I want to pick like how this guy picks up at a coffee shop

[AreYouSingleFemale]

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DAHUyuBFGTc

I'm such an unconfident idiot and I don't approach if 2 girls are together. This guy is a pro and I can die in peace today if I could pick up like him. However the girls are extremely friendly and welcoming to him; when I see girls together and I'm thinking to approach them, I get the feeling they would be suspicious and and think of me as an intruder. And as I mentioned elsewhere I also feel uncomfortable with the fact that my voice doesn't seem strong/attractive enough and I often get asked to repeat myself in noisy situations, and I suspect this contributes to my insecurity about approaching 2 women.
Can some pro here tell me how to deal with these insecurities and approach 2 women (I'd rather not think about bigger groups for now, being the insecure wuss that I am).

 

[daygameguy]

well for beginners I'd recommend targeting lone wolves (women all by themselves). After some success you can move to bigger groups.

Also, people who have a voice problem need to play some game in less noisy environments like during the day, and after some practice, their voice will start becoming more confident and dominant.

Your voice is a window to your soul. Any insecurity inside will come out through your voice. You need to speak slowly, speak loudly, and don't be afraid to get heard. Believe in whatever comes out of your mouth.

2 sets are the simplest - chat with both girls upon entry, tease your target, and gain approval of the obstacle, isolate if possible, else just number close both of them. Check out these videos on youtube:-

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1S1tXazVK58
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dRTSbvM8tBs
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9bSNW360gtE&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CFJsmMETwuk&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MnIMeHlvPR4
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HknzoDFpZiM&feature=related

 

[Lexie]

I'm sorry to disagree, but it's really obvious to me that these girls are annoyed with this guy. He's not nearly as smooth as he thinks he is. The whole "can I ask you a question" line is obviously a front. The ladies made it clear initially that they didn't want him there (by saying that they were waiting on a friend), yet he chose to stay anyway. To me, this comes across as pushy.

If they seemed welcoming, it's only because they were too polite to tell him to get lost.

I agree with daygameguy, try talking to girls one-on-one first. This often allows for more sincere conversations, instead of surface-level chatter.

 

[AreYouSingleFemale]

Problem is, I don't EVER find a woman alone in a coffee shop/mall.

 

[Lust]

I'm sorry to disagree, but it's really obvious to me that these girls are annoyed with this guy. He's not nearly as smooth as he thinks he is. The whole "can I ask you a question" line is obviously a front. The ladies made it clear initially that they didn't want him there (by saying that they were waiting on a friend), yet he chose to stay anyway. To me, this comes across as pushy.

If they seemed welcoming, it's only because they were too polite to tell him to get lost.

I agree with daygameguy, try talking to girls one-on-one first. This often allows for more sincere conversations, instead of surface-level chatter.

Every woman in that situation would have asked him to leave or given him some excuse for him not being able to stay. He would not have picked up a single woman if he had given up then and there.

All women know what's up in day game, it's almost impossible to hide it, they know you are after something, it's your job to make it fun and enjoyable for them. His approach was fairly text book and those reactions from the women are fairly text book too, it's a good idea to get used to them. He did well in the sense that he plowed through their sh!t tests and gradually reached hook point.

 

[sprint]

yeah dude you have to be a little pushy to get somewhere. Plus they're reactions weren't bad at all really (I only watched the first minute or so). what do you expect a girl to say? Oh thank God you talked to me I thought you were hot? hahahaha never... He didn't say anything retarded and they were smiling, laughing, fixing their hair, etc. So it was a decent approach imo.

 

[daygameguy]

girls will put up shields a lot of times, but if you keep your cool, be interesting, and manage to reach the hook point, it won't matter what their initial reactions were.

So don't be afraid to barrel through.

As for coffee shops, just get a coffee, and roam around talking to people, let others see you smiling and being social, then spot a sweet 2 set or a 3 set, and dive in.

Talk to them like they were your high school friends. Just joke around with the group, keep teasing all the girls in the group, keep being a cool guy, and they will open up and show IOIs. Then its time to number close.

Its tough to explain in words, you have to watch some videos or see a PUA in action.

 

[daygameguy]

I'm sorry to disagree, but it's really obvious to me that these girls are annoyed with this guy. He's not nearly as smooth as he thinks he is. The whole "can I ask you a question" line is obviously a front. The ladies made it clear initially that they didn't want him there (by saying that they were waiting on a friend), yet he chose to stay anyway. To me, this comes across as pushy.

If they seemed welcoming, it's only because they were too polite to tell him to get lost.

I agree with daygameguy, try talking to girls one-on-one first. This often allows for more sincere conversations, instead of surface-level chatter.

I'm glad that you agree, but I must point out, 2 sets or groups can be way more easier sometimes, because the girls will be comfortable talking to a stranger, knowing that they are in a group.

And, precisely, there was ONLY 1 obstacle in that video:

PUA: "Guys can I ask you a very quick question, do you mind?"
Target: "yeah sure" *smiling*
Obstacle: "We are waiting for our friends"