I swear to god, if one more fat girl hits on me...

[Kerpal]

While every decent looking girl ignores/blows me off, I am just gonna snap and do some crazy ****.

:cuss:

I'm glad I'm graduating soon, at least I won't be surrounded by these insanely hot unattainable women all day anymore. This is so ****ing frustrating.

 

[f283000]

When a fat girl hits on you = you reek of niceguy-ness

I know I suffered from this before. They hit on you cause you look like the type of guy that wouldn't treat her like sh*** (unlike a jerk/bad boy).

Take it as a sign of something that you need to fix in your game.

When even fat women don't see you as "beyond their league" how do you expect to pull hotties? They don't hit on jerks/bad boys because they're beyond their league.

 

[Gray The Prince]

Hit the gym, grow some hair on your balls and acquire aesthetics and this won't happen to you.

Oh and if you keep seeing 8's,9's and 10's as "Unattainable hotties" then that's what they will become, hence why they keep blowing you off.

 

[Kerpal]

Hit the gym, grow some hair on your balls and acquire aesthetics and this won't happen to you.

What's with all the BB.com sayings on here lately...

 

[Warrior74]

What's with all the BB.com sayings on here lately...

U mad bro? jakes on you.

 

[Jitterbug]

Cos you look like you can deadlift them from behind in the bedroom? There's a guy at my lifting club who loves them big, and he trains his deadlifts as if he's humping them whales.

f283000, many fat girls have it in their heads that they're desirable, and quite a few are very keen. They just won't quit, even if you completely ignore or treat them poorly. They're like the clueless betas that just won't quit orbiting some hottie.

 

[Maxtro]

Having fat girls hit on you is not a bad thing.

In fact it's a sign that women consider you attractive. Whether a woman is fat or not, she's still a woman and her weight doesn't not affect what she thinks is attractive.

The difference between fat girls and non-fat, is that the fatties know they are not desired, so they have to be aggressive and go after what they want. The thin girls could still be attracted, but are just waiting for you to make a move, because they know they don't have to.

Pook also talked about it.

He went from being ignored to women, to fat girls hitting on him, to the fat girls thinking he's unattainable, then the hot girls started becoming aggressive.

 

[dudewut]

Dude....at least they are females, gay guys hit on me........

 

[SamTheHobit]

Dude....at least they are females, gay guys hit on me........

lmfao!! This one cracked me up.

 

[dudewut]

lmfao!! This one cracked me up.

I've had my share of fat chicks and hot chicks too

But it seems like gay guys are more inclined in showing their interests early on....kinda makes me uncomfortable though......

 

[Fuglydude]

Kerpal maybe you should start training for aesthetics instead of purely strength man... All chics dig a jacked up guy who's not only strong (as you are) but looks like he's strong as well. This means working out the "show muscles" like arms/chest and shoulders. If you're lean you'll have abs. So train your show muscles more instead of just pulling/squatting and doing OHP. Being lean and big/strong is a sure fire ticket to get a lot of attention from hot girls. By that time fat girls will have to PAY to get into your pants

 

[Kerpal]

Having fat girls hit on you is not a bad thing.

In fact it's a sign that women consider you attractive. Whether a woman is fat or not, she's still a woman and her weight doesn't not affect what she thinks is attractive.

The difference between fat girls and non-fat, is that the fatties know they are not desired, so they have to be aggressive and go after what they want. The thin girls could still be attracted, but are just waiting for you to make a move, because they know they don't have to.

Pook also talked about it.

He went from being ignored to women, to fat girls hitting on him, to the fat girls thinking he's unattainable, then the hot girls started becoming aggressive.

Yeah but when ONLY fat/unattractive women are showing any interest, that indicates a problem. The only explanation I can think of is that they think I'm in their league, which is depressing.

Kerpal maybe you should start training for aesthetics instead of purely strength man... All chics dig a jacked up guy who's not only strong (as you are) but looks like he's strong as well. This means working out the "show muscles" like arms/chest and shoulders. If you're lean you'll have abs. So train your show muscles more instead of just pulling/squatting and doing OHP. Being lean and big/strong is a sure fire ticket to get a lot of attention from hot girls. By that time fat girls will have to PAY to get into your pants

I'm already more "aesthetic" than most of the guys I see with hot girls... Something else is wrong here. It's like I'm sending out some kind of subliminal signal to anything over a 5 not to be attracted to me.

 

[KingofHearts]

Yeah but when ONLY fat/unattractive women are showing any interest, that indicates a problem. The only explanation I can think of is that they think I'm in their league, which is depressing.

That's not how it works. You're above them in value. Way above actually. Women don't go chasing every guy that walks by. My suggestion is to strategically make friends with a few of these girls that might be able to introduce you to their hot friends. Remember, a woman's value is inflated, so they think they deserve a guy like you. A harem of orbiters isn't bad as long as they don't c-block you.

I'm already more "aesthetic" than most of the guys I see with hot girls... Something else is wrong here. It's like I'm sending out some kind of subliminal signal to anything over a 5 not to be attracted to me.

You probably are. No one can tell you without seeing you in action. Just a couple questions of curiosity - How tall are you? What race are you?

 

[Kerpal]

I'm 5'11, white.

 

[f283000]

In fact it's a sign that women consider you attractive. Whether a woman is fat or not, she's still a woman and her weight doesn't not affect what she thinks is attractive.

True but if you got fat women showing their attraction for you that's not a good thing (never a good thing)

It's a leak in your game showing that you are too nice to the point that fat girls don't fear approaching you.

It's also not a good thing to be seen talking to fat women. Pre-selection works when you are seen with good looking women. Being seen with fat women harms your reputation in the eyes of the hotties.

It's a secret code they go by. Just like they secretly want what the hot girls have (jocks, bad boys, jerks) they see you as a loser if you are seen talking with a fat girl rather than a good looking gal.

Frankly I could give a damn if a fat girl is attractive to me even if it shows "women are attracted to me" like you said. I don't need the loss of social proof/pre-selection and overall self steam loss being hit on by wales. No man does.

 

[Kerpal]

True but if you got fat women showing their attraction for you that's not a good thing (never a good thing)

It's a leak in your game showing that you are too nice to the point that fat girls don't fear approaching you.

It's also not a good thing to be seen talking to fat women. Pre-selection works when you are seen with good looking women. Being seen with fat women harms your reputation in the eyes of the hotties.

It's a secret code they go by. Just like they secretly want what the hot girls have (jocks, bad boys, jerks) they see you as a loser if you are seen talking with a fat girl rather than a good looking gal.

Frankly I could give a damn if a fat girl is attractive to me even if it shows "women are attracted to me" like you said. I don't need the loss of social proof/pre-selection and overall self steam loss being hit on by wales. No man does.

Yup. I avoid them like the plague, being seen talking to them lowers your value in everyone else's eyes. Yes it's shallow but unfortunately that's reality, you can either get on the bus or get run over by it.

And the self-esteem loss is a serious problem, it really sucks having these fatties approaching me constantly and my friends joking about it. I'm not the only one who notices it, it's become a running joke with the people I go out with. I wouldn't even mind if good looking girls approached me too, but I've NEVER had anything above a 5 show any interest in me at all.

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I got some #'s off of pof. Man I learned my lesson with fat chicks hiding their fatness in the pics. In the pics they were hot! and their faces looked skinny. I later saw more pics, of their whole body, and they were chubby. I like thick/curvy girls too, but not fat girls. Anyways, I was nice to them, and within a day,they all eventually got the idea I wasnt interested.

 

[Kerpal]

Yeah I've had the same thing happen to me on POF, but it's worse when it happens in RL.

 

[Fuglydude]

Kerpal what do you consider a 5? What do you consider a 8 or a 9? Post a pic of one so we have an idea.

Personally I think girls are really attracted to outgoing, engaging personalities that have strong positive energy. If you're a low energy, depressive guy, you'll have a harder time attracting women w/ your personality as you won't make them feel good... Again this is just based on my experience, and I could be totally wrong.

I'm a pretty outgoing optimistic guy with a very positive outlook on life... My fiance said she was very drawn to me because of my positive attitude, and I think women are subconsciously attracted to positive energy.

If a fatty is interested in you, why don't you just get a BJ from her? Fat chics give great head because they're always hungry

 

[nismo-4]

True but if you got fat women showing their attraction for you that's not a good thing (never a good thing)

It's also not a good thing to be seen talking to fat women. Pre-selection works when you are seen with good looking women. Being seen with fat women harms your reputation in the eyes of the hotties.

It's a secret code they go by. Just like they secretly want what the hot girls have (jocks, bad boys, jerks) they see you as a loser if you are seen talking with a fat girl rather than a good looking gal.

I enjoy your reality doses, as always! Gotta keep this one in the courtroom files.