I was rejected by a woman once again...this time by a Brazilian.

[Deicide]

I was rejected once again by a woman. This time by a Brazilian girl that I met in Spain. I lthought she liked me. She mentioned wanting to visit me, and seemed receptive when I was affectionate with her. Today, I went too far and told her "I haven't found any women here that like talking with more than you. You mean a lot to me, and you look nice and exotic too." She said thanks, I guess. Then I questioned her on that part and ended up completely confessing how I feel. She said she was a little uncomfortable with what I said, and that she just wanted to be friends. This was all on MSN.
This hurts. She seemed like such a good match for me, and I was looking forward to the days I'd get to meet her again, kiss her a lot, and make her my girlfriend. I was wrong. My life is in disarray now. I feel sad and depressed. And it's another girl that has rejected me. I was very vulnerable to her after finding out how she felt and I admitted all my feelings, and that I had never had a special woman in my life.
I'm 22 years old, I'm too old to be getting friend zoned. I made it a point to not get friend zoned. I don't know where my life goes from here, but hopefully it'll change for the better in the area of women.
I'll keep living my life despite all of this and do what I can to better it.
What can I do to stop failing with women?

 

[blueline]

Never put yourself in a position to get hurt by a woman unless the two of you have been in an exclusive relationship for a long time. You invested waaaay too much of yourself in a pickup. I'd give each girl you try to lay a maximum of 10-15 minutes. The difference between an interested and uninterested girl is night and day, and you generally see it right from before you even open your mouth.

Also, it appears that you were doing this online. Try working women in your local area.

 

[Maximus Rex]

I was rejected once again by a woman.
This time by a Brazilian girl that I met in Spain.

I got rejected by 10 chicks yesterday. Some of them didn't acknowledged my presence. Some of them spoke to me and kept on going.

I lthought she liked me. She mentioned wanting to visit me, and seemed receptive when I was affectionate with her.

Why are you getting so wrapped up into what a woman says. Women are capricious by nature. Instead of whining and crying, why weren't you being a man.

Today, I went too far and told her "I haven't found any women here that like talking with more than you. You mean a lot to me, and you look nice and exotic too." She said thanks, I guess. Then I questioned her on that part and ended up completely confessing how I feel. She said she was a little uncomfortable with what I said, and that she just wanted to be friends. This was all on MSN.

This all would've been avoided if you would've been talking to more than one chick at a time. If you were doing that, you would've been able to move on to the next chick.

This hurts. She seemed like such a good match for me, and I was looking forward to the days I'd get to meet her again, kiss her a lot, and make her my girlfriend. I was wrong. My life is in disarray now. I feel sad and depressed. And it's another girl that has rejected me.

Dude, get off of this site seriously. You're not built for this. Yesterday, me and my friend approach upwards to twenty women between the two of us. All we have to show for it is a facebook address and a email address. Yesterday, the broad flat told me she wasn't going to give me her number. You're all effed up because for the first in your life a chick showed you attention. She did like, she want to have sex, with you but all you did was talk yourself out of some p*ssy. It isn't her fault, it's yours. You prove yourself to be a timid, emotional, sissy to a chick you barely even know. Like I said, you're not built for this. I suggest you'd look into joining a monastery.

I was very vulnerable to her after finding out how she felt and I admitted all my feelings, and that I had never had a special woman in my life.

What did this broad do to warranted you to real these feelings to her? Return a phone call?

I'm 22 years old, I'm too old to be getting friend zoned. I made it a point to not get friend zoned. I don't know where my life goes from here, but hopefully it'll change for the better in the area of women.

Why don't you find out and stop crying. You more sh*t wrong with you other some Brazilian chick not wanting you.

I'll keep living my life despite all of this and do what I can to better it. What can I do to stop failing with women?

You're too emotional to get better with women. You can't handle rejection failure. In other to get good at this you have to be willing to get rejected and be willing to fail.

 

[Szyzzlin]

don't worry... I get rejected all the time by women. The large majority of them just look at me like I'm a complete retard. But, eventually you will stumble across a hot broad who thinks you're god's gift to earth. Then... its all worth it. haha

 

[TIC]

You got rejected by 1 girl....who the F cares? The fact that you made an entire thread dedicated to one chick that rejected you proves that your an AFC who is still afraid of women.

There's nothing a woman should be able to do to you that ruins your night or day. Move on to the next slut, and if she rejects, move on again. Your just wasting your time right now

 

[Bonafide]

Lets all point and laugh at this queer who just lost out on some brazillian vag...


HA HA HA *points finger* :crackup:


Get over it kid, there are plenty more brazilian "exotic" wonders out there...



:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:


:cheer: <---- this is you when you thought you were going to gt some brazillian vag





<---- this is you after she FRs your wimp ass LOL



All jokes buddy, but get over it and as Jay Z would say...ON TO THE NEXT ONE - but I'd say go with the FR for a bit...you never know what could happen...play your cards right.

 

[SandHawk]

Lol, so you got rejected by a girl. Boo f*cking hoo! Most of the people on this site get rejected more often in a single day than you get rejected in a complete year. There is more to life than girls you know?

Instead of being a whiny b*tchass and emo b*tch, you should make your life revolve around you, instead of having it revolve around women. You should live you life like F*CKING CAPTAIN PICARD, GUIDING YOUR USS ENTERPRISE TO BOLDY GO WHERE NO MAN HAS GONE BEFORE. (Or when many men have gone before, depending on your tastes). Does Captain Picard care about what girls think of him? Hell no, he's too busy exploring caves and fighting off alien life forms and kicking ass around the universe. F*ck, even in real life does Patrick Stewart not care bout what broads think of him, as he's all bald and performing Shakespeare stuff on stage or narrating films about the violent universe. But you bet that Sir Patrick Stewart gets all the poon he wants and ever wanted in life.

Stop being such a whiney emob*tch, man the f*ck up and explore life. Go out, get a hobby and get the hell away from that computer of yours / MSN.

 

[Iceberg]

I'm 22 years old, I'm too old to be getting friend zoned.

You know what you're too old for? Putting some girl you haven't even banged yet on a pedestal.

"I was looking forward to kissing her and making her my girlfriend."

You're too old for THAT.

 

[rushing dude 123]

dude i would ask why didn't you just take her number instead of her msn, but i can see you got bigger problems to worry about.

It sounds like your going through something in your life and you thought maybe hooking up with this girl would solve everything. A real guy dosn't have time to pour his lil heart out to a girl on msn thats got a head a bit to big for her shoulders, he has more important things to do.

"She seemed like such a good match for me, and I was looking forward to the days I'd get to meet her again, kiss her a lot, and make her my girlfriend"
^
Also what the hell is up with that, you have already thought about all these stuff so soon, jeez she probablly thought you were going to propose to her thats why she ran. You only met her once, you should of been taking her out a second time to see if she met everything you thought about her. not giving her the medal before she has even won the race, hint whats the point of running if you have already won.

Ok right you should thank this woman, she has taught you a valuable lesson don't give a girl value over all the other girls in the world when you havn't even got to know her!, furthermore don't give her more value over yourself because once you have done that its over.

I have been where you are my friend and i understand how you feel, but you got a lot important things in your life than some girl and if you havn't thats where your problem lies. This is not about the girl, i know it isn't and you know deep down it isn't either, this is about something else deep down.

For the record i have got rejected so many times i have lost count and think its somewhere in the millions...or billions..idk, but for everytime i got rejected i learned something and i became stronger because of it.

Bro just go with the flow, don't already plan your future with someone before you have even experienced it, thats not what life is about.

 

[Deicide]

Ok, well this isn't the first time I've been rejected. I'll be alright. I want to become more of a man now and less emotionally-driven and dependent on women. It's my intent to do this, and to stop being needy and desperate.

 

[Matt281]

Honestly this is probably the first really good advice I've seen posted here. I guess when so suave members make it to their late thirties they finally quit whinning and man up?

Seriously, I got blown out 9 times last saturday. Went home with the 10th one. Stop crying when girls don't like you. Ironicallly, that's the reason they don't.

I got rejected by 10 chicks yesterday. Some of them didn't acknowledged my presence. Some of them spoke to me and kept on going.



Why are you getting so wrapped up into what a woman says. Women are capricious by nature. Instead of whining and crying, why weren't you being a man.




This all would've been avoided if you would've been talking to more than one chick at a time. If you were doing that, you would've been able to move on to the next chick.



Dude, get off of this site seriously. You're not built for this. Yesterday, me and my friend approach upwards to twenty women between the two of us. All we have to show for it is a facebook address and a email address. Yesterday, the broad flat told me she wasn't going to give me her number. You're all effed up because for the first in your life a chick showed you attention. She did like, she want to have sex, with you but all you did was talk yourself out of some p*ssy. It isn't her fault, it's yours. You prove yourself to be a timid, emotional, sissy to a chick you barely even know. Like I said, you're not built for this. I suggest you'd look into joining a monastery.



What did this broad do to warranted you to real these feelings to her? Return a phone call?



Why don't you find out and stop crying. You more sh*t wrong with you other some Brazilian chick not wanting you.



You're too emotional to get better with women. You can't handle rejection failure. In other to get good at this you have to be willing to get rejected and be willing to fail.

 

[yuppaz]

I got rejected by like 6 girls on Friday night, also got a date with one from Sat morning. Think you need to get rejected a lot to find ones that are into you and get immune enough that it doesn't effect you / you don't care which strangely enough creates far less rejections. You need to approach more (hint...approach to get the most rejections under your belt...make rejection fun and you'll get WAY less rejection and more Acceptance).

 

[joe henny]

your a sad man too low for me to even offer any advice to jesus christ I swear this site profuces some of the sorriest threads ever