Alright, I think I'm turning back to AFC. Here I am a sophmore in high school. I've been reading up on this site and I've just stayed single and played it up with a few girls this last year. Now, a year back I was interested in this one girl - cutest thing I've ever seen, and I sat next to her last year, and I sit next to her in two classes this year. Known her for 3 years now. She's only kissed on guy, not a makeout, just a peck, and she's never had a boyfriend. No experience at all.
I was shot down last year, and we've become pretty close friends [hate that word], over this course of the year. She tells me the guys she's interested in, I return the favor by giving advice and telling things from my side of the spectrum. She's flirted harmlessly but never shown any real interest until what happened on Friday night through Saturday.
Maybe I just suck at picking up hints and making the first move but I'll tell you what went on.
We were just chatting like usual and she told me out of the blue that she felt like kissing someone. And she asked me for tips. Then she told me about the guys she wouldn't mind kissing, and said stuff like
"I want to kiss someone! but who? All the guys I want are unavailable"
Of course, I wasn't on her list, and when I gave her mine she wasn't on mine.
I gave her pointers and linked her helpful articles that could give her tips, and told her that all it boiled down to was do what comes natural and don't make a big deal of it.
Finally I told her "sorry, if there's anything I could do to help, I would,"
and she was like "oh, i think i have an idea of what you mean."
and i just continued, and she asked if I wanted to know her idea.
I said sure, and she said "hahah, you'd help me practice!"
We went from there, and she admit she thought about 'us kissing' and she asked what I'd done with a girl. I told her [about everything but sex], and here's where the story confuses the hell out of me gentlemen:
She asked me whether I thought things would be weird in class on Monday.
I told her "that depends on what you want."
and she said she wanted it to be normal.
I said alright, and bid her goodnight, and sweet dreams. [it was about three in the morning, we'd been talking for almost 7 hours.]
she woke up saying "speaking of dreams, I had a very interesting one last night.
She told me it was "uhh, me and you, doing most of the things we talked about last night."
"we made out ALOT, you felt me up, aand you fingered me."
This is surprising.. I've never seen a sexual side of her before, and this just attracts me more.
Then she said
"
ok. the dream wasnt bad.
like i wasnt completely weirded out when i had it."
and she said it was better than any other dream she'd had about a guy, and that it was the first time she'd had a dream like that.
She said she'd wondered how I'd respond when she told me
she'd thought about kissing me,
and asked if I'd ever thought about it.
I said yes,
and she said this year? [in reference to last year]
and I said yes.
I said I known she hadn't,
and she said as of last night I have.
I told her it seemed like I was a last resort,
and she said 'more like a spur of the moment.'
We didn't talk too much that day, and she went to bed early.
Today I messaged her saying good morning,
and asking if she'd slept well,
to which she replied "good afternoon. yes, i did. what's up?"
I am really sorry for all that wall of text, but I really need advice and I want this girl more than anything right now. I definitely don't have oneitis; I haven't let myself get that attached, but everytime I re-read the conversation I want her more and more.
I don't know whether she's ****ing with me, or she's interested,
or if she just wants to forget about it or what.
If you read and respond, I'll drive to your place, kneel and kiss your feet for that.
Thank you, DJ's of sosuave. You've helped me more than you know.
I was shot down last year, and we've become pretty close friends [hate that word], over this course of the year. She tells me the guys she's interested in, I return the favor by giving advice and telling things from my side of the spectrum. She's flirted harmlessly but never shown any real interest until what happened on Friday night through Saturday.
Maybe I just suck at picking up hints and making the first move but I'll tell you what went on.
We were just chatting like usual and she told me out of the blue that she felt like kissing someone. And she asked me for tips. Then she told me about the guys she wouldn't mind kissing, and said stuff like
"I want to kiss someone! but who? All the guys I want are unavailable"
Of course, I wasn't on her list, and when I gave her mine she wasn't on mine.
I gave her pointers and linked her helpful articles that could give her tips, and told her that all it boiled down to was do what comes natural and don't make a big deal of it.
Finally I told her "sorry, if there's anything I could do to help, I would,"
and she was like "oh, i think i have an idea of what you mean."
and i just continued, and she asked if I wanted to know her idea.
I said sure, and she said "hahah, you'd help me practice!"
We went from there, and she admit she thought about 'us kissing' and she asked what I'd done with a girl. I told her [about everything but sex], and here's where the story confuses the hell out of me gentlemen:
She asked me whether I thought things would be weird in class on Monday.
I told her "that depends on what you want."
and she said she wanted it to be normal.
I said alright, and bid her goodnight, and sweet dreams. [it was about three in the morning, we'd been talking for almost 7 hours.]
she woke up saying "speaking of dreams, I had a very interesting one last night.
She told me it was "uhh, me and you, doing most of the things we talked about last night."
"we made out ALOT, you felt me up, aand you fingered me."
This is surprising.. I've never seen a sexual side of her before, and this just attracts me more.
Then she said
"
ok. the dream wasnt bad.
like i wasnt completely weirded out when i had it."
and she said it was better than any other dream she'd had about a guy, and that it was the first time she'd had a dream like that.
She said she'd wondered how I'd respond when she told me
she'd thought about kissing me,
and asked if I'd ever thought about it.
I said yes,
and she said this year? [in reference to last year]
and I said yes.
I said I known she hadn't,
and she said as of last night I have.
I told her it seemed like I was a last resort,
and she said 'more like a spur of the moment.'
We didn't talk too much that day, and she went to bed early.
Today I messaged her saying good morning,
and asking if she'd slept well,
to which she replied "good afternoon. yes, i did. what's up?"
I am really sorry for all that wall of text, but I really need advice and I want this girl more than anything right now. I definitely don't have oneitis; I haven't let myself get that attached, but everytime I re-read the conversation I want her more and more.
I don't know whether she's ****ing with me, or she's interested,
or if she just wants to forget about it or what.
If you read and respond, I'll drive to your place, kneel and kiss your feet for that.
Thank you, DJ's of sosuave. You've helped me more than you know.
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