Hey All,
Maybe I'm thinking way to much. That's what my fraternity bros tell me during my last year of college.
I would like to think I have a shot with this humbling 21yr old girl. I'd say there are signs pointing to possibly ante'ing up the stakes.
She's blossoming between my best bud and I and being more extroverted through the same network of friends of ours.
I don't want to jump the gun although I want to know, if any, to romanticize a bit. I guess, I don't want to underestimate her outgoing-ness.
How to raise the stakes in a cool, calm, and collected manner?
I've heard of listen to her behavior advice;
Recent event: I walked into our college study room, and I see my bud John. I placed my backpack on the desk. As soon as I turn around to walk out and get coffee from next door, I see the girl and another acquaintance, Dude. Either, They met up unintentionally before reaching the study room or intentionally. Either way this plays into my friendly theory. Well we all study. Independently. My bud from see's me from outside, opens the door, & asks if I'd like donuts. I return with donuts and surprisingly she remembers that I mentioned donuts was what I decided to give up for my Lent.
See, I probably my just be overthinking. Thought Input would be grateful yall!
Maybe I'm thinking way to much. That's what my fraternity bros tell me during my last year of college.
I would like to think I have a shot with this humbling 21yr old girl. I'd say there are signs pointing to possibly ante'ing up the stakes.
She's blossoming between my best bud and I and being more extroverted through the same network of friends of ours.
I don't want to jump the gun although I want to know, if any, to romanticize a bit. I guess, I don't want to underestimate her outgoing-ness.
How to raise the stakes in a cool, calm, and collected manner?
I've heard of listen to her behavior advice;
Recent event: I walked into our college study room, and I see my bud John. I placed my backpack on the desk. As soon as I turn around to walk out and get coffee from next door, I see the girl and another acquaintance, Dude. Either, They met up unintentionally before reaching the study room or intentionally. Either way this plays into my friendly theory. Well we all study. Independently. My bud from see's me from outside, opens the door, & asks if I'd like donuts. I return with donuts and surprisingly she remembers that I mentioned donuts was what I decided to give up for my Lent.
See, I probably my just be overthinking. Thought Input would be grateful yall!
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