I Walk In And All Girls NOTICE!

[coochieman]

I'm a final year engineering student in one of the most expensive schools in my country, so on the general, almost everybody is of high standard

Overall, the biggest aspect I've worked on since my induction to so-suave is my inner self confidence, appearance, carriage and status. Judging by my current environment, I've become an ALPHA. Wasn't too hard though (cos I'm quite good looking and always been a very good dresser) and the missing piece in the puzzle was my SELF CONFIDENCE.

But the thing is I've taken s*it to another notch. The way I talk, walk with my head high and a bounce, smile and gesticulate scares me. Truth is I'm getting comfortable with it but I wish I had a DJ here to observe if I'm overdoing it.

Trust me, I'm not saying this outta unnecessary self consciousness, I really mean it. I carry myself like the baddest mogga****a alive, like I'm king..... The way I've drastically changed is just TOO OBVIOUS. Is there any bad to this ? Is it possible they guess that I've been reading "somethings" since I wasn't even close to this before ?

I mean I've gone from this corner kid to somebody all girls address with "excuse me....". in just FEW MONTHS! Some hate me for it, but I've been getting NOTICED LIKE HELL:rockon: . From my BL, i get a good response when initiating now! and it's getting worse every day!!!

Anybody been through this stage????

 

[slitherjef]

The most expensive school, huh and a nice dresser? Sounds like your confidence comes from money

 

[bigneil]

The most expensive school, huh and a nice dresser? Sounds like your confidence comes from money

Money, women and confidence make a big circle. All three come and go within the revolution of the circle. Don't whine about it, take advantage of it.

What I find shocking on this forum are those who imply that their lack of money means their women love them for who they are. A successful seducer is generous (Louis/Copeland). To the ladies, to the valet, his brother, his wingman, everyone. We're in a depression. Tip cash and tip often. Can't afford it? Earn more, but don't tell people they are wrong for earning more and being generous.

Guys, if you can't afford to take care of your woman 100%, you can't afford her. Her income should be optional, not mandatory. You either take care of your woman or pimp her out. That said, some women like ho-ing. Even more the reason to dress sharp.

 

[coochieman]

@slitherjef....... U wanna get stupid huh? go on and enjoy it.... Missed the part where I said everybody's of high standard, 80% of students are of a wealthy background so it doesn't matter how much your father has got except its really extraordinary and that's not my case. So, in these walls i'm down the ladder when it comes to "money to blow".

Babes here have been conditioned to believe that it is only normal and also expected of them to be high maintenance, that's how it is here.This is why disqualifying, neghits and C&F works like charm in this environment.

I mentioned I've been a wonderful dresser all my stay in school, but how come I never got the credit i deserve? ANS: Because the confidence wasn't really from within back then.

Now, I assure myself that no matter what comes up, I'm good. I'd handle conflicts with a smile and speak only when there's a need to. What doesn't kill me makes me stronger. I'm a winner. Circumstances and conditions are only as bad or good as I perceive them to be, and the society doesn't make me who I am so I'm not interested in what fellows feel about me. if you like my ride, hop aboard and if you don't, I really do not care because I don't go around speaking about others. If I have a chance of being a leader in the future, I better start cultivating and developing it NOW!

I suggest you do the same, so far.

For dudes ready to offer me fine advice..... Im all ears

 

[r0cky]

Hey what you are going through is your ego resisting the new "you" and trying to grasp to the old you. The ego hates change and it will rationalize whatever you're doing as wrong, because it doesn't want you to change. Your job as a man is to acknowledge that this resistance is a natural process that comes with the evolution of afc to alpha. Acknowledge those thoughts of questioning yourself and then dismiss them as your ego being stubborn. Just keep doing what you have learned. If you are seeing positive responses that means you are going on the right track.

 

[slitherjef]

@slitherjef....... U wanna get stupid huh?

Not at all. Your original post came off as pompous and boasting ego stroking show off. The fact that you get mad and ask me if "i want to get stupid" further suggest this. Any other comment from you like the quoted would just prove this.

With thay being said:

Congrats on your success, your good style and fasion sense and your weath as well as your good looks. Oh and your massive confidance. I dont have non of that which would explain my lack off success with the babes and life in general

 

[ArcBound]

* Correction it gets better everyday.

Now that you have success you always have that milestone you can look back on to give you confidence if you ever have any doubts.

 

[YAboi]

Coochieman u are one cool dude. Stay cool mehn

 

[coochieman]

Assimilated. Thanks y'all.

I feel like weeping every time I remember it took a breakup[with my last "real" girlfriend] for me to start finding my true self out... What a shame! What if she didn't??? I probably would have died a chump!!!

I would advice that every body here adopts the habit of reading self improvement/development books [such like those on psychology, power, leadership, wealth, success and communication skills].... and of course don't forget seduction too. We are only as strong as our weakest link, so I suggest we stick to improving all these various attributes.

 

[spectacular]

Ma blood u just need to start working out...I got ma dumbell bell,barbell. And tummy trimmer.I will soon start jugging...my body is having a better look..take care and hola @coochieman

 

[headFirst]

I would advice that every body here adopts the habit of reading self improvement/development books [such like those on psychology, power, leadership, wealth, success and communication skills].... and of course don't forget seduction too. We are only as strong as our weakest link, so I suggest we stick to improving all these various attributes.

If you've done this, post the ones you've read if you don't mind.

I've been like rocky ever since my NC and onitis.. :box: I'm working out hard, eating better, reading more books, and studying vocab. I've also been talking and less afraid to approach girls. I realized myself all I needed was to approach them because they seem happy I did.

What type of clothes do you wear? I was thinking of transitioning my Hurley shirts/ button up shirts and jeans to nice black dress pants and button up shirt with dress shoes when I go out to the college bar.. Figure the girls wear nice dresses sometimes, I'm sure they're looking for a guy to carry the same atire. Otherwise you just blend in with the rest of the shmoes out there trying to impress the ladies but just stand around doing nothing.

 

[Masculinity]

Your original post came off as pompous and boasting ego stroking show off. The fact that you get mad and ask me if "I want to get stupid" further suggest this.

With thay being said:

Congrats on your success, your good style and fasion sense and your weath as well as your good looks. Oh and your massive confidence.

OP: I agree with Slitherjef. You sound like you are trying too hard for everyone else to notice how good you think you are. It is almost as a cry saying "look at me, can't you see me? I want you to like me." C&F and negging are techniques that will only get you so far; don't make them the core of your game or you will suffer a lot of pain with women. Only because a school is expensive and you are associated with it, doesn't mean the school or you are any better than other people. I don't want to attack you, but I attend a public university and I'm under the poverty line and I could probably mop the floor with you and most of your classmates both academically and game-wise. On the other hand, you can probably buy or have your parents buy/do stuff for you. Consequently, you will have more property (cars, bikes, housing, etc.), so I will admit that. All that will be gone when you die--the most important thing in life are the people who you love and reciprocate that love.

Putting the money situation to the side, I recommend that you focus more on improving yourself. Besides reading and working out--which are very good by the way--work on your empathy and toning down your confidence. Right now your "confidence" is coming off as an insecurity, especially because of way you flash your money around.

No one should be praised only because of being born in a financially advantaged family. Some of the most courageous and brightest people who have lived on this planet have been poor or financially average. On the other hand, some of the wealthiest people are the biggest thieves, capitalists, and callous people in society. Find a balance, bro.

Let me know if you have any questions.



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A successful seducer is generous to the ladies, to the valet, his brother, his wingman, everyone. Guys, if you can't afford to take care of your woman 100%, you can't afford her. Her income should be optional, not mandatory. Even more the reason to dress sharp.

Oh Bigneil...don't make me refute you again. As much as I respect other people's individuality, just because you buy your way into girls' pants doesn't mean that we all have to do the same. I do not pay for women unless I am getting something in exchange and I still get invaluable poon. Dude, this is 2012...you are seriously wrong if you are one of those dudes that pays for women 100% of the time--your call, though.

Money doesn't make you any better with women. I know guys that are wealthy, well established, well educated, etc, and they are still unsuccessful with women. I am below the poverty line and I pull chicks without a problem. Your youth and sexuality are more valuable than any kind of money. On the other hand, if you have your game together, having financial means will make you more attractive to girls that want a sugar daddy; I am sure you already knew that, though. :yes:

Keep being money,

-Robyn

 

[thorwynn]

@robyn923b: very well said man, i agree & just a thought...i've been through coochieman's newfound experience a few years back. this thing of his will be tested in time when he gets into a relationship...****buddies and some other stuff, it's just normal that ladies will come to you easily but the real problem here is that how he maintains that frame when they get to know the real coochieman. this is all pure external for him at this time...what matters in the long run is the internal working inside him.

@coochieman: i've been through too much good and bad stuff and just follow what they say here. in time you'll realize these are the best advices you'll come across the net.

 

[zekko]

Over the course of my 51 years, I've carried myself with varying amounts of confidence and swagger. I've found that it doesn't make a great deal of difference to the way that women respond to you. Well, to me anyway. As long as you are keeping good posture and appear comfortable with yourself, that's all that really matters.

I think this whole "I am the king, I am the lord" attitude that some gurus espouse is taking things a bit far. I can see the appeal in it, but I don't think it's particularly realistic, or necessarily helpful.

 

[coochieman]

Coochieman just walked in. Pep talk time............

I Walk In And All Girls NOTICE! was posted some time back, its time to end it.

Why? you might ask.... Because i'm on to the next one and its the least of my present concerns but i take full responsibility since my friend re-surfaced it. This is no "money forum" (maybe i really wish there was a section for that, since getting paper would forever be more important than getting any pussie whatsoever in the whole fucckin world).... lets reserve this money-talk for the stockbroker.

The reference to the status of my school (Graduating already! Yeah!!) was solely to pin point how much I am now assured correct body language works IN ANY ENVIRONMENT WHATSOEVER. It works, trust me bros. It is more important than anything in words.

Newly found success suprised me. I got more attention and less rejection over time just because i changed my self belief, carriage and confidence over time. More positive results begets better confidence. Do you think im still astounded by this? HELL NO! Been there, done and still doing that. Time to develop/improve other attributes.

Forget irrelevant schemes and tactics, instead look to CONSTANTLY DEVELOP YOURSELF because its a win-win exercise, you do good for yourself and you move up the social ladder (JACKPOT!). In the wake of fashion sense and sorts, understand this..... YOUR BODY IS THE MOST IMPORTANT DRESS YOU'LD EVER WEAR, SO GET IT FIXED NOW! Let's not be cute girls, clothes help your present confidence and may show status but they come off sooner or later. A good body is actually YOU, your kleptomaniacal roomate can't steal this from you. Hit the gym.

A shift in your confidence and the way you feel about/carry yourself might be whats left for you. You cannot "be the price", constantly play the "i don't give a fucck" card, or call that b!tchy HB11 out on her slimy behaviour and so, if you dont already possess unshakable confidence. Find a way to own it NOW. Hint: Fake it till you make it, just pray you don't get caught. Amen.

I want believe beyond reasonable doubt that there's no "so called DJ" here who thinks "validation, disqualifcation, neghitting, C&F and the likes" are all that's needed to become James Bond. This is to keep the overly-esteemed in check, it gets her wondering "Who the fucck you are, talking to her like that"; And this my friend, buys us time to run game proper on a now-calm headed b!tch. This can be subtle or direct and may be required every once in a while. Learn usage.

So let's make less fuss bout trivial issues already, and keep being money like my brother robyn. Got two rendezvous planned for tomorrow, trying to figure which one of 'em hoes got the highest open-leg prospect.

I heard on the average, a man scores just seven pussies in his lifetime. That's shameful, there are supposedly three billion chicas worldwide, got no excuse not to aim for seventy seven (Hehehe).

GO DJ.

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