I swear basically every girl thinks im a d1ck

[jigga23]

Sometimes being a d1ck could be good and sometimes bad i know this. But recently from my friends, mulitple ones who all travel in different social circles have been telling me lately that "yea they think your cute/hot but they think your a ****y arrogant d1ck" I barley know most of these girls on a personal level. its mostly ive shook their hands one time said hello and thats it then the next time i see them if i dont find them attractive and dont want anything from them i wont talk to them cause i find it pointless. Most likely they view me as a potentional person they would fvck/bf and when i dont go up to them and waste my time and hit on them im a d1ck. Thats kind of bullsh!t cause that rep is starting to travel around in big circles therefore slimming down my chances if i ever hang out w/ my friends and there are girls there.

Take for instance yesterday, my brother went to a party at a bar it was my friends gf's grad party. I wasnt invited cause all the girls that were there (ones ive met like once all think im an arrogant d1ck) some ugly/fat girl went up to my brother and said hey im glad you only came your brothers a d1ck. I dont even remember saying hi to this girl ever. i dont give a sh!t about her but i care about my name getting out there like this to certain people cause immediatley im at a disadvantage.

The way i look at is the reason why all these girls think im a d1ck w/out even knowing me is because they think im cute/hot or whatever and therefore it bugs them that i dont go up to them inflate their ego etc. You know its like when you like a girl and she blows you off shes a b1tch right? Same with a guy. girl thinks your good looking or whatever you dont give her the time of day= youre a d1ck. So am i suppose to talk to everyone?

I am seriously not a d1ck only if you push a wrong button which takes a lot then i will be one. me being a d1ck in my eyes is saying stupid sh1t to someone or degrading them or whatever. i never say anything fvcked up to anyone i barley know. i keep to myself. This is crazy like every social group of girls i know thinks this of me. Yea they say im a d1ck but if i went up to talk them im pretty sure they wouldnt slap me in the face and walk away. probably more willing to talk to me. I guess im showing some DHV atleast thats what they see. ive fvcked girls that thought i was a huge d1ck. is it get to have this rep or not?

 

[kingofnewbie]

hey bro u know what would happen to u if u take viagra?



YOU GOT TALLER LOL:crackup:

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Based on your previous posts, the only thing I think is CRYSTAL CLEAR is that your confused about the game, how to use it, and how to make it work to your advantage. Girls DO NOT place as much of an emphasis on looks as guys do. Yes, IT IS very important to them, but its not the deal breaker. The deal breaker is your attitude and how you make them feel. If every girl you meet is telling you that your a d-ick its NOT because your "too hot" for them (LOL) its because your game's not tight.

Clearly there's a difference between a girl not inviting you to a graduation party because she thinks your a d-ick and a girl slapping on the shoulder and calling you mean, while smiling.



PIMP

 

[jigga23]

pimpsicle- i know what you are saying yea that one girl i was asking you about i was being a d1ck to her cause she was being a b1tch and trying to manipulate me but thats the only time a d1ck to anyone. the thing is girls that im not even running any game whatsoever on think im a d1ck like no conversations ever. they are judging a book by its cover.

 

[DJDamage]

Maybe you are just a d1ck and that is what you are good for lol

I think it has to do with your social interaction. Girls who like a guy who doesn't pay them any attention will think that he is a d1ck and will warn other chicks about it to make them feel good so that you won't get any because you weren't nice to them.

When you go out with a large group of people do you only socialize with the pretty girls?? that is being a d1ck. You need to be a laid back guy that socialize with everyone and in a good mood and won't treat the girls diffrenetly then each other, this way you will get a good rep. That is why in order not to hurt fugly's feelings, you isolate the girl you want to fvck so they don't feel bad while you are writing down her number.

Or

As long as you are still getting plenty of ass, just don't give a fvck.

DJD

 

[Rovalier]

Yes, being good looking can work against you as well. Check out this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=18309

Toning down on the ****y and funny routine helps compensate a bit. As far as I am concerned, as long as you are congruent and content with who you are and what you have accomplished, don't let the pessemists get at you.

 

[jigga23]

dj damage i agree with you completely. i recently came to the conclusion that yea these girls find me attractive and i dont give them the time of day = me a d1ckhead = get revenge on me for making them feel that way = raising their self esteem through dissing me if i try anything later on. correct equation right?

 

[blinkwatt]

If they think you a "dcik" tell them to suck you. Who cares,Im called a "as5" none stop and yet I get all the numbers and dates that anyone can ask for. Sarge on!:rockon:

 

[OfficeSpace]

I have the same problem at my school bro. All these girls talk about how I'm a player, d1ck, arrogant, ****y, and they've never even really talked to me! I talked to one of the girls and asked her if she thought I was arrogant... Basically asked her if I was a d1ck... She said: "to lots of girls, yes."

I asked her why, and she said, I don't know... They just do...

I'm guessin that, like you, being good looking some people misinterpret who you are! I have just learned to ignore it... Who cares, I won't be going out with any of those girls any time soon. They're ugly!

 

[mrRuckus]

When you go out with a large group of people do you only socialize with the pretty girls?? that is being a d1ck.

No it's not.

 

[MagikDude]

I dunno. I know I look rather good, otherwise I would not be getting IOI's everywhere I go assuming I'm having a good day and in an obviously good mood, however, I notice if I take a little TOO much initiative, I get cast off as a Playa/****/Arse/Whatever. It also depends on where you are at. I just kinda focus on other things and Chicks just kinda follow for some reason, but heaven forbid I try to chat her up and get her number or oh no, I'm that bad man who just asked here out.

The odd part is, if a guy is so darn good looking that she's giggling, stuttering, and fumbling around, then why in the HELL would she cast him off as a playa, that's like me standing there with a 20 foot boner cross eyed and droolin' saying "oh no, I don't like her, she's ugly and has a fat arse....", lol.

 

[jigga23]

Yea but is my equation right? girls find me attractive and i dont give them the time of day = me a d1ckhead = get revenge on me (dissing me, being cold etc.) for making them feel that way = raising their self esteem. Yea if any girl thinks that of me they can go fvck themselves. Ive had girls say your a such a ****y d1ck in a serious manner then im in their freakin bed. Its weird they despise you for being like that then they want to fvck you.

 

[DJDamage]

No it's not.

For the fugly girls in the crowd it is. That is what happens in a social dynamics of a group. For example If you went out with a bunch of girls and guys and one of the HB completley tries to ignore you and stick to the guys she thought were attractive without any attempt to interact with you, you would think she was a shallow b1tch with a bad taste right??!!

It works better if you are friendly to everyone and social because you get a better social proof and thus even the fugly won't have anything bad to say against you and attempt to c0ckblock you by telling sh1t to the HB's in the group. There is no reason to ignore someone just because they are unattractive but you don't have to pick them up.

DJD

 

[DJDamage]

Yea but is my equation right? girls find me attractive and i dont give them the time of day = me a d1ckhead = get revenge on me (dissing me, being cold etc.) for making them feel that way = raising their self esteem. Yea if any girl thinks that of me they can go fvck themselves. Ive had girls say your a such a ****y d1ck in a serious manner then im in their freakin bed. Its weird they despise you for being like that then they want to fvck you.

It is right as long as you are constantly tapping the asses of other HB's, then you are fine. If all girls think you are a d1ck and don't sleep with you then you need to adjust your behaviour and attitude.

DJD

 

[omgsurf]

Dude i have the same problem, im labled as an ******* though. I dont know why though. One of my good friends hangs out at this bar with a bunch of his friends and everytime i go there these girls pretty much **** block me. I guess there pissed off because my friend was trying to get with this girl who was on vacation and he was getting no where with it so i asked him if i could have it and he said go for it. So i got some and now all his friends(mainly the girls) think im some ******* of a slut. Now i get **** blocked by these *****es whenever i talk to a girl, theyll go up to them and tell them how much of an ******* i am. I was meaning to make a post about this, cuz id really like to clear my rep as well.

 

[khash]

dude, let me tell you something. if you trully are VERY good looking( what you might think might be actually different than what you really are LOLL), then that is why they are calling you a ****. girls are pathetic and they are jelous ****s. If you dont pay them attention, it kills them because this society teaches them that it is the guys that should flock on them. you are doing the EXACT reverse. WAY TO GO MY MAN.

BUTT... you are doing alot of things wrong. DONT start changing ur attitude because girls will think u were faking and they will lose all the respect for you. gradually start casually talking to ALL sorts of chicks from ugly to beautiful. but still dont give them too much attention. these chicks right now want to reject you REALLY bad, because they wanna kill your ego. you must ISOLATE them and run the bible on them very carefully and they WILL love it.

However, if you talk to them infront of their friens, they will try to ignore you cuz their friends are watching and they wanna get respected amongst their friends by disrespecting you. maintain your mindframe though, they are ALL under you.

I know this because i was in your situation. I sarted becomeing nice to the chicks and they started turning the tables on me. AKA, I FAILED THEIR TEST. they are just testing your strength man, dont change your attitude because they want you to. simply use your current attitude in your favour, thats all you gotta do.

ez

 

[Vulpine]

Being known isn't a bad thing!

Someone hating you is better than them being indifferent. Indifference is the opposite of love, not hate. I've converted many a hater into sex partner with ease.

Look at it this way: You're infamous. Everyone in local social cirlcles knows of you and of your exploits. Sure, it's not for good things, but "everyone" knows of you.

So, when you are meeting some of these women, some of them will be "hey, I've heard of you from blah blah blah... I heard you're a real player azzhole." That's your golden opportunity: "I heard that's the buzz... truth is, there are a few ladies that I didn't care to have relations with, and, you know... "hell hath no fury"....meh, rumors are rumors, *shrug shoulders* can't do much about them."

You can easily discount reputations when you meet new people. So, you being known as a d!ck can work more IN your favor than against. You change the frame from "I'm a d!ck" to "I am a valuable commodity, and women are jealous that they can't have me." with a few simple sentences. Futhermore, you can flip the qualifying back with something like: "You aren't so naiive that you actually believed that, are you?" or "Don't tell me you actually thought that was true. I had you pegged as being a little sharper than that." or even "I can't STAND drama. Are you a drama queen or what?"

I've been in the exact same situation, my rep started preceeding me. I found that when you throw out someting similar to what I laid out above, then cut the conversation short - the shorter the better - the woman's IL increases. She'll have time to think about it, do a little research, realize that bitter women do things like spread rumors and discredit what she heard, and likely flip-flop... she'll go from "hating" you to "chasing" you.

 

[jigga23]

Vulpine and Khash - I agree with you on everything you said. I still keep the mindframe but yea i should switch over to the commodity one. I was trying to game this girl who thought i was the hugest ****y d1ck and next thing you know i was in her bed. but i didnt bust anything on her cause i know she was trying to play me. she got her revenge on me infront of her best friend. we hung out a couple of weeks later after i didnt bone and i asked her to come home with me and she rejected me basically in front of her friend. I just told her straight up that are you afraid im going to reject u again, etc. and im goiong to chill out with talking to you. now she thinks im really a d1ck and probably wont reply to me for a while. But if i see her again gurantee shell come up and try to talk and ill probably bone that night.

That sh1t is true they want revenge on your a$$ and bring you down (which they really cant) espically in front of their friends. Its so funny. Ill reverse the qualifying which should probably work. It so funny my brother always is yelling at me to change my attitude about girls and be humble, fvck that.

 

[seek&destroy]

I might be wrong but I think that the girl who was being a b!tch to you might have spread the word about you being a d!ck to her and now all the girls that know her think you are one too.

 

[mrRuckus]

For the fugly girls in the crowd it is. That is what happens in a social dynamics of a group. For example If you went out with a bunch of girls and guys and one of the HB completley tries to ignore you and stick to the guys she thought were attractive without any attempt to interact with you, you would think she was a shallow b1tch with a bad taste right??!!

No i don't see any reason to think ill of a girl for that. I have a brain and no desire to screw people over like shallow ugly girls do who can't stay away from pie or follow directions to the gym. I don't have any expectations at all of every girl liking me or thinking i'm attractive. Damn right i give less attention to weak willed fatties who can't control their make up kits and get winded walking up two flights of stairs. I pay less attention to and have less respect for smokers too. I expect a lot of out of people. They can *think* I'm a d1ck but that doesn't make me one. I don't expect any more out of someone than I would out of myself... and i don't owe anyone my attention just because they're present. Come give me a reason to give you my attention if you gotta have it.

Girls ignore me all the time. That doesn't mean i go around lieing to my friends about them so they won't want to talk to those girls. People suck ass.

But if you (general you) must really cater to and kiss every girl in the group's ass because you want some prettier girl in the group who can't make decisions for herself about you I guess that's cool.