i want to be a princess

[Black_Italian]

Hey guys theres this girl i been trying to get with........so today im talkign to her and she says she "i want to be a princess" can any of u professionals give me a insight into what this means???
she also seems to want to live in a fairy tale or a cartton by what she says.......

 

[Mr. Doe]

Use your brain. You already answered this question for yourself: she wants to be a princess and live in a fairy tale.

The real question that you ask yourself is - do you want to be a prince and create that fairy tale. If not - kiss her goodbye, if yes - continue meeting her.

 

[ShortTimer]

It means she has completly unrealistic expectations of human relationships and there is nothing you can do (unless you have lots of $$$) to fufil her every wish and desire.

She's a child, don't date children.

 

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by ShortTimer
It means she has completly unrealistic expectations of human relationships and there is nothing you can do (unless you have lots of $$$) to fufil her every wish and desire.

She's a child, don't date children.

Exactly. Although even $$ will not make her happy. These girls are not living in reality, and lets face it, a dream world is ALWAYS better than reality, no matter how good reality is.

She has probably never had a real serious relationship, and would be impossible to try and create one with. The first guy she has a serious relationship will be in for many fights, and she will probably eventually grow up. However I would not like to be the guy to let her see the light. Young, unstable, unsure girl, no way I would be touching her. Although a lot of these girls are real outgoing, seem nice and can really pull u in if your not careful.

 

[Black_Italian]

CLOONEY man i can see why you are a master DJ. This girl has never had a serious realationship shes never had a relationship period and she is realy outgoing man what you said was spot on. BUT.................. im one persistant **** and this girl looks like Jessica Alba sooooooooo im going to go for it not for serious relationship just cause shes hot and shes a virgin and yeh.......do u recon im stupid to go for her????.......and also can u give me some advice on how to get her???

 

[MacDiddy]

A chick that comes out and says "I wanna be a princess" is a chick thats got balls and ambitions.

All woman, even the most stuck up bytchs want to be a princess. Its in their programming. Its in their dreams. But applying the old tried and tested rule that woman don't know what they want, I'd say that you can safely ignore what she just said and continue your seduction of this chick where you left off. In fact, why don't you pass the word that chick wants to be a princess so all the other AFC can trip up.

I;m going to go out on a limb here and say that the guy that treats her the least like a princess is the guy thats she gonna get with.

Heres some material. When she says she wants to be a princess again. tell her that she's "so full of shyt." She'll respect you more for it.

 

[Black_Italian]

MacDiddy...........To get with a girl that looks liek jessica alba il do just about anythign so i will take ur advice. I will tell her shes full of ****. Thanks guys

 

[MacDiddy]

oh boy!!!

Brothers... help me out here...

 

[JT47319]

You can do role playing.

"Oh so you want to be a princess? Well, here's your little tiara. But sorry, no real diamonds, just cubic zirconia because you're kingdom is poor! Your beautiful and funny, but your people hate you because you're a MEAN ruler.

I don't know if I can hang out you with anymore with a bratty little princess. Tell me you're not a brat."

Yada yada yada.

You can "fulfill" her fantasy, but then TURN IT AROUND into YOUR REALITY. Make it C&F, but also FORCE HER TO QUALIFY HERSELF TO YOU.

Hell, tell her your the prince of of your own kingdom and you're having a COMPETITION with other princessess to win your hand. Ask her what makes HER SO SPECIAL compared to OTHER PRINCESSES. Throw something out that YOU LIKE and then make her DANCE TO YOUR TUNE.

 

[chili kat]

Pull out a bag of candy and something shiney...she'll forget all about that princess sh*t.

 

[Ebach]

and i want to be a prince

 

[Black_Italian]

Thanks people al very good ideas i think il go for JT47319s role playing and il tall use how it goes.....also yesterday she started saying al this **** what do u want from me huh? do u want to use me ? why do u talk to me? what do u want from me? eveyone wants something from me so what do u want? blah blah blah your shallow!!!..........wtf is up with that?

 

[JT47319]

Originally posted by Black_Italian
Thanks people al very good ideas i think il go for JT47319s role playing and il tall use how it goes.....also yesterday she started saying al thi9s **** what do u want from me huh do u want to use me ? why do u talk to me? what do u want from me? eveyone wants something from me so what do u want? blah blah blah..........wtf is up with that?

You haven't established that you want anything more from her than her body. A lot of girls only want physical and sexual satisfication, but the majority of girls need to feel a certain amount of trust, comfort, and connection.

You need to maintain high attraction with her, but also establish RAPPORT with her. To quote SwinggCat:

... women will often times try to get rapport with men they see as having PRIZABILITY... make sure you already have PRIZABILITY before trying to get rapport with a woman.

Things like commonalities, shared experiences, understanding/knowing her better than she knows heryself, etc. Cold reading, telling stories, etc.

 

[CLOONEY]

Italian, this girl is probably honeslty a really nice girl. Trouble is, other than her fairy tale, she doesnt know what she wants. U have to flirt with her a lot, neghit her, kino her and move in for the kill. Like u would do with any other girl. Trouble is, these types of girls are usually flirty and laughing with lots of other guys also. Although she should make it pretty clear if she likes you. She will give u a lot of eye contact if she likes you. (i.e. when she is talking to others, u will catch her watching you).

She will probably mess your head up, play you and then bail, although never letting you totally go, as u are always a good ego trip to her and she wont like to let things go easily. Plus if you are in a relationship with her, she will realise all her dream world was not real, and this will cause her to be colder to you at times. She will eventually realise how a "real" relationship is supposed to function, but this might takes a year or two for her princess attitude to fade away. All I can say is good luck, I have dealt with girls like this before and you are in for one wild ride, lots of ups and downs! But why not take it, you are young and might as well see how these hot princesses operate!

 

[Ebach]

Have you not learned a single thing from all this? You're making this way too complex. Don't play her game. Make her play your game. When she says she wants to be a princess, tell her you want to be a prince. Simple as that. That basically dismisses her fairy tell and gets back to you. Say it in a sarcastic way.

Some of you are straight up tripping over commentaries like that. If she wants to play games play it with your rules in mind.

 

[Black_Italian]

Ok thats some good advice i will flirt neg hit and eveything i kind of do that like i tease her for being short and ****. I got to introduce some kino though i dont have much of it with her. Also Ebach i will sue that prince thing.....i said to her yesterday on the net i wont talk to u anymore unless u approach me cause she never approaches online so today she approached the second i came online. Anyway il keep use updated thanks for the advice

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

i used to think it did not mean much weather or not they started the convo first or not online, but this is 1 of there tests, and you have to beat them at there own game, if you chase them, they will drop you with in a week, if you only start a convo every other dya and let them do it, you will see results!!!