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I was In Car with MILF

DJnoob

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so i was driving her back home after dinner and movie. Then she says

"hey, i appreciate what you did for me. Ask me anything and I'll do it"

I just said "I know you will" (probably a lame response) she knows im seeing another chick btw..

and just continued driving..

nope nothing happened at the end of the night. a bj wouldve nice
 

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DJnoob said:
so i was driving her back home after dinner and movie. Then she says

"hey, i appreciate what you did for me. Ask me anything and I'll do it"

.... a bj would be nice
should have been your answer
 

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It actually depends on her her voice tone...sometime when a girl does something nice for me I playfully say "oh I wanna marry you".

So OP it depends how she told you that, anyway boldness is never a bad idea when dealing with women you just dated, better exagerate on the boldness side than in the politeness one.
That lame line got you nowhere, the request for a bj would have lead you to a bj or a slap, both better options than nothing.
 

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so its okay to say like that direct to women? i thought normally women would just unzip your pants and do the rest..

the first time she asked me that in the car (during daytime), i said.. "yeah some oral would be nice" then she just laughed
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Well no need to go in for the kill like that. You can use some sexual tension for your advantage. I would just maybe take that opportunity to do her some kino. Like, touch her arm and give her EC and say "Oh, that's sweet of you. Yes, I want you to show me [whatever place you are going to]!".

By the way, what was her age bro?
 
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Dude, I once banged this 45 year old milf in the forest after getting her drunk and practically cold out. Milf's are nasty. I can understand banging a nice looking milf in her late 20s early 30s just like on porn sites, but an old ho, with old skin, ewww. Just my 2 cents.
 

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betheman said:
should have been your answer
/fvcking thread. Absolute gold.

A lot of people on this site focus and worry too much about being perfect, getting the right body, ultimate confidence, ****y and smart comebacks and great answers, but none of that sh!t matters.

Being sexual that's all that matters. If you have your sh!t together and you talk sexual or ask for sexual favors, you'd be surprised how often they'd actually do it.

Straight up next time that happens say "A BJ would be nice". Worst case scenario she looks at you weird, best case scenario, I'd leave it to your imagination.

Sometimes when you get that gut feeling that tells you saying something sexual would be really inappropriate or that she might reject you or shoot you down JUST DO IT. Fear is leading you to the right direction. Like the first time you ride a rollercoaster.... at the top it looks scary as fvck but when you ride it its the most exciting thing in your life. Likewise you might get anxiety or scared of taking things sexual with a new girl but realize you are at the top of a rollercoaster... Might as well ride it instead of turning back and wondering what if, no?
 

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backseatjuan said:
Dude, I once banged this 45 year old milf in the forest after getting her drunk and practically cold out. Milf's are nasty. I can understand banging a nice looking milf in her late 20s early 30s just like on porn sites, but an old ho, with old skin, ewww. Just my 2 cents.
Judge nismo primarily brings milfs into chambers! The oldest was 66!

Anyways, you should have had the sexual tension rising from the start. It sounds like you wanted her to make a move. But you failed to initiate.

Sometimes, being forward and taking initiatives is a great thing. And It sounds like you would've gotten some had you made a move.

Bummer.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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