I've been studying djing now for over a yr. and have become quite good and successful with it, now a girl has me stumped.
Here's the situation, my brother and I went to a bar to have a few drinks, and to flirt. since I've been coming here flirting and meeting new girls has become one of my favorite past-times. I did all the requirements that are just a part of my nature now.
As soon as we walked in the bar we scoped out the prettiest girls, I sat a couple of chairs from this girl that I thought was cute, gave her eye contact, smiled then went about my business. A few moments later she sat next to me and we started talking and having fun with the bartender ect. Just a typical dj night.
Then the tests started OK no problem I'm no newbie at this (or so I thought).
She called up her best friend, and he started hugging on her, still not a problem. She asked if it made me jealous, I smiled and said not at all, it just means it's gonna take a little longer to work on you. then I brushed my leg up against hers as I turned to talk to the bartender.
So I passed that test with flying colors, then she invited us to a party. Naturally we went, she wanted to do something fun so we went to a bridge so she could paint her name on it. that's when she paused for a sec and I used that opportunity to apply keno, I touched the side of her face and then ran my hand through her hair, according to the dj rules thats the ok for a kiss.
So I leaned in and gave her a passionate kiss.
It seems I did everything right, passing tests, applying keno, being a real man and not asking permission for everything.
Then at the end of the night (5am) she did something that I wasn't prepared for, something that I either overlooked or, it's just not mentioned. She looked deeply into my eyes, then tenderly caressed my cheek with her hand, then went inside.
In that brief expression of tenderness, it seems like everything flip flopped.
Now I don't know what to do. I don't want to be an ass and play her, but I don't know if she's playin me, the caress seemed legit but you never know.
Anyhow this is the 3rd day so I'm giving her a call tonight. Any advice would be appreciated.
Here's the situation, my brother and I went to a bar to have a few drinks, and to flirt. since I've been coming here flirting and meeting new girls has become one of my favorite past-times. I did all the requirements that are just a part of my nature now.
As soon as we walked in the bar we scoped out the prettiest girls, I sat a couple of chairs from this girl that I thought was cute, gave her eye contact, smiled then went about my business. A few moments later she sat next to me and we started talking and having fun with the bartender ect. Just a typical dj night.
Then the tests started OK no problem I'm no newbie at this (or so I thought).
She called up her best friend, and he started hugging on her, still not a problem. She asked if it made me jealous, I smiled and said not at all, it just means it's gonna take a little longer to work on you. then I brushed my leg up against hers as I turned to talk to the bartender.
So I passed that test with flying colors, then she invited us to a party. Naturally we went, she wanted to do something fun so we went to a bridge so she could paint her name on it. that's when she paused for a sec and I used that opportunity to apply keno, I touched the side of her face and then ran my hand through her hair, according to the dj rules thats the ok for a kiss.
So I leaned in and gave her a passionate kiss.
It seems I did everything right, passing tests, applying keno, being a real man and not asking permission for everything.
Then at the end of the night (5am) she did something that I wasn't prepared for, something that I either overlooked or, it's just not mentioned. She looked deeply into my eyes, then tenderly caressed my cheek with her hand, then went inside.
In that brief expression of tenderness, it seems like everything flip flopped.
Now I don't know what to do. I don't want to be an ass and play her, but I don't know if she's playin me, the caress seemed legit but you never know.
Anyhow this is the 3rd day so I'm giving her a call tonight. Any advice would be appreciated.