i think shes playing a game

[cablecow15]

ok theres this girl that when i ask her out she says idk all the time it drives me crazy i know she likes me .why dosent she say yes i got tired and stoped showing her so much attention then she got a bf and as soon as she broke up she imed me it was hte first thing she said she wanted to let me know she was avalible . is she playing a game with me and if she is how do i win

 

[BxPrince24]

i was in a similar situation, we have fun with eachother everytime we're together n we have fun convos but i asked her to hang out with me twice n it was an excuse on both occasions. the first time she had to babysit, the second time she didn't have enough cash to go where i was going. Unlike your case though, the girl i was talkin to never contacted me first, i always initiated the convo unless we see each other in person, which she would speak to me first.

I tried cutting off contact to her for a week to see if it would make things any better. But it made no difference at all so I just went on with my life. We ran into eachother again yesterday, it was pretty much the same deal and we had a convo over the internet but i'm not looking into it and i think she may be gay or bi...

if u get the answer... let me kno.

 

[cablecow15]

ahh i see my situatins a bit diffrent i mean weve made out on many diffrent occasions im shure she likes me i just dont know whats the deal im shure she has to be sqrewing with me

 

[cablecow15]

can anybody plesae help

 

[Dimebag_Darrell]

she has no intentions of seeking anything such as an intimate relationship with you, nevertheless this DOES NOT MEAN you couldn't bang this chick. This girl sounds like a possible f*ck buddy. You know they say that some girls will kiss and make out with you but won't f*ck you, but some won't even give you a hug but will slurp your c*ck dry.

 

[Stackthestyles]

Tease her more you dumbass.

 

[cablecow15]

so should i just play around with her and keep using djness on her but dont focus on her at all ok i can do that

 

[VIVAlasVEGASBaby]

Walk away. Period. Have the patience, confidence and pride to not be taken for a fool. Don't talk to her anymore. If she was interested she would've said yes. If you even suspect a girl is playing games, then you should walk away because she isn't worth your time. Remember girls DO play games and WILL treat you like crap. These chicks are garbage. Half the battle is picking the good from the bad.

Remember, YOU have to be in control.

 

[BxPrince24]

Walk away. Period. Have the patience, confidence and pride to not be taken for a fool. Don't talk to her anymore. If she was interested she would've said yes. If you even suspect a girl is playing games, then you should walk away because she isn't worth your time. Remember girls DO play games and WILL treat you like crap. These chicks are garbage. Half the battle is picking the good from the bad.

Remember, YOU have to be in control.

Couldn't agree with u more. I've been doing that with the girl i mentioned earlier. We had went out with eachother in the past, she was immature and i was an AFC so of course it didn't last. But reguardless, we have great conversations and there is chemistry when we're together. Maybe its not enough to get her to want me as a lover, maybe she's taken. Either way, I took it for what it is and now only speak to her when i'm looking to pass the time or have a good convo. I'm not seeking anything else from her, she can kiss my a$$ for all i care.

 

[cablecow15]

ok i get ya but idk something about it all feels funny i mean agghhh forget it
im done with her crap.the thing that makes it hard to quit is it really does seem like she wants a relation ship she wears this shirt i gave her to bed she
told me as soon as she broke up with her bf and she is is a 9 outta 10 im not shure if i wanna give this one up as easily ill stick to it for a week no more than that if she wont give in by then then fu@k it

 

[Stackthestyles]

She's a shy girl right? I'm betting I could run down on some of the games she plays without knowing it at all.

Thing is cablecow, she is scared, so she says I don't know to protect herself. She has the answer, and She's BEGGING for you to be strong enough to make her say it.

So, as I said, tease her dumbass.

 

[cablecow15]

wow that actauly makes alot of sense she is shy thanks what are some good things to tease about hair shoes exc. nothing theyl take personaly right

 

[VIVAlasVEGASBaby]

The "I don't know" response is wierd though, even for a shy chick. If she liked you she would've been HAPPY and would've said yes. I don't care how shy she is, an "I don't know" response to being asked out is really shaky.

 

[cablecow15]

the sting is theres another guy that likes here to shes not gonna be my main focus im not gonna fret over it much