. They don't dress like pornstars, jump from guy to guy, cause problems everywhere, tease and attention *****, aren't obsessed with drama, don't judge, criticize, and bully others, aren't trying to be something they're not and so forth. They also don't play games, they act like normal human beings, are dependable and respectful. You encounter them every day. Decent, nice, down to earth, normal, possibly cute women. But most people want hot, fake, exciting, wild, and challenging. It stands out, and isn't boring or lame. You reap what you sow, is all I have to say.

This ^ has gone through my head several times without putting it down to words. You read my mind with this post. There are a lot of good men who don't understand this. It's like music, just because some garbage song is popular, it is still garbage at the end of the day. It is the older and underground songs that tend to be the best.

1+ Rep.

 

[SharinganUser]

Completely disagree. Although this is not al about the guy being an AFC, he significantly influenced this girl. She knows the power the has over him and so she exploits it to feel better about herself. Had the guy moved on and did the NC challenge all this damaged would have been minimized.

It would have been minimized yes, but she is a bit.ch regardless of anything he'd have done. I'd bet that she was a bi.tch long before they ever dated. People who aren't malicious just don't do this sort of thing.

If what the FB page says is true then it's totally malicious. She wanted to make sure he suffered. It's not something that normal people do in my experience.

If he went NC, then even though the effects would be minimized, that wouldn't change the fact the she was trying to be a vicious cun(t).

Just because a girl looks good doesn't mean she's an angel or good for you. Stop believing in Disney fairytales; life is nothing like it is in the movies.

I am not sure what this has to do with what I said. I called her a bit.ch, and I don't give a **** what she looks like. I made no comment about her looks or wether she's good for him or not. She's rotten to the core no matter what she looks like.

 

[Masculinity]

It would have been minimized yes, but she is a bit.ch regardless of anything he'd have done. I'd bet that she was a bi.tch long before they ever dated. People who aren't malicious just don't do this sort of thing.

If what the FB page says is true then it's totally malicious. She wanted to make sure he suffered. It's not something that normal people do in my experience.

If he went NC, then even though the effects would be minimized, that wouldn't change the fact the she was trying to be a vicious cun(t).

Exactly. She definitely has some loose screws in her head and the guy chasing after her did not help. Like some other guy said, she sounds like a sadist and I want to add antisocial to that. In the end she's definitely suffering some serious psychopathological issues.

I am not sure what this has to do with what I said. I called her a bit.ch, and I don't give a **** what she looks like. I made no comment about her looks or wether she's good for him or not. She's rotten to the core no matter what she looks like.

I know you didn't comment on her looks or on her being good for him--that was all me. I said that because most men are under the misconception that because a woman looks like "the girl next door" that she is incapable of hurting a fly. In reality, this is far from being true. The girl could be a doll on the outside and be filled with garbage on the inside.

Good stuff, SharinganUser.

 

[rum]

She's not even that good looking. Nice hair, that's about all. Average, forgettable face.

It's amazing how much action even C+ girls get

 

[Chromeo]

Regardless if this is or isnt real, chicks really do this ****.

1. to protect themselves from feeling hurt
2. because their angry the man they once liked has turned into a giant pu$$y.

women literally get ANGRY at chumps or their men who become chumps

her: "wtf why are you being such a pu$$y, im gonna be a total bich cuz this guy is acting like a chump"
him: "baby whats wrong, why are you treating me like this, what can I do to change? I want us to be so happy, I love you"

barf. this is how it should be

her: "I better be good to this guy cuz he is a rock solid man that will ravage my pu$$y and beat my ass (which I want) but then leave me if im not good and I'll feel terrible (which I dont want)"
him: "damn right bich"

 

[DonJuanit0]

Now seriously, if it is real, I've read in this forum many times about using violence, is it propriate or not! I would never hurt a woman in a bad way, but, doesn't this b1tch deserves a facking slap in the face that will be remembered for all her life?

 

[drak_ool]

Sometimes they do you a favor by showing how ruthless they really are.

So true! After the initial shock/intense pain, it's easier to get over a girl like this one because you know she is just a low class hoe, so you have to be really desperate to want a girl like that back in your life.

 

[Barracuda]

I don't buy it.

I dont know what the angle/motivation is (besides making her look bad and get the guy to look like a chump).. but it's too fishy to be true.

She'd have to be seriously stupid to post something with that kind of 'OTT subtext', and I doubt anyone's that silly.

Some kind of frape methinks.

 

[dutchmaster]

If this is real she's clearly a sociopath, and that written apology is just some sort of bullsh!t scheme by her to keep his trust. He'll think oh she just be sorry for real I can keep trying, just so she can keep fvcking with him. Lots of sick people out there fellas

 

[Jair213]

Reminds me of my x gf... Ugh.

 

[AlexDP]

That pisses me off

idk what annoys me more , that the guy was such a wimp , or that the girl is suck a shell of a person

It pisses me off too, but you can already see she's not the psychopath she thinks she is. She is starting to feel guilty. Besides, she does these things because she knows they will hurt him. Eventually they won't anymore. That's the point where things start sucking for her. The ***** will commit suicide soon enough, no worries.

 

[ArcBound]

There will always be AFC's forever and ever and ever.