I think she's playing me!!! Please reply

Elf

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Hi guys

I'm dating this girl for 3 months, i met her in the internet and we have started her friends till the time she said she was interested in me, i was also, but all the time i thought she was playing me because i know i'm not cute, she even told me that, but she insisted that she loves me and accepts me the way i am. my gut tells me that i'm gonna be dumped for good, the same thing happened in the past to me...

Well, inspired on this i did something moved by my gut, she usually uses msn messenger and i made her believe that i was other guy and had sexual talks with her, she said she had a boyfriend but that her relationship was far from being perfect and she was willing to be seduced by me ( the character i created ).

I don't think what i shall do next, i just wonder what she wanted with me in the first place and if she felt or feels anything for me, i like her a lot but i can't be treated as an idiot. If she's playing with me i wanna do that also or maybe just back off and see if she misses me or not or simply ignore her forever

If someone can/want to reply to this post, you are welcome.

Thanks in advance
 

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funny same thing happened to me..

i met a girl online.. chatted.. eventually talked to her on the phone.

we became "inlove" :rolleyes:

well.. fastforward 3 or 4 months she dumped me.

then i found this site, turned my life around. does'nt even hurt anymore.

as for ur post, i dont think anyone can tell the future at all.. just go with the flow and where it takes you is my advice. i might be wrong though,,.. idk..
 

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I glad both of u found this forum :)

I don't think that you can "fall in love" or "date" anyone online ;)
 

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Well, inspired on this i did something moved by my gut, she usually uses msn messenger and i made her believe that i was other guy and had sexual talks with her, she said she had a boyfriend but that her relationship was far from being perfect and she was willing to be seduced by me ( the character i created ).
Why are you even doing this??? :rolleyes:

Start meeting some women IN REAL LIFE now, the ones you see and want to approach.

I suggest you start taking the boot camp now.



If she's playing with me i wanna do that also or maybe just back off and see if she misses me or not or simply ignore her forever
No, no, no. The worst you can do is to lower yourself at her level. Don't play her back. Remember: you are the one to be chased. ¿Did you really read the Don Juan Bible? If you haven't, start reading it now and pay special attention to Pook's articles.... ;) Then you will learn that when you are the great catch you won't even worry about those kind of things... you are above all that.

And remember, online girls = most desperate to meet new people.

Good luck!
 

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Originally posted by p1aya
I glad both of u found this forum :)

I don't think that you can "fall in love" or "date" anyone online ;)
ofcourse we met afterwards irl... unless u are imposing that u cant fall inlove with a girl u met online.. that's incorrect. ;)
 
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i know i'm not cute, she even told me that,

1. You let a woman agree with you on this???? Can you not say Low self esteem but NO SELF ESTEEM

2. Fellow it doesn't matter what you look like. Unattractive guys get laid too and they can catch fine women also if your CONFIDENCE is intact.

3. Never put yourself down. EVER EVER EVER!!!!! And never take a hand out from a woman. Your a man. You have potential. Women want a piece of that potential. So they can settle down and relax. They NEED YOU! You are the prize to be caught fella.

4. READ the bible and DO the boot camp and you will learn a whole new level of confidence.

5. Too bad you had to find out the hard way how trustworthy your woman is. Yeah she will cheat on you. What you need to do now is set up a meeting with her somewhere, and watch it until she shows up then walk over and sit down.

Give her the shock of her life...and ask her what she is doing...make her sweat..then tell her it was you the whole time.

That will put all the power in your court and make her give you head to make it up to you.

After that quit being such a chump. The reason she is looking is because as I keep telling you guys stop being NICE GUYS.

WOMEN DO NO LIKE NICE GUYS!!!! DO YOU GUYS GET THIS???? HOW MANY TIMES DO YOU HAVE TO HAVE THIS RAMMED DOWN YOUR FAWKING THROATS????

Uhh Sorry kid. I get pissed off when you guys do not learn this simple fact.
 

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have CONFIDENCE in yourself.....
treat yourself your unique.....
always think she likes you.....
do the C and F....
and finally.........your a MAN!
 
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