I went clubbing sober..

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Real men go clubbing sober. I loved giving sh1t to girls all night long about how they are destroying their bodies by drinking and smoking..

I learned this from RSD and I love it.. my wingman is going to be sober tomorrow night and we are both going to roll sober from now on. In fact I quit drinking. I have been working out and eating healthy.. no need to ruin all that by drinking.

So tonight here is what I noticed compared to my other nights drunk trying to approach girls...

1) Much more focus tonight.. I approached half the bar.

2) Much more confidence.. when I was drinking I would always worry in the back of my mind that tonight was the night I get a DWI.. negative thoughts buried in your mind are never good. And I drove drunk much more that I care to admit. Not having to worry about potentially ruining my life I was much more care free.

3) Hooking: I am finally hooking my sets consistently. I have a feeling sobriety is under rated in the club. People are much more interested in me and want me to stick around if I am quick, witty and fun opposed to tipsy or drunk.

4) At the end of the night you can tell the ones who have been drinking too much and you look down upon them for being so sloppy. It makes me feel like a bad ass for judging them... witch in turn gives me a sense of entitlement.. hence the reason I felt such low Approach Anxitey..


Work out, quit smoking, quit drinking, eat healthy and study game.. go clubbing sober with a good wing.

All the top PUA's roll sober.. so man up.
 

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MillionBillionaire said:
All the top PUA's roll sober.. so man up.
With the exception of a very few pua guys, I would not advise anyone to look upto them in any way. If I am doing something that is important to me, I would not be intoxicated I'd be there ready for action. But I would have thought, a very once in a while its ok to let your hair down and get drunk.
 

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MillionBillionaire said:
Real men go clubbing sober. I loved giving sh1t to girls all night long about how they are destroying their bodies by drinking and smoking..

I learned this from RSD and I love it.. my wingman is going to be sober tomorrow night and we are both going to roll sober from now on. In fact I quit drinking. I have been working out and eating healthy.. no need to ruin all that by drinking.

So tonight here is what I noticed compared to my other nights drunk trying to approach girls...

1) Much more focus tonight.. I approached half the bar.

2) Much more confidence.. when I was drinking I would always worry in the back of my mind that tonight was the night I get a DWI.. negative thoughts buried in your mind are never good. And I drove drunk much more that I care to admit. Not having to worry about potentially ruining my life I was much more care free.

3) Hooking: I am finally hooking my sets consistently. I have a feeling sobriety is under rated in the club. People are much more interested in me and want me to stick around if I am quick, witty and fun opposed to tipsy or drunk.

4) At the end of the night you can tell the ones who have been drinking too much and you look down upon them for being so sloppy. It makes me feel like a bad ass for judging them... witch in turn gives me a sense of entitlement.. hence the reason I felt such low Approach Anxitey..


Work out, quit smoking, quit drinking, eat healthy and study game.. go clubbing sober with a good wing.

All the top PUA's roll sober.. so man up.
Alex from rsd is a drunk lol, I know some of these guys get laid , when I seen them in Australia they didn't have any girls with them and tried to take photos of my best friend and his girlfriend , maybe trying to say it was one of they're students
 

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Congratulations... I discovered this years ago.

I NEVER drink when I hunt. And if I'm out at a party where I might meet women, I never have more than a couple glasses of wine. Never the hard stuff... unless it's a Cinco de Mayo Party with margaritas.

This is the single most important thing you can do to increase the frequency and quality of the women you pull.
 

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RangerMIke said:
Congratulations... I discovered this years ago.

I NEVER drink when I hunt. And if I'm out at a party where I might meet women, I never have more than a couple glasses of wine. Never the hard stuff... unless it's a Cinco de Mayo Party with margaritas.

This is the single most important thing you can do to increase the frequency and quality of the women you pull.
I cannot believe how excited I am to go to the club tonight.. sober.

One more benefit of sobriety I forgot to mention is Energy. At the end of the night, witch went by really fast.. I was exhausted from all the cold approaching... and dancing. No wonder drunk people stumble and fall by the end of the night.

One down... Two to go.. sarging hard this weekend... broke and sober.. loving every minute of it.
 

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I bet the club owners love it when people come there and don't drink lol.
 

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zekko said:
I bet the club owners love it when people come there and don't drink lol.
I know all the staff and they love me. I bought redbulls and tipped well like I usually do.
 

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Part of the reason they charge covers I'd assume..
 

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How many same night lays are you pulling while sober? If you are not pulling many, than I would say stop bragging about going sober to a loud place meant for drunk people. Its kind of silly IMO.

I have never understood people who go to clubs sober. I would much rather watch a good movie than try to pull a club skank sober. I mean what's the point? They aren't even gf material.

I'm not trying to say what you are doing is wrong because if u are having fun, that's all that matters. But for me, I go to clubs to drink and let loose and usually end up going home with a skank I never call or see again and don't want to.

I'm curious though.....what is your same night lay ratio?

When I was younger and more eager, I used to roll sober a few times when out of cash, so I do understand the feeling of superiority over drunk people. But that's really just an illusion and an ego trip...the bottom line is the only thing that matters if you are having fun or not. Not to mention, the girls usually come to you when you are relaxed having a good time.

Like I said....I prefer to watch a nice quiet movie then go to that kind of environment sober, but that's just me. Club girls are only good for drunken flings.
 

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zinc4 said:
How many same night lays are you pulling while sober? If you are not pulling many, than I would say stop bragging about going sober to a loud place meant for drunk people. Its kind of silly IMO.

I have never understood people who go to clubs sober. I would much rather watch a good movie than try to pull a club skank sober. I mean what's the point? They aren't even gf material.

I'm not trying to say what you are doing is wrong because if u are having fun, that's all that matters. But for me, I go to clubs to drink and let loose and usually end up going home with a skank I never call or see again and don't want to.

I'm curious though.....what is your same night lay ratio?

When I was younger and more eager, I used to roll sober a few times when out of cash, so I do understand the feeling of superiority over drunk people. But that's really just an illusion and an ego trip...the bottom line is the only thing that matters if you are having fun or not. Not to mention, the girls usually come to you when you are relaxed having a good time.

Like I said....I prefer to watch a nice quiet movie then go to that kind of environment sober, but that's just me. Club girls are only good for drunken flings.

I have only pulled once from the club and I got into a year long relationship with that girl.

Still working on that second pull. But even if I don't pull another girl for a while.. the journey I am on compared to the wreck I was not too long ago feels amazing.

Recently got rid of A.A. and I'm getting better at hooking..

Keeping score of your "batting average" is frowned upon.. it's the fact that I am taking action to improve myself... that is all that matters.
 

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This will quickly drive all women away from you.

And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.

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Number closed a lesbian that was out with her girlfriend tonight. I went in for the kiss and got her cheek.

otherwise wierd night... Hockey game delayed the music and dancing until 11:20pm and right after that there was a massive group of seemingly gay or massive chodes group of Indians turning the dancefloor into a massive curry sausagefest...

Over came that bs with at least a good time with the chick I met.

Sober. All the way.
 

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MillionBillionaire said:
Keeping score of your "batting average" is frowned upon.. it's the fact that I am taking action to improve myself... that is all that matters.
:crackup:

Just joking but seriously I have gone dry before

40 days and 40 nights twice in my life.

Going out sober is boring----yes you're game is razor sharp, yes your awarness is kickass

But going out sober like Zinc said is nothing to brag about if you're not having fun than it's a waste of time

I personally prefer to go out to art galleries than bar's now a days I'm too old and damn right I drink when I go out
 

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Solomon said:
:crackup:

Just joking but seriously I have gone dry before

40 days and 40 nights twice in my life.

Going out sober is boring----yes you're game is razor sharp, yes your awarness is kickass

But going out sober like Zinc said is nothing to brag about if you're not having fun than it's a waste of time

I personally prefer to go out to art galleries than bar's now a days I'm too old and damn right I drink when I go out
I am having a ton of fun.. just like at the bar people love to give shyt about how boring it is to be sober.

And I can brag about whatever the fvck I want :)
 

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Yeah I tend to enjoy nights out the most when I drink 1 or 2 beers max at the start of the night just to loosen myself up and then stay sober for the rest of it.
 

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Well done :up: it's not easy to stop drinking.

I stopped for 18 months & felt great.
 
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