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Mr. Delicious

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My friend works at red lobster and there is a very attractive girl he wants to hook me up with. She is probably about a 9. I had never met or seen her before until last night. My friend and I went into Red Lobster because he wanted to eat there. He saw that she was working when we got there so he requested we be put in her section.
Well she comes over and he introduces us. She is a very outgoing friendly girl. So it was hard to tell if she was interested in me or just flirting. I pretty much have given up trying to read women its too hard. I made eye contact and smiled with her multiple times throughout our dinner while we were talking to her. She was talking about how she didnt get much sleep last night and got up early that morning. So then my friend somewhat screwed me i think because he randomly asked her to hangout with us and his girlfriend around 11 when she got off work. I was thinking noo lets set something up in advance
:mad: She said she was going to see the Italian Job after work and my friend is like well i downloaded it so i will send it to you. Then she started to seem like she would go with us. So I felt I had to jump in and I looked her in the eyes and said what time should we pick you up tonight. She kind of gave a little uh, I have a car (somewhat jokingly somewhat serious). Then later she said she remembered she had to watch her niece that night and my friend was like bring her with you.
I was annoyed with my friend cause he was making it seem like we were desperate to have her come out with us. I mainly was talking to her about herself and things like that. Well she asked him for his number so she could call us when she got off work and as I expected she didnt call. Things seemed to be going well between her and me but what should I have done differently? Do you think I still have a chance to take her and what should I do next?
 
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i don't see why you let your friend hook you up with that chick.. It could give off vibes that you are a shy punk! But nevetheless, your friend could be your downfall man.. Don't have him around for your issued with the other sex..
 

htemorp

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This is a perfect example of overanalytical and doing everything by the book. Your friend knows this girl, you keep your mouth shut and let him do the work. It's normal just be like why don't u come kick it with us tonight when you get off work. But when you ask to pick her up, that's rather stupid...I am not surprise of her reactions.
 

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he doesnt really know her very well. I didnt want him to do all the work. I basically wanted him to introduce me to her and I was going to take it from there and get her number myself but he just kept jumping right in and pushing the issue. It caught me offguard and i didnt know what to do.
 

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Here's how I do things. Scenario 1, my friend introduced me, I took over the conversation and keep it flowing. Scenario 2, my friend introduced me, we both share the conversation, both splitting games and complimenting each other. Scenario 3, he continues the conversation, I sit back and not care much about it. Sometime, girls are actually impress that you don't really give a damn about him taking over the conversation. Crack some single line jokes like Chandler from Friends, she'll be laughing and wondering why you're so mysterious yet so interesting. Doesn't matter man, you can't win every time. Just let it flow.
 
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